Ruan Weideman, a vibrant 16-year-old grade 11 student from Tzaneen, Limpopo, attending Ben Vorster High School with dreams as big as his heart, was hit hard with life changing news on February 1st, 2024. What started as a routine dentist visit revealed a nightmare lurking within his upper jaw—a rare and aggressive tumour, threatening not only his health but his very future. In the blink of an eye, Ruan’s life took an unexpected turn, plunging him into a whirlwind of shock and fear.
‘Ruan is a child who has an incredibly strong spirit and protective nature. He is admired for his determination and kindness and has a deep love for animals and others. His caring heart makes everyone feel special just to be near him. He is extremely calm and rational. Although he is an introvert, he does love spending lots of quality time with family and friends. He is a joy and comfort to all, respectful, and has impeccable manners!’ says Ruan’s mum, Nadine
Pictured above: 16-year-old Ruan Weideman
As one half of identical twins, Ruan has always been an extraordinary young man—bright, hardworking, and filled with an infectious zest for life. But now, his world has been turned upside down by the relentless growth of an Odontogenic Myxoma, a non-malignant tumour wreaking havoc in his upper jaw. This insidious growth is not only destroying tissue but also creeping dangerously close to vital structures, including his brain.
‘The tumour is growing aggressively faster than expected and has now burst through into Ruan’s mouth. It causes light bleeding which causes nausea. The tumour is shedding into his mouth, and he has small sores and blisters inside his mouth which causes pain and discomfort. The part of the tumour that is growing laterally inside his right nostril, gets irritated and he struggles with breathing and sinus-like symptoms. He also finds it difficult to eat. The right side of his face is slightly distended and he struggles to concentrate for long periods of time and gets headaches frequently.’ explains Nadine
Pictured above: Ruan with his mum Nadine and his twin Erard
With each passing day, the tumour’s relentless expansion brings forth new complications, raising the stakes for Ruan’s treatment and recovery. Specialists emphasise the urgency of specialised surgery to halt its progression and safeguard his future. However, this lifeline comes at an exorbitant cost, one that weighs heavily on a family already burdened by tragedy.
Ruan’s family, led by a single mother of three, has already weathered the storm of loss when Ruan and his twin brother Erard were just nine years old, their dad was suddenly taken from them. Now, faced with the looming spectre of this rare tumour, they find themselves grappling with the daunting reality of medical expenses they simply cannot afford.
‘When Ruan was diagnosed it felt as if my whole world was about to collapse and I could not help but feel extremely sad and shocked for what was happening to my son. I was in total disbelief! How could this happen to someone so undeserving? I felt helpless and alone, scared of losing him and unsure of what I could do to help. I was not prepared to lose another loved one! But now I feel that God has sent an army of angels along our way, strengthened our support system and guided us along the way. We have courage. We have strength. We have hope!’ Nadine tell us.
The road ahead is fraught with challenges, but Ruan refuses to let fear dictate his fate. He dreams of a future where he can pursue his passions and aspirations, but time is not on his side. Urgent action is needed to raise the necessary funds for his specialised surgery and hospitalisation, including the expertise of surgeons and the crucial support of mental health professionals.
Pictured above: Ruan Weideman
‘All Ruan wants is to be tumour free! To be able to eat properly, speak normally, to one day have a perfect smile and teeth. To be healthy again, to be able to go to the gym again and to visit his friends on his (imaginary) motorbike!’ says Nadine
To help alleviate the burdens of the looming medical bills, Ruan’s family has started a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where they have already raised over R74 000 of their R900 000 goal with the help of 55 incredible donors.
The money raised will help Ruan get the life saving operation he desperately needs. The hope of Mone and her family is to raise enough money so that Ruan’s future medical needs are taken care of as he will need to be monitored for tumour recurrence, statistically this tumour has a 30% recurrence. Frequent amendments to his obturator, scans, speech therapy and reconstructive surgery, and more medical needs are also included.
‘Ruan is extremely grateful for all the help and he is blown away by how much people care for those who truly need it. He is looking to the future with hope and positivity and wants to become a Dentist one day.’ says Nadine