by Zane Groenewald | Feb 28, 2024 | Campaign, Impact
Zora Wegerif, a 22-year-old talented swimmer and part-time intern from Pretoria has qualified to represent South Africa in the Trisome Games 2024 – an international sporting event specifically for athletes with Down Syndrome. This prestigious competition is set to take place in Turkey from 19 – 26 March 2024, offering a platform for these exceptional athletes to showcase their talents on a global stage.
From early childhood, Zora’s affinity for water prompted her family to prioritize her safety through water safety classes. Independently swimming by the age of eight, Zora’s aquatic journey continued in South Africa with coach Tadhg Slattery and the Mandeville Dolphins Swim Club. Post-Covid lockdowns, she found a new home in the Swim4Life club, training rigorously four days a week.
Pictured above: Talented swimmer, Zora Wegerif
“Swimming has always been so important to Zora’s development. Because she has always competed and done well against swimmers with and without disabilities, swimming has been a space where she enters with confidence and determination to succeed.” says Marc, Zora’s dad.
Zora began competitively swimming in Tanzania, where her love for competitive swimming took root. Joining the Dar Swim Club, she became the only child with Down Syndrome in a group of diverse swimmers from different schools in Dar. Undeterred, Zora not only participated but excelled in swimming galas, fostering a love for the sport within an inclusive environment that pushed her to be the best version of herself.
Zora’s swimming prowess shone in national events, earning her two gold medals in the 2018 South Africa National Special Olympics qualifying gala and four bronze medals in the 2023 National Gala organized by the South African Sports Association for the Intellectually Impaired in Rustenburg. However, the path to the Trisome Games is marred by challenges stemming from the financial and administrative struggles of the official national association in South Africa.
Pictured above: Zora at her part-time internship at Kgololo Academy in Alexandra Township
“I am so excited to go to Turkey and I am working so hard to get strong for the games. I want to wear the South African colours proudly and wave our flag high.” says Zora excitedly.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Despite facing these hurdles, Zora’s commitment to her sport remains unyielding. To bridge the financial gap, Zora’s family launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, with a target of R35,925. The response from the community has been nothing short of heartwarming, with 32 donors contributing over R37,000, surpassing the initial goal.
Zora’s family extends heartfelt gratitude to all the donors who have played a crucial role in turning her dreams into reality. Their generosity not only covers the logistical and financial aspects of Zora’s journey to the Trisome Games but also advocates for inclusivity and equal opportunities in sports.
Pictured above: Zora and a teammate from her swim team
“To our friends, family, and strangers who have donated we are beyond grateful. So many who have donated have known Zora for all or most of her life and have witnessed her overcome challenges and rise above sometimes low expectations that are often based on prejudice and ignorance. We are so grateful for their friendship, support and love they have shown Zora”, the family concludes.
As Zora prepares to represent South Africa on the global stage, her story becomes a beacon of inspiration. It reminds us that, with unwavering support and determination, athletes like Zora can overcome challenges and compete on a level playing field. Your support has not only empowered Zora but also contributed to a narrative of triumph and inclusivity that resonates far beyond the pool.
by Zane Groenewald | Feb 21, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Sané Wilken (18), a passionate cattle farm worker from Boshoff, Free State, experienced a traumatic event on January 25, 2024, which profoundly altered her life’s trajectory. While engaged in a routine task, pouring fertiliser into a motorised water tank, Sané’s thumb unexpectedly got caught and twisted in the bag she was using, leading to a catastrophic sequence of events.
Pictured above: Sané Wilken
Despite the immediate danger and her attempts to free herself, the machinery relentlessly twisted the bag around her thumb, eventually breaking her wrist, and ultimately resulting in the complete severance of her forearm.
While Sané says her life has been forever changed due to the traumatic incident, she is determined not to let her define her future. Showing remarkable strength of character, Sané told her mother, Corila, in the emergency room, “It’s only an arm. I’m still alive to speak to you, and this will not get me down.”
Pictured above: Sané with her mother, Corila
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Since losing her arm, Sané is diligently working to adapt to her new circumstances. Her greatest challenges now stem from everyday tasks that she once performed effortlessly. Simple activities such as tying her hair in the morning, getting dressed, eating, and playing with her cherished dogs have become notably more difficult.
While doctors estimate that it could take 6 to 12 months for Sané’s arm to heal, her mother has initiated a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy to purchase a state-of-the-art bionic arm for her. This advanced prosthetic, equipped with sensors that interpret muscle and brain signals, is intended to help Sané regain the confidence and independence she has lost.
Pictured above: Sané Wilken
Since the campaign’s launch, more than R80,000 has been donated towards her fundraising goal of R400,000, with contributions from 50 donors.
Having recently completed her agricultural education, Sané, who has dreamed of becoming the best farmer she could be since she was a little girl, is counting the days until she can return to the work that feeds her spirit, lovingly tending to the crops and cattle.
Reflecting on the accident, Sané says, “It was a freak accident. There was nothing anyone could’ve done differently. It’s no one’s fault. I’m not ashamed of my ‘stompie’ and will show anyone who wants to see my arm and tell my story.”
Thanking her donors, Sané says, “They have given me a second chance. I can’t say thank you enough for the kindness I have received. I’m taking life day by day now, but I know that one day soon, I will be able to live as I did before the accident.”
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by Simbulele Jezile | Feb 21, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Monique Hayes, a vibrant 31-year-old mother of three from Marina da Gama – Muizenberg, was thrown into a whirlwind when a check-up in June 2023, led by the discovery of a lump in her groin, delivered devastating news. Initially diagnosed with a hernia, Monique underwent surgery only to discover she had an aggressive form of cancer—stage 4 anaplastic large cell lymphoma, which had spread to her liver.
Before the diagnosis, Monique’s life revolved around her family, filled with beach outings, road trips, and a bustling, independent lifestyle.
Image Caption: Monique Hayes with her family enjoying a pool day
However, the day of diagnosis shattered her world. Shocked and struggling to process the news, she grappled with anger and the existential question of “why me?” Reflecting on her journey, Monique expressed both the struggles and moments of joy amidst adversity.
She shared, “The emotional side of this journey has been a very long one with lots of ups and downs. My relationship with my loved ones was what kept me going.” Monique’s husband, his unwavering support, has been her rock throughout this challenging ordeal.
The treatment regimen has taken its toll, subjecting Monique to physical, emotional, and mental anguish.
She confessed, “The treatment has been torture.” However, her positivity to overcome shines through as she continues to fight for her life, motivated by the hope of a cancer-free future.
While facing limited community support, Monique draws strength from the love of her family and close friends. Witnessing her children’s happiness amidst her illness serves as a powerful motivator, underscoring the importance of love and support during tough times.
Despite the daunting diagnosis, Monique’s spirit remains unbroken.
She launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy in January 2024 to cover the overwhelming medical expenses that accompany her treatment. With a fundraising target of R100,000, the campaign has already garnered momentum from generous donors.
Image caption: Monique Hayes at hospital receiving treatment.
“Your generous donations will not only aid in covering the overwhelming medical expenses but will also help alleviate the weight of the numerous other bills that have gone unpaid. Your support, no matter the amount, would be immensely appreciated. Thank you for considering contributing to my cause.” says Monique.
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by Zane Groenewald | Feb 16, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Bill Du Plessis, a 36-year-old data analyst from Boksburg, faced a devastating accident that changed the course of his life forever, leaving him with an amputated leg and the hope of acquiring a new prosthetic leg.
Pictured above: Bill Du Plessis
Six years ago in 2017, Bill faced a life-altering event – a motorbike accident which took place during a motorsport photography session that set in motion a series of challenges that would test the limits of his courage. The accident left Bill with the bones in his left ankle shattered and was told that he could not get an ankle replacement because he was under 50. This left him with only one option, to have his ankle fused back together. However, during the third operation which took place in a government hospital aspiring medical students who were operating on Bill, inadvertently damaged the main arteries in his left leg, casting an unforeseen shadow over Bill’s future.
“My life has changed a lot. Before the accident I was a very active person, running with my dog and playing indoor soccer. But, since the operation to fuse my ankle, I have not been able to run or play soccer at all anymore.” says Bill.
Pictured above: Bill with his dog Blaze at the beach
Fast forward to December 2022, a month that marked the onset of a new and agonizing chapter. The blood supply to Bill’s foot, the same leg that bore the scars of those earlier operations, ceased. February 2023, however, brought a glimmer of hope with a bypass attempt on one of the three arteries from below Bill’s knee to his foot. However, after wasting time and putting Bill on a waiting list for the bypass, it was too late when they operated as two of the arteries totally collapsed and were not functioning at all and the third one was so brittle that they could not attempt the bypass on it. A subsequent operation, just three days later, was necessitated by the formation of a hematoma under one of the incisions. The pain that followed over the next month was unbearable, leading to the inevitable – the urgent amputation of Bill’s leg in March 2023.
“We often take things for granted in life until they are taken away from us. Even the simplest things, like holding my girlfriend’s hand while walking, seems like a luxury now. My life has completely changed after the accident, and thereafter the amputation. I am no longer the same person. Everything is much harder for me now, and even the people in my life have changed. Some I thought would support me are nowhere to be seen. I have been on crutches for so long that I do not even remember what it feels like to walk. Although I consider myself a strong person, there are days when it all gets too much for me.” explains Bill.
The past 10 months have been a relentless battle, with wound care and physiotherapy becoming the norm, a painful routine that Bill endures three times a week. Amidst this struggle, tragedy struck again as Bill’s father, Marius Du Plessis, a pillar of support, passed away at 59-years-old in April 2023 due to heart failure, just 15 days after Bill’s amputation.
Pictured above: Bill with his dad Marius and his dog Blaze
Through the harrowing journey of physical and emotional pain, Bill remains strong. He faces each day with a determination that leaves everyone in awe. The gym has become his sanctuary, a place where he channels his resilience into daily training, embracing a healthy lifestyle that speaks volumes about his character.
“I wake up every morning at 4am to go to the gym. It gives me a sense of normality and allows me to push myself as much as my body allows. The gym is the only place where I have control over my body and can see changes and growth, both physically and mentally. I have always lived a fit and healthy lifestyle, and losing my leg was not going to stop me from continuing on that path. My goal is to inspire and motivate others in my position, to show them that they too can make a difference and continue getting stronger one day at a time.” Bill says.
Pictured above: Bill at his sanctuary, the gym
Yet, as Bill dreams of a future where he can run, hike, and simply hold hands while walking, the financial burden of medical bills looms large. The hope for a new prosthetic leg seems distant, with a quote of R126,500 standing between him and the freedom to move as he once did.
“I have been dealing with numerous medical bills for years and as a result, I can’t afford to buy a prosthetic leg. The prosthetic leg that I was quoted for will not only make me more active but also give me a sense of normalcy again. If I can raise enough money through BackaBuddy, it will give me hope and make my dream of walking again a reality.” explains Bill.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Bill has launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where he has already raised over R40 000 towards his R126 500 goal with the help of 12 wonderful donors.
Pictured above: Bill with his girlfriend Kathrine Robinson
“I would like to express my heartfelt appreciation to those who have contributed to my campaign. It’s the kind and empathetic people who are willing to put themselves in someone else’s “shoes” that truly leave a lasting impression on my heart. Donating towards my prosthetics will give me a new lease on life and greatly aid in my journey towards recovery and increased mobility.” concludes Bill.
His pride and bravery radiate in the face of adversity, and his unwavering commitment to healing and recovery is nothing short of remarkable.
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by Zane Groenewald | Feb 13, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Greg Dennis (35), a group account director, and his wife Bianca (33), an interior designer from Johannesburg have embarked on a unique journey to welcome baby Dennis into their lives, through IVF.
Greg and Bianca’s love story began when they met in a nightclub in 2009 and after realizing that Bianca hadn’t really taken to him at first, Greg played the long game and crept into her DM’s to see how he could get to spend more time with her, and well, we can say that it all worked out in his favor.
Pictured above: Young Greg and Bianca Dennis during their early dating days
“We dated for about 4 years before I proposed to her on a beach in Cape Town. We were engaged for about 2 years and then we had the most beautiful wedding in 2016. It was only then did we move in with each other, bought our first house together, had fur-babies, and the rest is history.” says Greg.
Their story is woven with moments of joy, laughter, and companionship, but the missing piece of their puzzle is the sound of a child’s laughter. After getting married, Greg and Bianca decided to spend the first 2-3 years of their marriage enjoying each other’s company, and going on adventures with the plan to try to have a family a bit later on in their lives. But, the couple reached a pivotal point in their quest for parenthood as they faced a tumultuous emotional rollercoaster when they were faced with the harsh reality of infertility, and doctors recommended IVF as the next step.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca at their engagement photoshoot
“We can’t help but think that if we only knew that we would struggle to have a baby after waiting we probably would have started sooner. Becoming parents has always been a part of our planned life and not knowing the amount of hurdles we would encounter along the way is heartbreaking. But, if there’s one thing I know is that Bianca would be the most amazing mom. Caring, nurturing, a little crazy, but the best mom ever.” says Greg.
However, the financial burden associated with IVF presented an unforeseen challenge. So they tried other routes, along the more natural path as well as medicated. When this did not work out, Greg and Bianca spoke to friends and family and that’s where they were given the suggestion of crowdfunding for IVF.
“We were hesitant to ask people for money. But, others assured us that it’s a brave thing to do, it’s got a good cause and everyone would be open to donating. So we did it” explains Greg.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca at their wedding in 2016
Motivated and with encouragement from their loved ones, Greg and Bianca decided to share their story and raise funds for their IVF journey, along with a heartwarming and creative idea. They introduced a 1000-piece puzzle, where supporters could contribute financially and have their names written on the back of the puzzle pieces. This beautiful mosaic of love and support will find its place in Baby Dennis’s nursery, symbolizing the unity of a community that came together to make a dream come true.
“We came across the idea of the puzzle a while back and always thought it would be a great way to always think of the journey we went through, the people who supported us, and something for baby Dennis to remember how loved they are. We’re also a family and friend group that loves games and board games so it was quite fitting. We felt that with so many people wanting to help make our dream a reality, every contribution was like adding a puzzle piece to our dream, that when complete it would be a reminder of the support and love we have from everyone. Especially because we’ll be adding their names to each piece of the puzzle.” explains the couple.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
With the financial aspect of IVF being a daunting challenge for them, Greg and Bianca decided to start a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, where they have raised over R100 000 of their R200 000 target with the help of over 100 donors.
The funds raised will cover not only the IVF procedure itself but also the essential medications, ultrasounds, and embryo testing.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca enjoying a day at the beach
“We know that IVF is not always guaranteed and we know that everyone contributing to our dream knows this too. We’re really grateful for the love and support we’ve received. Everyone is so generous and we could never have done this without all of you. Baby Dennis will have a lot of thank you cards to write on their birthday every year.” says the couple.
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Some heartfelt donor comments on Greg and Bianca’s campaign:
- “God bless you. This baby is going to be a real blessing.” – Nicki Gough
- “Wishing you all the best and sending lots of love and good vibes on this journey! You’re in my prayers xx” – Jena Shams
- “You will be incredible parents ♡ sending loads of love and support from The Gordon’s” – Kerri Gordon
by Zane Groenewald | Feb 12, 2024 | Campaign, Impact
Dalan Holton, a 49-year-old director at Debella Finance from Morningside, Sandton, embarked on an extraordinary journey as he approached his 50th birthday on March 1, 2024.
Pictured above: Dalan Holton from Morningside, Sandton, took on a chilly Robben Island Swim for a good cause
Unlike the typical ‘midlife crisis,’ Dalan joked, which might have led one to indulge in luxury or travel, he had set his sights on a challenge that was as symbolic as it was daunting—the swim through the shark-infested waters from Robben Island to the mainland at Bloubergstrand. This endeavor was not for personal glory but for a cause close to his heart.
“Before you questioned my sanity, let me assure you there was a method to my madness. This aquatic adventure wasn’t just about proving that I’ve still got it at 50. It was about something much bigger. I was raising funds on BackaBuddy for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship,” said Dalan.
Pictured above: Dalan training for his swim
The Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship
During his formative years at King Edward VII School (KES), one of Johannesburg’s finest academic institutions, Dalan forged a lasting friendship with Antonio Lopes. They were in the same graduating class, swam on the same team, and remained good friends for years. Years later, when Antonio’s son, Daniel, tragically passed away at the age of 12 in a freak accident on December 15th, 2018, it left a void in the hearts of those who knew him.
In his honor, the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship was founded. Known for his “grit,” hard work, and determination, Daniel excelled in academics and sports, embodying the spirit of perseverance. The Scholarship was established to support students facing financial hardships, ensuring that they could benefit from the rich educational and extracurricular offerings at KES.
To raise funds for the DLMS, Dalan launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, aiming to hit a target of R50,000. The campaign already made a splash, raising R36,000 with the support of 27 donors.
The funds assisted two deserving students by covering 50% of their tuition fees at KES, payable for their entire high school career, offering them the opportunity to thrive in an environment that nurtures academic and personal growth.
The scholarship not only offered financial support but also encompassed emotional, social, and academic guidance through the TAG Foundation.
“I felt that attending a school like KES offered an unparalleled opportunity, and it would have been tragic for anyone to miss out due to financial constraints. The value lay not just in the education but in the whole experience that KES provided. I would have loved to be able to provide this launchpad and experience to others,” said Dalan.
The Robben Island swim
The Robben Island swim, scheduled for February 15th, weather permitting, was more than a physical challenge for Dalan. It was a symbolic passage, representing endurance, hope, and remembrance with every stroke. The swim started at Robben Island, covering a distance of approximately 7.5 kilometers to Bloubergstrand, though currents might have extended this to 8 to 8.5 kilometers.
Despite the unpredictability and daunting aspects of the swim, including cold waters and the potential presence of sharks, Dalan’s preparation and passion fueled his determination. His training, under the guidance of coach Cyndi Starr from Wahoo Aquatics and alongside training partners Andy Johnson and Suzette Prinsloo, had prepared him for that moment.
Pictured above: Dalan with Andy and Suzette
A Lesson in Laps
Beyond his professional achievements at Debella Finance, Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who worked in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee, he viewed this challenge as an opportunity to teach her about finding passion and helping others.
“Dalan shared, “Be active and push yourself. Find something you love and then excel at it, stretching yourself but finding joy in the process every step of the way. If you can find a way for the thing you love and are good at to add value to other people’s lives—do that!”
His active lifestyle, which included competitive swimming, racing cars, and practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, for which he had a black belt, reflected his dedication to personal excellence and commitment to contributing to the community.
Pictured above: Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who works in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee.
Dalan wants to thank the donors who, through their generous contributions on BackaBuddy, had wished him “Good tides” and “smooth currents” on his chilly swim. As his challenge approached, Dalan was empowered by Daniel Lopes’ legacy and the scholarship in his name, which would have had a profound and lasting impact on the future of two deserving students who got to experience the education and camaraderie KES provides.
All donations made to this cause qualify for a Section 18A tax deduction.
Update
I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to every donor. Your generosity has not only honored Daniel’s memory but has also opened doors for deserving students at King Edward VII School facing financial hardships. This achievement reaffirms a powerful message: with commitment and a clear goal, anything is achievable.
As I reflect on the exhilarating and 7.5km swim from Robben Island to Bloubergstrand, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude and pride. Not just for completing this personal milestone just before I turn 50, but for the incredible support and generosity that has poured in. Together, we’ve surpassed our initial goal of R50,000, raising an astonishing R65,000 for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship.
Special thanks must be given to Daniel’s father, Antonio Lopes, whose presence at both the start and finish of the swim added a profoundly personal touch to the event. This swim was more than just a physical challenge; it was a testament to what we can accomplish when we band together for a noble cause. Let’s continue to support and inspire one another, proving that the spirit of community and determination can make waves of change.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being part of this memorable journey.
