by Simbulele Jezile | Oct 25, 2024 | Campaign, Impact
Warren Meyer (43), a devoted father and Senior Sales and Marketing Manager from Fourways, Gauteng, has left behind a legacy of generosity and love that continues to impact lives. On July 20, 2024, Warren suffered a cardiac arrest, after fighting in the ICU for 5 days, he sadly lost his life, but his selfless act of organ donation saved 9 lives, making him a true hero in life and beyond. His wife, Suzette (41), now shares his story to honour his life and raise awareness about the profound impact of organ donation while hoping to secure a future for their three daughters: Mila (12), Emily (10), and Olivia (5).
A Devoted Father and a Heroic Act
Warren was not only known for his hard work as a Senior Sales and Marketing Manager for a property development company but also for his immense love for his family. His wife, Suzette, shared, “Warren was a fantastic dad—very hands-on and a devoted husband. His family was his life.” Each of their daughters held a special place in Warren’s heart. “Our eldest excelled in drama and running, our middle daughter plays in the boys’ A soccer team, and our youngest was the apple of his eye. We were incredibly blessed to have a father and husband like Warren,” Suzette recalled fondly.
Warren’s generosity extended beyond his home, with his decision to become an organ donor rooted in his desire to give. “Warren was very generous; he would give his last R100 to someone in need and then go without.” Suzette shared. Despite the unimaginable grief of losing her husband, she is deeply moved by Warren’s final act of kindness. “Our loss was the answer to so many prayers; that is not something you get to give every day,” she reflected.
Picture above: Warren and Suzette Meyer
A Walk of Honour: Saying Goodbye to a Hero
When Warren sadly passed, the family faced a devastating reality. Suzette and their daughters spent a heart-breaking week watching Warren fight, only to have to let him go. On the day of his organ donation, staff at Life Hospital organised a solemn “walk of honour” to celebrate Warren’s bravery and compassion. Friends, family, hospital staff, and strangers lined the corridors, singing hymns as Warren made his final journey to the operating room.
“It was the most heart-breaking yet utterly beautiful thing I have ever experienced,” Suzette said. “The nurses were humming a hymn, and there were so many people lining the halls—doctors, nurses, friends, family, colleagues, strangers—all there to pay their last respects to a hero I could call my husband.”
Suzette expressed her appreciation for the hospital staff and the Organ Donor Foundation for their compassion and respect during such a difficult time. For Suzette and her daughters, this display of unity and respect helped bring a sense of peace amid their sorrow. “They treated Warren with the utmost respect right up until after the ‘harvest surgery,’ when they led me through to see him one last time and kiss him goodbye,” she shared, emphasising the compassionate care and support they received.
Honouring Warren’s Legacy and Supporting His Daughters
In the wake of this loss, Suzette has launched a crowdfunding campaign to secure a stable future for their three daughters, who are now without their father’s support. “Going from being ‘okay’ to being a single-income family is frightening and stressful,” she explained. Despite these challenges, Suzette wants to ensure her daughters have everything they need to heal and thrive.
The campaign has raised over R185,000 from 222 generous donors, with a goal of R250,000 to cover immediate and future expenses.
“What you have done by donating is give me and my girls one more day, week, and month, allowing us to heal our hearts instead of panicking about what we will do next month. Our life insurance did not pay out, so going from being “ok” to being a single income-earning family is frightening and stressful. Warren left behind three extraordinary and talented little girls. I want to make sure they have everything they need so that life does not burden them; they have already lost one of the most important people in their lives, and they do not need more stress at this young age”, Suzette expressed gratefully.
Picture above: Warren and his daughters, Mila, Emily, and Olivia.
She remains deeply moved by the support her family has received, adding, “I am eternally grateful to all the donors for their kindness. May you be blessed because you blessed someone else in their time of need.” The Meyer family’s story is a poignant reminder of the profound impact one person’s decision can have on the lives of many.
To support the Meyer family, visit their campaign here:
To register as an organ donor, visit the Organ Donation Foundation of South Africa at www.odf.org.za or your local health department. By becoming an organ donor, you can help ensure that your legacy lives on through the lives you touch.
“How can you be unsure about saving lives? Seven to nine lives can be saved, and you can make a difference to up to 21 lives. You take nothing with you when you pass on; instead, you leave the gift behind for someone else to live,” says Suzette, offering these heartfelt words for those unsure about organ donation.
Picture above: Warren Meyer
by Simbulele Jezile | Oct 24, 2024 | Campaign, Resource Hub
In South Africa, many people face significant challenges accessing healthcare due to the high costs of medical aid. Thankfully, there are several resources and support options available to help those in need. Below, we outline ways to receive medical assistance without medical aid, including crowdfunding, NGOs, apps, social media groups, and more.
Crowdfunding for Medical Expenses
Crowdfunding can be a lifeline when facing high medical costs. Through BackaBuddy, you can share your story and connect with a community that cares, enabling you to raise funds for crucial medical treatments, ongoing care, and emergency procedures. Whether you’re dealing with a long-term condition, sudden illness, or need help with post-operative expenses, crowdfunding can be a powerful way to seek financial support and reach those willing to help.
Public Healthcare Facilities
Public healthcare facilities in South Africa offer essential medical services, from chronic medication and emergency care to maternity and preventative services.
Here’s a list of key public hospitals in each province to contact if you need affordable medical care:
- Gauteng: Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital – Contact: (011) 933 8000
- Western Cape: Groote Schuur Hospital – Contact: (021) 404 9111
- KwaZulu-Natal: Inkosi Albert Luthuli Central Hospital – Contact: (031) 240 1000
- Eastern Cape: Livingstone Hospital – Contact: (041) 405 9111
- Free State: Pelonomi Tertiary Hospital – Contact: (051) 405 1911
- Limpopo: Mankweng Hospital – Contact: (015) 286 1000
- Mpumalanga: Rob Ferreira Hospital – Contact: (013) 741 6100
- North West: Klerksdorp-Tshepong Hospital – Contact: (018) 406 4600
- Northern Cape: Kimberley Hospital – Contact: (053) 802 9111
Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) and Charities
NGOs and charities can offer crucial support if you’re struggling to access healthcare services:
- Doctors Without Borders (MSF): Provides medical care to communities in crisis, regardless of financial constraints. Visit Doctors Without Borders for more information.
- Gift of the Givers: Known for stepping in where help is most needed, Gift of the Givers offers assistance with medical care and supplies. Learn more at Gift of the Givers.
Free and Low-Cost Medication
If you need chronic medication or support with regular health needs, there are pharmacies and organisations dedicated to helping:
- Dis-Chem Clinic Services: Hosts free health screenings and immunisation drives at various times of the year. Learn more at Dis-Chem Clinic Services.
- Public Clinics: Many government-run clinics offer chronic medication dispensing and health services at no cost to those who qualify.
Apps for Medical Assistance
Accessing affordable healthcare can be as simple as downloading the right app:
- Hello Doctor: Provides low-cost, online consultations with qualified doctors. Visit Hello Doctor.
- Alfajiri Health: Connects you to mental health professionals and wellness services. Visit Alfajiri Health.
- Vula Mobile: Designed for healthcare workers to make referrals, especially useful for rural patients needing specialist care. Visit Vula Mobile.
Social Media Groups and Support Communities
Online communities can be a great source of practical advice, emotional support, and information on accessing affordable healthcare:
- Medical Advice South Africa (Facebook Group): A community where members share experiences and advice about healthcare. Join the group on Facebook.
- CANSA (Cancer Association of South Africa): Offers information and emotional support for those affected by cancer. Connect with them on Facebook or Instagram.
- SADAG (South African Depression and Anxiety Group): A dedicated mental health support group with resources and guidance. Follow them on Facebook or visit SADAG.
Influencers Advocating for Healthcare Access
Some influencers actively share healthcare information and promote accessible care:
Media Outlets Highlighting Healthcare Access
A few media outlets are committed to covering healthcare issues and sharing resources:
- Bhekisisa Centre for Health Journalism: Reports on public health challenges and solutions. Visit Bhekisisa.
- Health-E News: Focuses on stories related to healthcare access and public health. Visit Health-E.
Telemedicine Services
Telemedicine is a growing way to consult with healthcare professionals at an affordable cost:
- Kena Health: Provides low-cost virtual consultations. Your first consultation is free. Learn more at Kena Health.
- MediClubSA: Offers consultations via WhatsApp or phone calls at an affordable price. Visit MediClubSA.
Mobile Health Clinics
Mobile health clinics serve communities with limited healthcare access, often free of charge:
- Phelophepa Health Train: Known as the ‘train of hope,’ this service offers comprehensive healthcare to rural communities. Learn more at Phelophepa Health Train.
- PinkDrive: A mobile unit providing free breast cancer screening services. Visit PinkDrive.
University Clinics and Teaching Hospitals
University clinics and teaching hospitals often offer affordable care under the supervision of professionals:
- University of Pretoria Teaching Hospital: Provides medical, dental, and psychological services at reduced rates. Visit their website.
- Wits Donald Gordon Medical Centre: Offers specialised services at accessible prices. Visit Wits Donald Gordon Medical Centre.
Legal and Financial Assistance for Medical Bills
Sometimes legal or financial support can ease the burden of medical bills:
- Legal Aid South Africa: Offers free legal representation, including healthcare-related cases. Visit Legal Aid SA.
If you’re navigating health challenges, remember there’s help available. From raising funds with BackaBuddy to seeking care from public health facilities, there are many routes to receive the medical assistance you need. Let’s continue to support each other and spread the word about these valuable resources.
by Simbulele Jezile | Oct 9, 2024 | Campaign, Resource Hub
Homelessness in South Africa is a growing concern, impacting individuals and families across all provinces. At BackaBuddy, we understand the importance of providing resources and support to those in need. This guide offers insights on supporting loved ones who may be experiencing homelessness, how to communicate compassionately, and a comprehensive list of shelters across South Africa.
Understanding Stigmas and Causes of Homelessness
Addressing homelessness requires empathy and awareness of the many factors contributing to it. Unfortunately, some stigmas persist that can prevent effective support and understanding. Here’s what you need to know:
- Common Causes
- Economic Hardships: Job loss, low wages, or insufficient affordable housing are significant contributors.
- Health Issues: Both physical and mental health challenges can affect a person’s ability to maintain employment or stable housing.
- Family Disruption: Domestic violence, family conflict, or loss of a family member can lead individuals to homelessness.
- Lack of Support Services: Without access to mental health care, job training, or rehabilitation services, many struggle to regain stability.
- Common Stigmas
- Laziness or Lack of Motivation: Many believe those experiencing homelessness are unwilling to work, overlooking systemic challenges they face.
- Substance Abuse: Although addiction may contribute to homelessness for some, many affected individuals struggle with complex mental health and economic issues.
- Criminal History: A past conviction can limit access to stable employment or housing, pushing some into homelessness.
How to Support a Loved One Experiencing Homelessness
Supporting someone facing homelessness can be challenging, but small, meaningful actions can make a big difference. What can you do?
- Listen with Empathy
Approach conversations with openness and empathy. Just being present can help them feel valued and less isolated.
- Offer Practical Assistance
- Provide essential items like a meal, warm clothing, hygiene products, or transport fare to meet immediate needs.
- Support them through fundraising on platforms like BackaBuddy, where crowdfunding campaigns can help secure essentials, temporary housing, or job training resources.
- Encourage Steps Forward
Offer hope by encouraging small, manageable steps toward stability, such as exploring job training or reaching out to shelters for transitional housing.
Communicating with Respect and Compassion
When speaking to someone who is experiencing homelessness, an empathetic, respectful approach can make all the difference. Here’s how:
- Be Respectful: Address them as an equal, using their name if known.
- Listen Actively: Let them share without interrupting or judging.
- Ask Open-Ended Questions: Invite them to share what kind of support would be most helpful.
- Offer Help, Not Solutions: Ask how you can assist instead of assuming what they need.
- Respect Boundaries: Recognize their need for privacy and personal space.
- Show Compassion: Sometimes just knowing someone cares can make a difference.
Legal Rights of Homeless Individuals
In South Africa, there are rights in place to protect and support those experiencing homelessness. Being aware of these can provide some relief:
- Access to Shelter: Municipalities are encouraged to provide emergency shelter to those in need.
- Right to Dignity and Privacy: The South African Constitution safeguards dignity and privacy for everyone, regardless of their living situation.
- Access to Health and Social Services: Free healthcare and emergency housing assistance are available for those in crisis.
Immediate Resources for Those in Crisis
In times of crisis, knowing where to turn for help can be life-changing. If someone is experiencing homelessness or a crisis, here’s where they can get help:
Emergency Contacts
- Police / Ambulance: 10111
- National Gender-Based Violence Hotline: 0800 428 428
- Suicide Crisis Line: 0800 567 567
- Lifeline South Africa: 0861 322 322 (counseling services)
Mental Health Support
Job Training and Skills Development
- YES (Youth Employment Service): Employment experience for youth, enhancing employability.
- SETA Programs: Free training programs in various industries. Visit the SAQA SETA Program Page for more information.
Shelters Across South Africa
Providing safe shelter is essential. Below is a list of shelters in South Africa that offer housing, food, counseling, and other supportive services.
| No. |
Area |
Name of Shelter |
Email |
Phone Number |
| 1 |
Port Elizabeth |
Port Elizabeth Shelter |
[email protected] |
041 484 0511 |
| 2 |
East London |
East London Shelter |
[email protected] |
043 722 6166 |
| No. |
Area |
Name of Shelter |
Email |
Phone Number |
| 1 |
Bloemfontein |
Bloemfontein Night Shelter |
[email protected] |
051 430 7601 |
| 2 |
Welkom |
Welkom Shelter |
[email protected] |
057 352 0936 |
| No. |
Area |
Name of Shelter |
Email |
Phone Number |
| 1 |
Polokwane |
Polokwane Night Shelter |
[email protected] |
015 292 4620 |
| 2 |
Thohoyandou |
Thohoyandou Shelter |
t[email protected] |
015 962 5050 |
| No. |
Area |
Name of Shelter |
Email |
Phone Number |
| 1 |
Kimberley |
Kimberley Shelter |
[email protected] |
053 831 0371 |
Getting Involved Locally
Homelessness can feel overwhelming, but local efforts make a difference. Here’s how you can help:
- Volunteer at Shelters: Offer time or skills to support local shelters.
- Organize Donation Drives: Collect essentials like blankets, hygiene products, and clothing.
- Advocate for Change: Engage with community leaders to promote affordable housing, healthcare, and job programs.
Be a Lifeline: Support, Donate, or Champion the Cause
- SuperTroupers Campaign: Donate here to support vital resources for individuals and families in need.
- PMB Homeless Network: Become a Champion and join a movement dedicated to transforming lives.
If you’re looking for more ways to get involved or want to learn about additional resources, visit BackaBuddy and become part of the change.
by Simbulele Jezile | Oct 1, 2024 | Campaign, Tips
At BackaBuddy, we cherish our diverse donor community and are committed to protecting your trust. To keep our platform secure and transparent, our dedicated team works diligently to verify every crowdfunding campaign before processing payouts and activating charity profiles.
We want you to know that these processes are designed to uphold the values of trust and goodwill. They reflect our commitment to our community, not a judgment on your cause or efforts.
How It Works
When donations come in, they’re safely held in the BackaBuddy bank account until we can verify your campaign and ensure it’s ready for payout. Whenever you’re ready, simply log in and submit your documents.
Just a heads-up: your verification documents will only be reviewed after we receive your first donation. Our team is here for you, so please allow up to 5 working days for feedback on your submission.
How Do I Get My Campaign Verified?
To make the verification process as smooth as possible and to ensure a prompt payout for your campaign, please follow these friendly steps:
- Log in to your account.
- Navigate to the menu and click on Profile.
- Go to My Campaigns, then click the down arrow next to your campaign.
- Select Manage Campaign, then click on Verification.
- Submit the requested documents and banking details.
What Documents Will Be Requested?
Proof of Identity of the Campaign Creator (choose one of the following):
- Identity document
- Passport
- Driver’s license
Supporting Documentation
Any documents that help clarify your campaign or explain its goals are welcome. Please ensure all submissions are legible and clear. Check out the next section for examples!
Banking Details
Please provide the bank account details where you’d like your funds sent. We’ll need proof of your bank account, ideally dated within the last 3 months.
*Please double-check you are inserting the correct account details.
How to Request Payout
Self-Managed Campaigns:
Once your campaign shows the verified badge, you’re all set for payout! When you’re ready, follow these simple steps:
- Log in to your profile.
- Go to Menu > Profile > My Campaigns.
- Click the down arrow next to your campaign > Manage Campaign.
- Select Payout Request.
Our finance team will take care of your request and typically requires up to 10 working days to process it.
Blue Tick Campaigns:
If you have a Blue Tick campaign, you’re in luck! It’s immediately eligible for payout. To request it, just follow these steps:
- Log in to your profile.
- Go to Menu > Profile > My Campaigns.
- Click the down arrow next to your campaign > Manage Campaign.
- Select Payout Request.
Don’t forget to submit a payout document with your request, such as an invoice, statement, or receipt for reimbursement. Just a little reminder: you can only request one payment at a time, so please wait until the previous one is completed before submitting another.
*Kindly double-check that the account number you have manually inserted matches the account number on the payout document.
Examples of Supporting Documents per category
Individuals
Medical
- Doctor’s report
- Medical report
- Medical aid letter
- Pharmacy account
- Hospital discharge note
- Hospital invoice
In Loving Memory
- Death certificate
- Funeral home invoice
Fire/Drought/Disaster Support
- Fire report
- Police report
- Invoices for replacing damaged goods
Education
- Fee statement
- Registration letter
- Acceptance letter
Sports
- Invitation to the sports event
- Letter confirming the intention to attend
Women & Girls
- Invoices for items to be purchased
- Letter from the organization if partnering
Animals
- Vet bill
- Invoice from the vet
Creative/Arts
- For art conventions (IMTA, iPOP, etc.) – invitation to the event
- For equipment (musical instruments/videography equipment) – invoices from the supplier
Food & Hunger
- Invoices from suppliers
- Receipt for items bought (for reimbursement)
Environment
- Permits – depending on the intended use of funds
- Invoices for equipment
Children
- If clothes are being purchased – invoices for clothing
- If for school fees – fee statement per child
- If raising funds for a school – a letter from the school principal
Community Development
- If partnering with a charity/organization – a letter confirming the intent of the campaign
- Invoices for food items to be purchased (pay directly)
Business/App
- Business plans
- Business registration documents
- Budgets
Charities
- A valid NPO certificate
- Active social media pages (more than 1 year old)
- A clear image of the charity/NPO logo
Please remember that any documentation you submit won’t be displayed on your campaign page. However, they play a crucial role in our verification process, ensuring everything runs smoothly.
by Simbulele Jezile | Sep 30, 2024 | Campaign, Resource Hub
Navigating life after a cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone. Whether you’re seeking emotional support, medical funding, or guidance on nutrition and wellness, there are resources available to help you every step of the way. This guide brings together some of the most helpful tools for cancer patients, survivors, and their loved ones. From connecting with others who truly understand, to finding practical advice, these resources are here to remind you that hope and support are always within reach.
Crowdfunding for Medical Procedures: Accessing the Care You Need
The cost of cancer treatments can add stress to an already difficult situation. Crowdfunding provides a way to share your story and raise the funds needed for essential medical procedures. By reaching out to your community, you open the door for friends, family, and even strangers to contribute to your care. Each donation helps reduce the financial burden and brings you closer to getting the treatment you need.
At BackaBuddy, we offer a platform to share your story and raise funds for life-saving procedures. You’re not just raising funds—you’re building a network of people who care deeply about your health and well-being. Start your campaign on BackaBuddy.
Finding Your Cancer Buddy: Someone Who Gets It
Connecting with others who’ve faced similar challenges can make a world of difference. In South Africa, Cancer Buddies pairs you with someone who understands what you’re going through and offers emotional support. Sharing your journey with a cancer buddy can provide comfort, encouragement, and a sense of solidarity, reminding you that you are not alone in this fight.
Nutrition and Exercise: Strengthening Your Body Through Wellness
Focusing on nutrition and exercise is a positive way to take control of your health. South Africa’s CANSA offers nutritional guidance specifically for cancer patients, ensuring you’re nourishing your body in ways that support healing. Gentle exercise can also improve your strength and mood, giving you a sense of empowerment during your treatment.
Hospice Care: Comfort and Peace for You and Your Loved Ones
For those needing end-of-life care, hospice offers compassion and comfort. South Africa’s Hospice Palliative Care Association (HPCA) ensures that you and your family receive the care and support needed during this difficult time. Hospice services focus on providing dignity, peace, and relief from pain, helping families navigate these moments with care and respect.
Free Counseling and Emotional Support: A Space to Heal
The emotional toll of cancer can be just as significant as the physical one. In South Africa, CancerCare and PinkDrive provide free support services. PinkDrive focuses on early detection, education, and support for breast cancer patients, offering free mammograms and educational resources through their mobile clinics. Having someone to listen, provide guidance, or offer practical assistance can be a valuable source of strength during your cancer journey.
Clinical Trials: Exploring Advanced Treatment Options
Many cancer patients find hope in participating in clinical trials that test new treatments. The South African Clinical Trials Registry offers information about ongoing cancer trials. Globally, the National Cancer Institute (NCI) provides details about clinical trials for various types of cancer, offering opportunities for patients to access cutting-edge therapies.
Cancer Support Groups: Building a Community of Strength
In addition to one-on-one cancer buddies, local and online cancer support groups can offer community, comfort, and encouragement. Reach for Recovery is a South African-based volunteer organisation providing emotional and practical support to breast cancer patients. Globally, online platforms like Cancer Support Community allow patients and families to join virtual support groups, offering a safe space to share experiences and receive guidance.
Apps for Support and Organization
Technology can help make managing your care easier. The CANSA iSurvivor app, specifically designed for South African cancer patients, offers tailored information and support. Apps like CareZone can help organise medications, appointments, and important health details, allowing you to focus on your well-being without worrying about the logistics.
Books to Inspire and Guide You
Books can be a source of comfort and wisdom as you navigate the challenges of cancer. Here are a few that may resonate with you:
Social Media Support: Staying Connected
Social media platforms can provide real-time support and community engagement. Following organisations like CANSA on Facebook and Twitter keeps you informed about events, resources, and stories of hope. These networks remind you that, even online, you’re part of a larger community that’s rooting for your recovery.
You Are Never Alone
In this journey, remember that your diagnosis does not define you. You are part of a vast network of support, ready to stand by you through every challenge—be it financial, emotional, or practical. Your story is unique and powerful, and each step you take toward healing is a testament to your strength and resilience.
If you know someone who might benefit from this support, please share this resource with them. Your willingness to connect can make a meaningful difference in their journey.
