by Tessa Van Rensberg | Aug 7, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
Kelby Parker (52) from West Rand – Gauteng is a husband, dad, mentor and off-road motorcycle enthusiast — a HUGE (for the people in the back, HUGE) KTM loyalist (KTM is an Austrian manufacturer famous for its off-road motor bikes and diehard fans) — whose life flipped in July when he was rushed to ICU for emergency surgery. What first looked like a prostate problem was in fact a ruptured colon abscess that triggered severe sepsis. He’s now facing Stage III colon cancer. The community he’s spent years lifting up is lifting him right back, so he can stay for the moments that matter: his daughter’s wedding, his son’s 18th, and his 30th anniversary with Fiona.
A love that began in primary school
Kelby and Fiona’s story reads like “The NoteBook 2” but with motorbikes. They met as kids in Alberton; he was a prefect, she was in Standard 3. Friendship deepened when Kelby worked at the local pool club, and when he left for the army, Fiona gifted him a chain engraved, “To Kelbs, Love Sis.”
On her 19th birthday, everything changed. “Something shifted that night,” Fiona recalls. “We spoke the whole evening, just the two of us… he kissed me over the wall — I fell hook, line and sinker.”
Ask around and you’ll hear the same about Kelby: he lights up a room and would “literally give you the shirt off his back.” He’s sponsored Moto-X riders, taken in children from unstable homes, hosted an exchange student, and — as daughter Kyla remembers — once drove through the night to Durban to support a colleague’s grieving family. “Dad’s got a really big heart,” she says simply.
The day everything changed
In January 2025, cramps sent Kelby to the GP — again and again. Blood tests suggested an enlarged prostate, and medication followed. When the symptoms wouldn’t clear, the urologist booked surgery for the earliest available date, 18 June. But recovery never came. “We held on for two weeks, hoping to see improvement, but it just didn’t happen,” Fiona says. They called the urologist on 30 June, got an MRI on 2 July, and by 3 July were urgently referred to a gastroenterologist. On 7 July, Kelby was admitted straight to ICU for an emergency, life-saving operation. Surgeons flushed his system and resectioned his bowels, leaving him with a colostomy bag — but they saved his life.
“Absolutely nothing,” Kelby says of what went through his mind before surgery. “I feel like I was completely numb… I truly believe my body was shutting down.”
He remembers the beeping machines, his hand instinctively reaching to his face to check for a ventilator, and “the absolute fear” on his family’s faces. For Fiona and the kids, the speed and severity of it all felt unreal: confusing, shocking, and terrifyingly fast.
Then came the final blow: pathology confirmed Stage III colon cancer. Chemotherapy lies ahead, likely delaying any colon reconstruction. How are they holding on?
“Belief! Where else do you turn in situations like this?” Kelby says. “We’re such a tight-knit family… and seeing everyone I’ve ever known reaching out to help not only me but my family too — it matters.”
When the helper needs help
On 10 July 2025, Fiona launched a BackaBuddy campaign to keep Kelby’s fight alive. Their OnePlan medical insurance covered R85,000 — exhausted on day one in ICU. Since then, the bills have kept rising, but so has the generosity: 74 donors have already contributed R268,100 toward the R380,000 target. Every rand will go directly to the family to settle hospital accounts and pay for Kelby’s ongoing treatment.
For Kelby, hope now has faces and names — and very real milestones. He wants to walk Kyla down the aisle, celebrate Troy-Lee’s 18th in January 2026, and toast 30 years of marriage with Fi in February.
“I just want to be able to hug my wife and kids again — a real tight hug,” he says. “I want to load up the bikes with Troy and Jordan and spend the day in the sun with friends and family… I’m optimistic, we will get there!”
Fiona says the support shown has flooded their home with hope:
“The support from angels across the world—from strangers to family, customers, suppliers, friends—has left us completely speechless. It really does restore your faith in humanity.”
To support Kelby Parker visit their BackaBuddy campaign link here:
https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/life-saving-procedure-for-kelby-parker
Please share his story — every donation, message, and share helps keep this devoted dad, husband and KTM superfan on the road to recovery.
by Tessa Van Rensberg | Jul 23, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
Carlos Campos (65) from Douglasdale, Johannesburg is not your average grandfather. Known to his family as “Abuelo Cazador” — the hunter grandpa — he’s an old-school tech wizard, a proud Spanish soul, and a Fallout-fan gamer who’s raised a generation of curious minds under his quiet, determined wing. Complete with a stubborn streak that turns every setback into “just another puzzle to solve” is a deeply empathetic soul who tears up at good news stories and never forgets a birthday call.
A former IT pioneer, Carlos helped usher South Africa into the digital age in the 1980s, solving server problems by day and teaching programming by night and helped businesses take their first steps into the digital world. Today, long after retirement, his legacy continues — by applying his problem-solving mind wherever he can and in bedtime science talks, Lego-building quests, and virtual adventures with his grandchildren.
“Abuelo Cazador” and His Legacy of Learning
Carlos’s son, Brynmor — affectionately known as Bryn — followed in his father’s digital footsteps and now works in information security.
“Dad showed me that every line of code has a story,” Bryn says. “He taught me how to think, problem-solve, and be curious. Even now, with limited mobility, he’s the calm co-pilot on every new adventure with my kids.”
Brynmor, or “Bryn” as he’s known, is Carlos’s son, protégé, and unapologetic geek-in-chief.
“Dad is the reason I work in information security today,” says Bryn. “He showed me that every line of code hides a story, and that every problem has a solution if you care enough to look.”
To his grandchildren, Carlos is their favorite teammate. Whether they’re building Minecraft castles or chasing down monsters in Fallout 76, his steady voice through a headset is their compass.
“It’s a broken world where people still choose hope,” Carlos says of his favourite game. “Sounds a lot like real life, eh?”
The family of six — Brynmor, his wife, their two kids, and Carlos and his wife — live under one roof, sharing not only space but every emotional and financial burden. One of their favourite memories is still the day Carlos booted up Fallout 76, handed each grandkid a controller, and said, “Let’s hunt scorched beasts!” They didn’t get very far, but the giggles echoed through the house for hours.
“Dad has always been the calm engine room of our family. Growing up, I remember midnight ‘science shows’ in the backyard — he’d lug out a telescope, point to Saturn’s rings, and explain why curiosity is our super-power. Now, as a grandpa, he’s the gentle co-pilot on every adventure my kids dream up. Whether they’re building Lego space stations or troubleshooting a Minecraft server, ‘Abuelo’ (their affectionate Spanish nickname for him) is the first call they make.”
But behind the joyful memories and glowing screens lies a mounting crisis. After surviving a heart attack, spending eight months on a ventilator following COVID-19, and now facing permanent oxygen dependence, Carlos and his family are battling overwhelming medical costs — and doing it all from the heart of their home, where three generations live under one roof.
Health Setbacks and Financial Strain
Carlos’s health struggles began in 2017 with a heart attack and valve replacement. In 2019, he nearly lost his life to COVID-19 and spent eight months in ICU. The virus left him bedridden, with seizure-induced paralysis on his left side. With time, he relearned to walk using aids — and with characteristic stubbornness, kept showing up for his family.
In early 2025, doctors diagnosed Carlos with a rare oxygen-blood disorder, leaving him permanently dependent on a home oxygen machine.
The emotional and financial burden on the family — including Carlos’s wife, Bryn, Bryn’s wife, and their two kids — has been immense. Between medical bills, oxygen rentals, and transport, the family has cancelled holidays, postponed celebrations, and drained their savings.
But the Campos family hasn’t lost hope.
Finding Help and Hope Through Community
On 29 May 2025, Bryn launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy to help ease the pressure. The goal: R300,000 for Carlos’s ongoing needs — from a sleep apnea machine and updated gaming setup, to home safety equipment and a lightweight oxygen concentrator.
To date, the campaign has raised R95,700 from 84 donors, covering major expenses like a mobility scooter and modern gaming gear — allowing Carlos to finally go outdoors and rejoin family outings.
“Helping him through this fundraiser isn’t charity for me, it’s gratitude,” says Bryn. “It’s my chance to steady the shoulders that carried me.”
Carlos recently enjoyed his first family outing in years — a memory made possible through community support and the purchase of a mobility scooter of which has made a huge impact in the lives of the Campos family.
Should the campaign surpass its goal, the family plans to install grab rails and ramps, replace Carlos’s mattress with one that supports his posture, and build a small fund to manage future health emergencies.
“Every donation feels like a hand on our shoulder saying, ‘You’re not alone,’” Bryn shares.
Carlos puts it even more beautifully:
“I may need a machine to breathe, but every one of you is the air in that machine.”
by Tessa Van Rensberg | Jul 17, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
What is Mandela Day and How Can You Get Involved?
Mandela Day, held on July 18th each year, encourages individuals to spend 67 minutes doing something positive in their communities. This initiative honours Nelson Mandela’s 67 years of public service, calling on all of us to do our part—whether it’s planting trees, donating blood, feeding the hungry, or supporting a meaningful cause.
In the spirit of Mandela Day 2025, we’d like to share a few heartfelt initiatives hosted on the BackaBuddy crowdfunding platform. Supporting these campaigns is a great way to do your bit this Mandela Day.
From placing senior dachshunds with elderly companions to running 67 kilometres for mental health awareness or feeding hungry children over the weekend, each initiative contributes to real change.
Save a Frosty Face for Mandela Day 2025
Cape Dachshund Rescue (CDR) is raising R40,000 this Mandela Day to cover one month of veterinary bills for 92 senior dachshunds in its care. Operating across the Western Cape, Eastern Cape, and Southern Cape, the organisation runs a Frosty Face Foster programme, which matches elderly dachshunds with people between the ages of 60 and 80. Adoption fees are waived, and vet costs are fully covered, allowing for lifelong companionship without financial burden.
Each donation—especially in multiples of R67—helps ensure these senior pets continue to receive the care and love they deserve.
The Chosen Runs: We See You Challenge
In Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, the team at Trulife is calling on the public to walk, run, or cycle 67 kilometres in July as part of the “We See You” Mandela Day Challenge. Their goal is to raise R6,700 per team to fund workshops and programmes that support learners navigating trauma, often without the tools or recognition they need.
So far, over R1,900 has been raised. Additional support will help expand Trulife’s reach, allowing them to provide critical life skills and mental health education across South Africa.
Hope & Hunger: Feed the Children of Promiseland
In the informal settlement of Promiseland in Palmridge, Gauteng, 47-year-old cleaner Nonkululeko “Nonny” Mda spends her weekends feeding up to 100 hungry children through her grassroots initiative, Ikhaya Lethu (Our Home). She started this mission in 2018 after witnessing the hardship children face when school meals aren’t available on weekends.
“Weekends are the hardest for children who rely on school meals. I can’t sit back and do nothing,” says Nonny. “I use my own income and rely on donations, even if it means I go without.”
Her campaign has already raised over R25,000 of its R60,000 goal, but continued support is essential to keep these children nourished every weekend.
Mandela Day: Little Brains Deserve Big Futures
In Bellville in the Western Cape, a team of MBA students from Stellenbosch University has launched a campaign in partnership with Goldilocks and the Bear, a nonprofit that provides free mental health screenings and early intervention for children in underserved areas.
“R670 covers the full journey for one child—screening, counselling, and referrals,” the students explain. “Mental health support should never be a luxury.”
Their goal is to raise R67,000 this Mandela Day so that more children can access the mental health care they need to thrive.
Start Your Own Mandela Day Campaign
Have a cause close to your heart? You can start your own Mandela Day campaign on BackaBuddy and turn your passion into impact. Whether it’s a local clean-up, school supply drive, or a bigger community project, your 67 minutes can ripple far beyond the day itself.
Start here: Sign up to make a difference | BackaBuddy
by Tessa Van Rensberg | Jul 15, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
In the heart of Kensington, Cape Town, a single mother’s determination and an unshakable dream are the forces behind a campaign that BackaBuddy holds close. Nicole Nicci Arrison, a Systems analyst, BackaBuddy team member, side-hustling snack box queen, social media boff and hands-on mom (Yes, we also started sweating), has set her heart on giving her daughter a sixteenth birthday gift rooted in love, culture, and family: a trip to Sicily.
Nicci doesn’t just juggle life — she flips it, spins it, and somehow makes it look effortless. She’s the kind of mom who you’d think has superpowers with the amount she juggles. And when she sets her heart on something — like tracing her family’s Sicilian roots with her daughter, Qiran — nothing is going to stand in her way.
The two share an incredibly close bond, rooted in deep trust and mutual respect.
“There’s a mutual respect between us, and we’ve created a space where she can speak openly and trust that she’ll be heard without judgment. We’ve always been a team,” says Nicci.
“Some of our most treasured moments are our daily car rides — that’s our 20-minute pocket of uninterrupted connection, full of deep chats or bursts of laughter.”
Qiran, now approaching sixteen, has always shown remarkable emotional maturity. Nicci recalls a moment she’ll never forget: after her father passed away, young Qiran wrapped her arms around her mom, held her quietly, and then softly said,
“It’s going to be okay.”
“She has this quiet emotional intelligence that’s always been there. She makes me proud daily, in ways big and small,” Nicci says.
Another memory that speaks volumes:
Even though Qiran’s team had just lost a sports match, she ran straight to the teacher of the winning team and gave her a hug to congratulate her.
“That’s just who she is — gracious, thoughtful, and humble. “Says Nicci
A Journey of Heritage and Heart
Family is everything to Nicci — and those roots run deep. At the centre is her grandmother, Ma Joyce, Qiran’s great-grandmother and the family matriarch, known for her legendary lasagna and unforgettable stories.
She’s the one who passed down not just a legendary lasagna recipe, but a legacy of culture, connection, and Sicilian heritage.
“My grandmother, Ma Joyce, is Qiran’s great-grandmother and the heart of our family. Her maiden name is Gamba, and she’s passed down both our lasagna recipe and two very different origin stories.
The more believable version is that the Gambas came to South Africa as missionaries — a legacy that lives on in our family today, with one of my uncles serving as an Anglican priest. But when she’s feeling playfully annoyed with us, Ma Joyce will claim that ‘Gamba’ is short for Gambino — and we can’t help but laugh. We don’t quite believe that one, but the stories, like the recipes, are part of our family’s beautiful and layered history.” – Nicci shares
For Nicci, the kitchen has always been a sacred space of connection for her and her family.
“Growing up, the kitchen was the heart of our family — it’s where everyone connected. If you were in the kitchen, you were either helping prep or waiting to lick the spoon, LOL.”
Like the kitchen, food has always been a way for the family to connect and be reminded of their Sicilian roots.
“For us, food — especially Ma Joyce’s lasagna — has always been more than just a meal. It’s part of every birthday, every family gathering, every moment that matters. If you asked me what it tastes like, I’d say it tastes like first love — but the kind that wraps you in warmth and never really leaves you.”
The family believes their roots trace back to Palermo, and now Nicci wants to take her daughter on a journey that will once again bring their heritage to life.
For Nicci, this trip is more than a holiday. It’s a tribute, a legacy, and a love letter — from mother to daughter, to the place where it all began.
“This trip is meaningful because it’s more than a birthday celebration — it’s a moment for her to connect with where our family comes from. It’s about giving her the gift of experience, culture, and family roots — something she’ll remember forever.”
The mother-daughter duo picture wandering through the bustling Ballarò Market, spinning under the ancient arches of the Cattedrale di Palermo, and tossing coins into the Fontana Pretoria. And through each experience, feeling a long-lost tug from the cobbled streets and vibrant Sicilian culture of their roots — maybe even spotting a cousin with those signature mischievous eyebrows.
This trip has been a long-time dream for Qiran and Nicci, and now — thanks to a crowdfunding platform Nicci contributes to daily(and is the go-to for tech queries that could stump a rocket scientist) — it’s finally starting to feel like a possibility.
A Campaign Close to Home
In May 2025, Nicci launched her campaign: Qiran’s Super Sweet Sicilian Sixteenth, hoping to raise R65,000 to cover flights, accommodation, visas, travel insurance, and — of course — some pasta and gelato along the way.
So far, 17 donors have contributed over R2,000. It may seem like a modest start, but for Nicci, each donation is a message of support and belief.
“We’ve been so moved by the support,” she says. “A friend even offered her massage services for our fundraiser — no questions asked. It’s things like that that remind me just how kind people can be.”
Even Qiran, who usually avoids the spotlight, had something heartfelt to share:
“I feel happy and surprised — honestly, I feel lucky. Thank you to everyone who’s helping, even if you don’t know me. I really hope this trip happens. I saw a message saying my mommy is working really hard to make it possible. I hope it works out — for both of us.”
To support Nicci and Qiran’s journey, visit their campaign here:
👉 https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/qirans-super-sweet-sicilian-sixteenth
by Tessa Van Rensberg | Jul 11, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
Nine-year-old Amogelang Kgobe Matloga from Pretoria is facing a heartbreaking relapse of Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML), just months after completing his initial treatment. Yet in the face of this devastating diagnosis, it is his quiet courage and unshakable faith that have moved hearts across the country—sparking a wave of generosity as global donors rally to support his family through an online crowdfunding campaign.
Originally from the small village of Botlokwa in Polokwane, Amo is a quiet, gentle soul with a love for soccer and a deep connection to his faith.
“He likes being in charge and in control of things,” says his mother, Annah. “He really has a strong personality and a strong spirit. As young as he is, his faith is so unshakable—it amazes me every day.”
Since his initial diagnosis in August 2024, Amo has shown resilience beyond his years. While treatment has brought many challenges, he finds comfort in his family—especially his older brother (13) and younger brother (5)—and joy in the simple moments, like outings for ice cream or time together at church.
“We are the most close-knit family one could ever ask for,” Annah says. “There is nothing we love more than spending time together, especially in the house of the Lord.”
But their lives changed dramatically when Amo relapsed in May 2025. The family’s only hope now lies in a bone marrow transplant—with his father currently identified as a 50% match. While this brings some comfort, the financial strain has grown heavier since his father lost his job in March, making it difficult to afford the ongoing hospital visits, tests, and medications.
Determined to help her son get the life-saving care he needs, Annah launched a heartfelt campaign on BackaBuddy on 19 June 2025 to raise funds for his transplant.
“After receiving news of him relapsing, my world turned upside down,” she shares. “But then I remembered who my life redeemer is—the one who created Heaven and Earth.”
Her words on the campaign page echo the strength and hope that carry their family forward:
“We humbly ask for your generosity. Your contribution, no matter the size, can make a profound difference in his fight against cancer.”
So far, the campaign has raised over R51,000 towards their R250,000 goal, with support pouring in from 176 generous donors. Every donation, every message of encouragement has helped restore the family’s hope.
“To everyone who has supported us, we will forever be grateful,” Annah says. “Your generosity really means so much to us—and to our beautiful Amogelang too.”
Thanks to this growing circle of support, the Kgobe Matloga family no longer feels alone in their fight. “May you never lack, may your pocket never run dry,” Annah says. “Your support has been greatly appreciated.”
To join their journey and contribute to Amo’s healing, visit:
https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/hope-of-life-for-amogelang
Help Save Lives: Register as a Bone Marrow Donor
Amogelang’s story also highlights the critical need for more registered bone marrow donors in South Africa. Finding a matching donor can mean the difference between life and death for patients like Amo.
The South African Bone Marrow Registry (SABMR) encourages the public to join their registry and give someone in need a second chance at life. Learn more or register today at www.sabmr.co.za.
If you would like to start a campaign on BackaBuddy to support a loved one or cause close to your heart, Annah shares these words of encouragement:
“We are so grateful for this platform. It gives us hope every day that we will reach our destination and find the helpers we need.”
by Simbulele Jezile | Jul 1, 2025 | Campaign, Featured
Photo credit: Flashlight Pictures
At just 14 years old, talented Imkhitha Joya from Old Crossroads in Nyanga, Cape Town, is rewriting what’s possible for a young girl with big dreams and an even bigger heart. As one of South Africa’s brightest young talents in chess, she’s earned national recognition and international invitations. Now, all she needs is a helping hand to keep her momentum going.
Earlier this year, Imkhitha was crowned South African U14 Girls Chess Champion after finishing undefeated at the Junior Closed Chess Championships. She also swept the Western Cape High Schools U15 Girls section, winning every game with a perfect score of six out of six. Her CHESSA rating now stands at 1811, making her the top-ranked U14 girl and 6th overall among female players in South Africa.
Despite these remarkable achievements, the road has not been easy.
Photo credit: Flashlight Pictures
In 2025 alone, Imkhitha qualified to represent South Africa at the African Individual Chess Championships, the African Schools Championships, and the FIDE Youth Olympiad. But each time, she had to stay behind — not because she wasn’t good enough, but because there simply wasn’t enough money or time to raise what was needed.
Her coach and mentor, Thando Hlakula, says those missed opportunities have been some of the toughest parts of her journey. “She worked so hard to qualify, but without funding, we couldn’t make it happen. Watching her miss out on experiences she earned was heartbreaking.”
But now, there’s a second chance.
Imkhitha has been invited to represent South Africa at the World Youth Chess Championships in Albania this October, and the African Youth Chess Championships in Algeria this December. These two tournaments are not just another opportunity — they are pivotal moments in her development, stepping stones on her path to becoming a Woman International Master, and eventually a grandmaster.
To get to Albania, Imkhitha needs to raise over R94,000 on her BackaBuddy campaign. The total includes return flights, visas, entry fees, accommodation, and daily expenses for herself and her coach, who will also serve as her guardian abroad.
“So far, we’ve raised just over R19,000 from 8 incredible donors,” says Thando. “It’s been so moving to see people stepping up for her. Every bit of support, no matter the size, shows her that her hard work is seen and valued.”
Photo credit: Flashlight Pictures
Imkhitha’s story began in 2020 when she was introduced to chess through a school programme at Isigcawu Primary. It didn’t take long for her teachers and coaches to realise she had something special — but talent didn’t bring her easy wins.
“She lost every single game in her first tournament,” Thando remembers. “But what stood out wasn’t the loss — it was how she responded. She didn’t cry. She didn’t complain. She asked when the next tournament was.”
“She kept showing up, kept learning, and kept improving.”
Since then, she’s become known not just for her sharp mind, but for her humility, focus, and work ethic. Some days, she trains for up to eight hours. “She has a hunger to learn that I’ve rarely seen,” says Thando. “She doesn’t want to just be the best — she wants to keep getting better.”
Her breakthrough came this year, when she returned to the SA Junior Closed Championships with one goal in mind: to win. “Last year, she came second and was crushed by it,” he shares. “She learned from that. This year, she came back stronger, beat the defending champion, and walked away undefeated. It was a proud moment — one we’ll never forget.”
But Imkhitha’s motivation is about more than titles. She sees herself as someone who can shift perceptions — not just of what chess is, but of who belongs in the game.
“Representing South Africa is something she takes very seriously,” says Thando. “Her story challenges what people think is possible for young girls in townships like Crossroads. She’s showing that brilliance, discipline, and greatness can come from anywhere — all they need is a chance.”
Traveling internationally won’t be easy for a 14-year-old, which is why Thando will accompany her to both Albania and Algeria.
“She needs someone she trusts by her side,” he explains. “Not just for logistics, but for emotional support. Someone to help her stay grounded, strategise between rounds, and remind her why she belongs on that stage.”
For now, Imkhitha is focused on raising the funds to get there.
“Any contribution, big or small, ensures that a young girl from a disadvantaged background isn’t held back by lack of funds,” Thando says. “She’s done the work. She’s earned the opportunity. Now we just need the support to help her take that next step.”
To support Imkhitha Joya, visit her BackaBuddy campaign link here:
https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/get-imkhitha-to-the-world-chess-championships
