Mama Dolly, 71, from Masoyi, Mpumalanga, embodies the very essence of hope for children facing adversity in her rural community. For nearly a decade, she has run Phathekani Kahle After Care—a sanctuary where impoverished youngsters find support, education, and a sense of belonging. Today, her tireless work is under threat: the pit latrines (or the old-school “long drop,” as South Africans call them) are unsanitary and risk closure by the health department. As South Africa observes Women’s Month, Mama Dolly shines as a beacon of female leadership and resilience, inspiring women everywhere with her unwavering dedication.
Alexa first connected with Mama Dolly thr
ough her Gogo Theresa Banda—after witnessing the remarkable strides Dolly made with Gogo Theresa’s grandson, Fortune (Alexa contributes towards young Fortune’s school fees). When Mama Dolly reached out for a little extra help to renovate the toilets on the brink of shutdown, Alexa sprang into action, launching a BackaBuddy campaign one month ago to raise R 45 500 for vital upgrades.
A Lifelong Calling to Serve
After spending over 35 years shaping young minds as a primary school teacher, Mama Dolly felt a deep pull to keep serving her community even after retirement. Born into a Tsonga family and raised in Johannesburg, she endured the loss of her mother and sister and weathered unsupportive guardians—but her faith never wavered. In December 2015, she officially registered Phathekani Kahle After Care with the Department of Social Development, transforming a modest room beside the RR358 (Numbi Road) between White River and Hazyview into a safe haven. There, children—many raised by grandparents or living in dire circumstances—gather each day for academic support, a hot meal, and the kind of encouragement only someone with Mama Dolly’s passion can provide.
Her work is driven by the conviction that every child deserves a chance to succeed, regardless of background.
One afternoon, she remembers, a little boy came running, eyes shining, and cried, “Gogo Dolly, I can read and write now!”—a moment she said “healed my soul” and reaffirmed her conviction that education has the power to transform lives.
Building Dignity, One Toilet at a Time
Pit latrines pose serious safety hazards—even Mama Dolly recounts heartbreaking accounts of children slipping into the deep pits. Unsanitary and exposed, these facilities risk injury and infection. Without modern flushing toilets, Phathekani Kahle cannot secure a health certificate, threatening its very existence and leaving 40 vulnerable children without their safe haven.
A Community Rises Together
To date, 31 generous donors have contributed R 29,000 on the BackaBuddy platform as well as R 12,000 in generous offline donations toward the R 45 500 goal. Local businesses have pledged discounted materials, former students volunteer labor, and taxi drivers collect spare change. Teachers at Phathekani Kahle often go months without pay, fueled only by passion and the children’s need. The youngsters themselves buzz with excitement at the thought of clean, dependable facilities and uninterrupted classes.
“For years, we knocked on many doors seeking assistance and faced countless setbacks,” Mama Dolly reflects. “This is the first time we’ve received a donation—and for us, it is an answered prayer.” Her gratitude has rippled through Masoyi: elders share her story at church, and the traditional council has approved building plans, awaiting only final measurements.
Donations will first repair and upgrade the toilets. If the campaign exceeds its target, further funds will install a borehole—a reliable water source that eliminates costly water purchases, ensures year-round flush capability, and grants the school much-needed independence. Additional contributions could also cover ceiling and floor tiling, and secure fencing around the property.
Mama Dolly’s steadfast faith and relentless compassion have made Phathekani Kahle After Care more than a tutoring center—it is a symbol of hope for children written off by circumstance. With renovated toilets, a future borehole, and improved facilities, she can continue breaking educational barriers and restoring confidence. Yet many needs remain: stipends for devoted teachers, textbooks and uniforms for learners, reliable transport from remote homesteads, and essential teaching materials to enrich lessons. As community support grows during this Women’s Month and beyond, so does the promise of a brighter future for every child at Phathekani Kahle.
To keep supporting Mama Dolly’s vital work and brighten futures at Phathekani Kahle After Care, please consider making a recurring donation—every contribution directly empowers students and dedicated teachers, and continually multiplies hope.
Carel’s latest challenge wasn’t just about physical fitness — it was about healing and giving thanks for the “second chance” he felt he’d received. In 2024, a devastating firestorm in Jamestown left him with a broken back and pelvis, forcing him to face the terrifying possibility of permanent immobility. For months, he had to learn how to walk again. Even walking 100 meters with crutches felt like a small victory.
During this time, the support from their community carried them through.
Marié recalls, “We were blown away… My children came home every day with a Woolies bag full of food. People took time to come visit, to speak with Carel. It reminded us how important it is not to live in your own bubble,” she said.
But slowly, day by day, strength returned.
“That’s when I realized — I think I’m getting stronger and better now… it felt so good just to be able to move again and have that freedom again,” Carel shared. With his mobility restored, he set his sights on something few have ever completed — the Extreme Triathlon.
Only around 15 people have ever achieved it. It involves three grueling events: running the Comrades Marathon, cycling the 2130km Freedom Challenge, and rowing the 240km Berg River Canoe Marathon — back-to-back. Carel had attempted it before in 2023, but this time was different.
“I realized that I have the ability and the mobility… I’ll be doing it out of gratefulness and just, you know, being in that position where you would be deprived of things — just to realise again how grateful you should be for the blessings you have,” Carel shared.
Carel, running the Comrades Marathon
The Meeting That Changed Everything
While Carel was taking on the Extreme Triathlon, Marié and Carel started thinking about how they could give back, inspired by his renewed ability to move and live fully. It was during the Freedom Challenge — that the Bothas reached out to find someone who needed help. Through a neighbour in Jamestown, they were introduced to Lizzie and her son, Requelmy, an 18-year-old who had been paralyzed since birth and had lived for years without a proper wheelchair.
Carel and family, after completing The Freedom Challenge
Moved by his story, Carel decided to dedicate the remainder of Carel’s epic journey to raising funds for a custom wheelchair for him.
Carel, having recently regained his own mobility, felt an immediate and deep connection to Requelmy’s struggle.
“It brought tears to his eyes… it was so sad for him that an 18-year-old guy is stuck in the situation where he has to wait years for a wheelchair,” Marié said. “He knows how it feels to not be able to move freely the way you want to… it was a perfect match.”
Powered by Gratitude, Fueled by Community
The couple launched a BackaBuddy campaign on 24 June 2025 with the goal of raising R18,000 to buy Requelmy a custom wheelchair. In the weeks that followed, 35 donors — a mix of family, friends, and generous strangers — helped them exceed their goal, raising R22,250.
The journey to that victory was not easy.
“My arms really started paining… I thought, I’m not gonna make it. I won’t be able to use my arms any further… it was a tough, dark time,” Carel remembers from the Berg River Canoe Marathon. “I had a little prayer when things were really hard… and moments after that, it seemed like things just became easier.”
Carel, after finishing the Berg River Canoe Marathon
Paying It Forward
Requelmy’s wheelchair has now been ordered — a life-changing gift, made possible by Carel’s endurance and the generosity of the community. But the Bothas aren’t stopping there. With an extra R3,000 still available, they’ve reopened the campaign to find their next mobility buddy who needs a wheelchair.
“We know it’s not us. We’re overwhelmed with the feedback… it’s just amazing what happened. It’s quite awesome,” Marié said.
They’ve already reconnected with their community to identify their next mobility buddy. Their hope? That this ripple of kindness continues — one wheelchair at a time.
“To everybody that donated — thank you from the bottom of our hearts. You enabled this change for the Mobility Buddy. It’s just phenomenal.”
Carel’s story reminds us that even the most difficult moments can be turned into purpose. Through sheer grit, heartfelt gratitude, and the power of community, he turned his own trial into someone else’s triumph — and he’s just getting started.
Please consider sharing this story — because every share, every donation, and every kind word helps move someone closer to freedom, independence, and hope.
At just 14 years old, talented Imkhitha Joya from Old Crossroads in Nyanga, Cape Town, was rewriting what’s possible for a young girl with big dreams and an even bigger heart. As one of South Africa’s brightest young talents in chess, she’s earned national recognition and international invitations. Now, all she needed was a helping hand to keep her momentum going.
Earlier this year, Imkhitha was crowned South African U14 Girls Chess Champion after finishing undefeated at the Junior Closed Chess Championships. She also swept the Western Cape High Schools U15 Girls section, winning every game with a perfect score of six out of six. Her CHESSA rating now stood at 1811, making her the top-ranked U14 girl and 6th overall among female players in South Africa.
Despite these remarkable achievements, the road had not been easy.
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In 2025 alone, Imkhitha qualified to represent South Africa at the African Individual Chess Championships, the African Schools Championships, and the FIDE Youth Olympiad. But each time, she had to stay behind — not because she wasn’t good enough, but because there simply wasn’t enough money or time to raise what was needed.
Her coach and mentor, Thando Hlakula, says those missed opportunities had been some of the toughest parts of her journey. “She worked so hard to qualify, but without funding, we couldn’t make it happen. Watching her miss out on experiences she earned was heartbreaking.”
But now, there was a second chance.
Imkhitha was invited to represent South Africa at the World Youth Chess Championships in Albania this October, and the African Youth Chess Championships in Algeria this December. These two tournaments are not just another opportunity — they are pivotal moments in her development, stepping stones on her path to becoming a Woman International Master, and eventually a grandmaster.
To get to Albania, Imkhitha needed to raise over R94,000 on her BackaBuddy campaign. The total includes return flights, visas, entry fees, accommodation, and daily expenses for herself and her coach, who will also serve as her guardian abroad.
Imkhitha’s campaign has reached limits that were unimaginable, raising over R136000, far beyond their target of R100000 from 154 incredible donors, “It’s been so moving to see people stepping up for her. Every bit of support, no matter the size, shows her that her hard work is seen and valued.”
Photo credit: Flashlight Pictures
Imkhitha’s story began in 2020 when she was introduced to chess through a school programme at Isigcawu Primary. It didn’t take long for her teachers and coaches to realise she had something special — but talent didn’t bring her easy wins.
“She lost every single game in her first tournament,” Thando remembered. “But what stood out wasn’t the loss — it was how she responded. She didn’t cry. She didn’t complain. She asked when the next tournament was.”
“She kept showing up, kept learning, and kept improving.”
Since then, she’s become known not just for her sharp mind, but for her humility, focus, and work ethic. Some days, she trains for up to eight hours. “She has a hunger to learn that I’ve rarely seen,” says Thando. “She doesn’t want to just be the best — she wants to keep getting better.”
Her breakthrough came this year, when she returned to the SA Junior Closed Championships with one goal in mind: to win. “Last year, she came second and was crushed by it,” he shares. “She learned from that. This year, she came back stronger, beat the defending champion, and walked away undefeated. It was a proud moment — one we’ll never forget.”
But Imkhitha’s motivation is about more than titles. She sees herself as someone who can shift perceptions — not just of what chess is, but of who belongs in the game.
“Representing South Africa is something she takes very seriously,” says Thando. “Her story challenges what people think is possible for young girls in townships like Crossroads. She’s showing that brilliance, discipline, and greatness can come from anywhere — all they need is a chance.”
Traveling internationally won’t be easy for a 14-year-old, which is why Thando will accompany her to both Albania and Algeria.
“She needs someone she trusts by her side,” he explains. “Not just for logistics, but for emotional support. Someone to help her stay grounded, strategise between rounds, and remind her why she belongs on that stage.”
For now, Imkhitha was focused on raising the funds to get there.
“Any contribution, big or small, ensured that a young girl from a disadvantaged background wasn’t held back by lack of funds,” Thando said. “She’s had done the work. She’s earned the opportunity. We just needed the support to help her take that next step.”
To support Imkhitha Joya, visit her BackaBuddy campaign link here:
George, Western Cape, South Africa – Lynnette (Lynn) Blignaut called for global support from Thailand, where her daughter, Ashley Oosthuizen (26), had been wrongfully imprisoned for five years. Lynnette launched a crowdfunding campaign through BackaBuddy to manage living and legal expenses as they continued to fight for Ashley’s release.
Background
After graduating from Outeniqua High School in George, Western Cape, Ashley moved to Thailand in 2018. She initially worked as a teacher on the island of Koh Samui, but after being laid off, she secured a managerial position at the restaurant Hot in the Biscuit, which offered her a fresh start and hope for a stable, fulfilling life in Thailand.
However, her dreams were abruptly shattered on 8 October 2020, when Ashley unknowingly accepted and signed for a package containing 250g of MDMA, intended for someone else. Despite her innocence, she was implicated and arrested, leading to a wrongful conviction.
Pictured above: Ashley Oosthuizen
Heartbreakingly, at just 22 years old, Ashley was sentenced to death. After a lengthy legal battle, her sentence was reduced to life imprisonment and later reduced again to 33.4 years. However, justice had not yet been served. Her next appeal in Thailand’s High Court remained pending, with no court date yet confirmed. If clemency was not granted, Ashley would only be released at the age of 56.
Ashley’s Reality
Despite the challenges of prison life, Ashley showed remarkable resilience. Her Thai became excellent, enabling her to communicate and build friendships with fellow inmates. These connections provided mutual support and a sense of security in an environment where vulnerability was a constant risk.
Every day was a battle—to endure, to stay hopeful—but she remained grounded in her faith, and learned to put her trust in the living God, offering help to others and reading whenever possible, though she was only allowed nine books a year.
Lynnette expressed the heartbreak of being unable to protect her daughter, saying, “Ashley’s resilience, but most of all, my trust in Father God’s care for her, gives me hope despite the uncertain future she faces.”
For years, Lynnette and Ashley were only allowed to see each other through a Perspex divider, speaking for just 15 to 20 minutes, twice a week, at a time via phone, each confined to separate rooms. But on Friday, 24 January 2025, for the first time in nearly six years, Lynnette was granted a contact visit with Ashley—a deeply emotional reunion.
Pictured Above: Ashley Oosthuizen with her mom, Lynnette Blignaut. (January 2025)
Ashley’s Needs
Ashley still needed financial support for daily survival, as prisons in Thailand did not provide basic necessities—they provided watered-down rice three times a day, often containing questionable foreign objects. To stay healthy, Ashley had to buy her own food, toiletries, bottled water (as the available water was not always safe to drink), and pay for laundry.
Lynnette continued to fight for her daughter, saying, “As a mother, I did what any parent would—I uprooted my entire life and moved to Thailand in 2022 to be close to Ashley, visit her, and fight for her freedom. Staying here was crucial, as leaving would be devastating for her. However, due to visa restrictions, I was unable to work, and without a source of income at the moment, and my savings running out quickly, I would soon have to rely entirely on donations to cover Ashley’s daily needs in prison as well as my own living expenses while I remained by her side.”
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
To help cover these essential expenses, Lynnette launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. Donations supported Ashley’s daily needs in prison, including food, bottled water, hygiene products, and laundry, which amounted to approximately ฿14,700 (R7,791) per month. Additionally, unexpected legal costs could arise, adding to the financial burden.
Funds also helped Lynnette remain in Thailand, ensuring she could continue visiting and advocating for Ashley—something vital to Ashley’s mental and emotional well-being. Her living expenses totaled around ฿17,000 (R9,010) per month. Combined, their monthly expenses amounted to ฿31,700 (R16,801). A full breakdown of costs was available on the crowdfunding page.
The campaign had already raised over R64 000 from 96 donors in just one month, demonstrating Ashley’s incredible support network and the widespread compassion for her cause. These funds were managed through Hearts4Ashley, an NPC established to support Ashley’s fight for justice.
“To everyone who had supported us along the way—whether through donations, prayers, messages, or simply caring about Ashley—thank you. Your kindness and generosity carried us through the hardest moments, and knowing that so many people cared about my daughter meant more than words could express.”
Follow Lynnette for Updates
Lynnette posts regular updates on Ashley’s situation and their fight for justice through the following social media pages:
Lynn Blignaut, the devoted mother of #AshleyOosthuizen, has shared a heartfelt message of thanks to the 95 generous donors who have supported their BackaBuddy campaign.
Thanks to your kindness through once-off and monthly recurring donations, over R62 000 has been raised — a true blessing that will help cover their living expenses for the next 3.5 months while Ashley remains behind bars in Thailand.
Watch the video to hear Lynn’s message of gratitude: https://youtube.com/shorts/E6n-saAcbWA?feature=share
If you’ve been touched by Ashley’s story, please consider supporting their campaign or sharing this post with someone you know. Incredible things happen when people come together.
Steve has always been full of life, a steadfast source of support for those around him. Now, as he faces the greatest challenge of his life, his community has rallied behind him in an extraordinary show of generosity and kindness.
In early February, Steve suffered a severe brain bleed, a life-threatening medical emergency that required immediate intervention. Thanks to swift action, his life was saved, but the road to recovery remains long and uncertain. Since then, he has undergone two critical procedures and has been relocated to Cape Town, where he remains in intensive care. His journey ahead will require extensive medical care and rehabilitation to regain his full physical and cognitive strength.
To help with Steve’s medical expenses, his family launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. In an inspiring display of generosity, 140 donors came together surpassing the initial R200,000 goal, and raising over R219,000 in just 14 days.
This overwhelming generosity has eased the financial burden on his loved ones, allowing them to focus entirely on his recovery. His family, John, Christine, and Frances, have been by his side every step of the way, ensuring he receives the best possible care. Thanks to the kindness of donors, they can continue to support him without the added stress of financial strain.
While the fundraising goal has been met, Steve’s journey is far from over. As he remains in intensive care and unable to work, ongoing support will be crucial in covering rehabilitation, transport, and living expenses. His loved ones are committed to ensuring he has every opportunity to make a full recovery, and the generosity of donors has provided him with the best possible chance to do so.
Steve’s story is a powerful testament to the strength of community and the impact of collective kindness. In his time of greatest need, friends, family, and strangers came together to lift him up, proving that even in the most challenging moments, humanity prevails.
One person’s ‘small donation’ is another’s fighting chance. For 7-year-old Joshua Louwrens, this truth has turned his battle with cancer into a story of hope, resilience, and overwhelming community support. Thanks to the generosity of Joshua’s Angels, his network of donors and well-wishers, this brave little boy has surpassed his crowdfunding goal in record time, giving him the upper hand in his fight against cancer.
Joshua’s story began with what seemed like a minor issue, a small bump on his neck. A routine visit to the doctor led to a prescription for antibiotics, with the initial belief that the bump was caused by a swollen lymph node due to an infection in his gums. When the first round of treatment failed, another round of antibiotics followed. Though the infection cleared, the bump remained.
Concerned, Joshua’s family took him for a third medical consultation. This time, doctors decided to admit him to the hospital to investigate further. Surgery was performed to remove the bump, but due to its location, doctors were unable to remove it entirely. It was then sent for testing.
On 28 January, Joshua’s family received the devastating news: their beloved boy had Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma (NHL). “Nothing could have prepared us for this news, and it felt like our entire world was shattered in an instant,” his family shared.
The days that followed were filled with uncertainty and urgency. Joshua underwent a series of scans to determine if the cancer had spread, followed by multiple trips into surgery. Doctors installed a central line to aid in his treatment, and then came another challenge, his hometown of Newcastle did not have the necessary pediatric oncology facilities to treat him.
With little time to spare, Joshua and his family made the 350-kilometer journey to Pretoria, where he underwent further testing, including a bone aspiration and a spinal tap, to assess whether the cancer had reached his bone marrow or spinal cord. On 1 February, Joshua received his first round of chemotherapy, marking the start of his six-month battle against the aggressive disease.
Cancer treatment is a relentless battle, physically, emotionally, and financially. Beyond the medical bills, consultations, and procedures, the logistics of traveling between Newcastle and Pretoria added another layer of stress for Joshua’s family. They quickly realized that their medical aid would not cover all necessary treatments and expenses.
Determined to give Joshua the best possible chance, his family turned to their community for help. The response was nothing short of extraordinary.
In just a few days, an army of supporters, now known as Joshua’s Angels, rallied behind him. They donated, shared his story, and spread the word. Small acts of kindness multiplied, and together, they raised an astounding R189,738, far surpassing the initial goal of R150,000 on BackaBuddy!
Joshua’s battle is far from over, but thanks to the unwavering support of his Angels, he now faces it with renewed strength and financial security. Beyond the funds, Joshua has received an even greater gift, the knowledge that he is not alone. At just seven years old, he has learned one of life’s most beautiful lessons: that kindness exists in abundance and that together, we are stronger.
As Joshua continues his journey to healing, his family and his Angels remain by his side, proving that when communities come together, mountains can indeed be moved.
Pictured Above: Ashley Oosthuizen with her mom, Lynnette Blignaut. (January 2025)
