Community Rallies Behind Attorney Cancer Warrior Battling Metastatic Disease for Her Sons

Community Rallies Behind Attorney Cancer Warrior Battling Metastatic Disease for Her Sons

Tanya de Bruin, 34 from Alberton, Johannesburg—an attorney by day, devoted mother of two, and a relentless cancer warrior 24/7—is bravely fighting triple-negative breast cancer that has progressed to metastatic disease. With each treatment session costing R130,000—and her medical aid covering only half—Tanya now faces the challenge of raising R65,000 every three weeks.

 

Photo above:  Johann and Tanya de Bruin with their children Ruben and Divan

 

In 2023, Tanya’s life took a dramatic turn. While expecting her second child, she was diagnosed with triple-negative breast cancer—a rare

and aggressive condition. Just one week later, her hero and father received a similar diagnosis. Yet, despite these trials, Tanya’s determination shines through. 

“Strength isn’t just physical—it’s the strength to face adversity head-on, to fight for the ones you love, and to keep going even when the odds seem insurmountable,” she affirms.

Starting chemotherapy during pregnancy was incredibly challenging, but the love of her supportive husband and her son kept her spirit high. The arrival of her son Divan in August 2023, even though he was born a bit early at 35 weeks, became a powerful symbol of hope and resilience. Tanya proudly declares, “I’m not just an attorney by day; I’m a cancer warrior 24/7,” celebrating every step of her journey. 

 

Photo above:  Tanya de Bruin 28 weeks pregnant

 

As her treatment journey continued, Tanya underwent an emergency mastectomy in October 2023, followed by radiation therapy in December 2023. With each session, she demonstrated the resilient spirit that defines her. However, in May 2024, more heart-wrenching news arrived—her cancer had progressed to metastatic breast cancer. 

“I continue to fight for my future, for my children, and for all those who have supported me along the way,” she states, acknowledging the emotional and financial strain of her new treatment regimen.

 

A Community United in Support

Throughout her journey, Tanya’s community has embraced her with warmth and positivity. From caring neighbors in Alberton to generous strangers worldwide, the emotional and financial support has been overwhelming.

“My hope has been lifted by the incredible outpouring of love from family, friends, and even strangers,” she shares. From school cupcake sales to unwavering backing from her employer, every gesture fuels her fight.

To help with the financial strain, she launched her second BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign in February 2025—a testament to the power of collective strength. Already, 123 donors have joined her fight, raising over R124,000. 

 

Photo above: Tanya de Bruin

 

At this stage, the only chemo available to Tanya is Enhertu—a unique blend of chemotherapy and a biologic drug that directly targets cancer cells. The problem now is that each session costs R130,000, and her medical aid only covers 50%. This means she needs to pay R65,000 every three weeks.

“Every donation, no matter how small, makes a real difference,” Tanya emphasizes, inviting everyone to join her fight and help secure the life-saving chemotherapy she needs. 

“Even in the darkest times, I find strength in my family, my community, and my faith,” she says. Every day, she cherishes time with her two young sons, Ruben (soon to be three) and Divan, whose courage inspires her to keep fighting for the future they share.

Support Tanya’s inspiring journey and help fuel her fight by visiting her BackaBuddy campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/tanya-de-bruin-still-fighting-cancer

Little Cody’s Fight: A 3-Year-Old’s Battle Against Burkitt’s Lymphoma

Little Cody’s Fight: A 3-Year-Old’s Battle Against Burkitt’s Lymphoma

Cape Town, South Africa For 3-year-old Cody Leigh and his family, what should be a time of playful exploration has become a daunting battle against Burkitt’s Lymphoma, a rare and aggressive cancer. Cody, who should be immersed in the magic of childhood, days filled with boundless curiosity, laughter, and a sneaky sprinkle of mischief, is facing the most demanding uphill battle of his young life.

In the middle of September 2024, Cody and his family’s world was turned upside down. According to the Kids-Can Cancer Foundation, Cody’s battle with cancer first began as a small lump in his tummy, the start of a whirlwind of fear, uncertainty, and pain.

“At first, we went to the local clinic, hoping it was nothing serious. The nurse was just as unsure as we were, so she immediately referred us to Karl Bremer Hospital. A series of tests followed, but they couldn’t give us any answers just yet,” explains Cody’s mother.

As the weeks passed, another lump appeared, and the family’s concerns grew. A referral to Tygerberg Hospital led to further tests and scans in search of answers. What followed was a moment that no parent should ever have to endure.

“We were told we needed to go to Tygerberg Hospital for further testing. And that’s when the unimaginable happened. On October 7th, 2024, Cody was officially diagnosed with Burkitt’s Lymphoma, a rare and aggressive form of cancer. Our hearts shattered,” she says.

Cody’s journey has been nothing short of grueling. The relentless cycle of painful tests and treatment has taken an immense toll, both physically and emotionally. For his mother, the strain has been compounded by financial hardship. Having to leave her job to be by Cody’s side during his treatment, the family now faces a crisis beyond the medical battle.

“We’ve been struggling to make ends meet. On top of the mounting medical bills, I’ve been unable to put food on the table for Cody, his 11-year-old sister Skyler, and myself. The last thing we should be worrying about right now is how to survive financially while Cody fights for his life,” she explains.

To help alleviate this financial strain, a BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign has been launched, and thanks to the generosity of 19 incredible donors, R6,000 has already been raised toward the R20,000 goal. 

Donations will go directly toward Cody’s treatment and medical expenses, ensuring he receives the critical care he needs while also providing essential support for his family during this challenging time.

 

Support the campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/cody-leigh-cancer-relief-fund

 

SOURCE: Good Things Guy

Carried for Miles, Determined to Learn: Sikholelwe’s Pursuit for Education and Independence

Carried for Miles, Determined to Learn: Sikholelwe’s Pursuit for Education and Independence

In the remote village of Gazini, KwaZulu-Natal, 13-year-old Sikholelwe Zikhali, a bright and motivated Grade 7 student at Mankunzi Primary School, has spent years overcoming immense challenges in pursuit of attending school. But now, as she prepares to transition to high school, the greatest obstacle yet threatens to stand in her way.

 

Pictured above: 13-year-old Sikholelwe Zikhali

 

Sikholelwe, who developed paraplegia at the age of five, faces a daily struggle to get to school. Each morning, she wakes up, washes, dresses, and is helped into her home wheelchair. From there, she is swung onto her mother, Khululiwe Sibiya (51), back and is carried three kilometers through thick beach sand before being transferred into her school wheelchair. The journey is grueling, but it is the only way she can access an education. At school, her friends assist her up a broken patio into a cramped prefab classroom, where she transfers out of her wheelchair onto a standard desk-and-bench setup. Despite these challenges, she remains dedicated to her studies, performing well according to her teachers and principal.

Her academic achievements are remarkable, she consistently scores a Level 7 in English, and even in her most challenging subject, Mathematics, she maintains a solid Level 5. “She is very smart,” her family shares proudly. “Being able to continue in school will definitely give her the opportunities she needs to make the most of her life!”

 

Pictured above: Sikholelwe with her mother Khululiwe Sibiya and her brother

 

During breaks, Sikholelwe enjoys throwing a ball or sitting under a tree with her friends. Even the simplest of tasks, like using the toilet, require assistance. Two of her closest friends accompany her to the pit toilets, helping her navigate the uneven and elevated platform. Each day, this routine is repeated, a testament to her resilience and the unwavering support of her mother and friends.

However, as Sikholelwe grows, so does the strain on her mother, who carries her to and from school. With no public transport options available and no wheelchair capable of handling the deep sand, the family has tirelessly advocated for a solution. For three years, they have brought their concerns before local and district government officials, department of education representatives, and disability office representatives. Yet, nothing has changed.

 

Pictured above: Sikholelwe being carried to school by her mother

 

The biggest fear is that without an alternative means of getting to school, Sikholelwe may be forced to drop out, an unthinkable outcome for a young girl with such promise. The local rehabilitation department, known for its extensive wheelchair services, has provided various models, but none are designed to handle the challenging terrain. Even power chairs, often considered a viable mobility solution, fail within meters of use due to the thick sand. The available options simply do not meet the demands of Sikholelwe’s daily journey.

Hope, however, has emerged in the form of an adapted Segway, a revolutionary mobility device capable of tackling the rugged landscape of Gazini. Unlike conventional wheelchairs, this Segway features fat tires and a self-balancing gyro mechanism, allowing it to navigate deep sand, bush paths, and inclines with ease. Sikholelwe, her parents Khululiwe and Nkosinathi Zikhali (51), and the local wheelchair services manager have tested the chair, and the results were undeniable, it outperforms anything currently available. Additionally, its long-term maintenance costs are lower than those of a traditional power chair, making it a sustainable solution for the years ahead.

 

Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/Oig-S7sWsHQ?si=A6GT4BbIrI8tCY-X

 

For Sikholelwe, the Segway represents more than just mobility, it’s a gateway to a fuller, more independent life. “I’m so excited to finally have independence, to play, visit my friends, go to church, and even watch a soccer game,” Sikholelwe shares. “It will make such a difference for me and help take some of the burden off my mother. I know having it will make me more confident and independent.”

Her mother expresses her unwavering love and devotion. “Children are a gift from God, and this one is so special,” she says with a smile. “I will do anything to help her, it’s not a chore for me. Sikholelwe is an exceptional child.

With this Segway, Sikholelwe will not only be able to continue her education but will also gain access to her community in ways she never has before. No longer reliant on friends to visit her at home, she will be able to attend community meetings, watch sports games, and participate fully in village life. It is a chance to break free from isolation and embrace independence.

 

Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/yN12p81nulI

 

To turn this life-changing opportunity into reality, a BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign has been launched. Thanks to the generosity of 43 donors, the family has already raised over R65,000 toward their R150,000 goal. These funds are urgently needed to secure the adapted Segway, with all donations going directly to the supplier to ensure Sikholelwe receives the mobility device she needs. Depending on the total funds raised, the Segway base and chair will be purchased together or separately.

“We probably can’t put this into words properly, but thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of our hearts. God bless each one of you for your donations and care. Sikholelwe has already shown extraordinary resilience, refusing to let circumstances dictate her future. Now, she needs a community to rally behind her and help remove the barriers that stand in her way. Every contribution brings her closer to the independence she deserves, ensuring that she can continue her education and one day pursue her dream of becoming a doctor.” the family shares.

 

Support the campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/keep-her-in-school-the-segway-challenge

140 Donors, R219,000 Raised: How Kindness is Changing Steve’s Future

140 Donors, R219,000 Raised: How Kindness is Changing Steve’s Future

Steve has always been full of life, a steadfast source of support for those around him. Now, as he faces the greatest challenge of his life, his community has rallied behind him in an extraordinary show of generosity and kindness.

In early February, Steve suffered a severe brain bleed, a life-threatening medical emergency that required immediate intervention. Thanks to swift action, his life was saved, but the road to recovery remains long and uncertain. Since then, he has undergone two critical procedures and has been relocated to Cape Town, where he remains in intensive care. His journey ahead will require extensive medical care and rehabilitation to regain his full physical and cognitive strength.

To help with Steve’s medical expenses, his family launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. In an inspiring display of generosity, 140 donors came together surpassing the initial R200,000 goal, and raising over R219,000 in just 14 days.

This overwhelming generosity has eased the financial burden on his loved ones, allowing them to focus entirely on his recovery. His family, John, Christine, and Frances, have been by his side every step of the way, ensuring he receives the best possible care. Thanks to the kindness of donors, they can continue to support him without the added stress of financial strain.

While the fundraising goal has been met, Steve’s journey is far from over. As he remains in intensive care and unable to work, ongoing support will be crucial in covering rehabilitation, transport, and living expenses. His loved ones are committed to ensuring he has every opportunity to make a full recovery, and the generosity of donors has provided him with the best possible chance to do so.

Steve’s story is a powerful testament to the strength of community and the impact of collective kindness. In his time of greatest need, friends, family, and strangers came together to lift him up, proving that even in the most challenging moments, humanity prevails.

 

Support his campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/back-steve-for-a-full-recovery

 

Source: Good Things Guy

Community Heroine Feeds 100+ Children Nutritious Meals Every Saturday With Humble Earnings

Community Heroine Feeds 100+ Children Nutritious Meals Every Saturday With Humble Earnings

Caption: Children and Community of Promisland

For the past six years, Nonkululeko “Nonny” Mda, 47, a domestic helper and the founder of Ikhaya Lethu (Our Home), has been a lifeline for hungry children and struggling families in Promiseland informal settlement, Palmridge, Gauteng.

Since 2018, she has used her own modest earnings to provide warm, nourishing meals—especially on weekends when school feeding programs aren’t available. Now, she is reaching out for support to keep this essential initiative alive and continue making a difference in her community.

A Community in Need, A Heart That Gives

Nonny primarily helps school children, but some adults also come for meals. Many children rely on school feeding programs for their only meal of the day, but when school is closed, they sometimes go to bed without a meal. That’s where Nonny steps in, bridging the gap to ensure they don’t go without food.
She knows firsthand what it’s like to struggle. Having grown up with a single parent, she remembers moments of uncertainty—praying over their last meal, not knowing where the next meal would come from. That memory fuels her determination to ensure that no child in her community experiences the same she once did.

“I live here, and every day I see families struggling to survive, children going hungry, and parents unable to find work,” Nonny shares. “It is heartbreaking to watch people suffer, so I made it my mission to help in any way I can.”

Through Ikhaya Lethu, Nonny cooks and distributes meals to between 40 and 100 people at a time, often using her own modest earnings as a helper to supplement donations. The need is immense, and though she does everything she can, resources are always stretched thin.

“One day, I was walking down the street after buying cooking ingredients, and I asked some children to help me carry my bags,” Nonny recalls. “When I admitted I didn’t have extra change to give them, they replied with gentle smiles, ‘Mama, there’s no need to pay us—we know you’re going to cook for us.’ At that moment, I felt the true spirit of our work. I truly believe this programme has made them kinder and happier, teaching them the values of kindness and generosity.”

Caption: Founder of Ikhaya Lethu (Our Home), Nonkuleko Nonny Mda

Bridging the Hunger Gap, One Meal at a Time

Hunger in Promiseland is a daily reality. Many children rely on school meals as their only source of nourishment, but when school is out, so is their access to food. That’s where Nonny and some community members step in, ensuring that no child goes hungry over weekends.

“To continue serving our community, we need between R6,000 and R10,000 per month,” she explains. “This will help us buy food and essentials to provide hot, nutritious meals for those in need.”

Despite her best efforts, there have been times when the food simply runs out. “Rather than turn anyone away, I serve what I can from my own home,” she says. “And when supplies are low, a kind lady who sells food for a living steps in to help. Even though she is struggling herself, she always finds a way to contribute.”

With no funding for essentials like pots, plates, or cutlery, those who come for a meal—sometimes up to 100 people—bring their own plastic containers. Every effort is made to stretch what little is available, ensuring that no one is turned away.

Nonny has launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy to support Ikhaya Lethu, and the response has been heartwarming. Since its launch in March 2025, the campaign has already received R1,200 from nine generous donors, bringing it closer to its R20,000 goal.

For Nonny, this campaign is not just about food—it’s about dignity, hope, and a future where children can focus on their education rather than their empty stomachs. “I dream of a future where these children no longer worry about food, but can focus solely on their education and simply being kids,” she says.

Every donation to the campaign is a step toward that future. With enough support, Nonny can continue to provide warm, nutritious meals to those who need them most.

“I am very grateful to everyone who has taken the time to support our mission—whether through once-off or recurring donations to our BackaBuddy campaign, and for sharing and believing in our cause.” she says.

To support Nonny’s mission, donate on BackaBuddy:

https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/hope-hunger-feed-the-children-of-promiseland

Music Sprouts: A Violin Program Bringing Harmony to Storms River Village

Music Sprouts: A Violin Program Bringing Harmony to Storms River Village

In the heart of Storms River Village in the Eastern Cape, a musical initiative is taking root, thanks to the passion and dedication of Michaela Gardner and her wife, Chanel. The Music Sprouts is a program that teaches local children the art of playing the violin, aiming to give them access to music education free of charge.

 

Pictured above: Students at The Music Sprouts

 

Michaela, a devoted violinist, is driven by the joy that the instrument brings her. “It brings me a great deal of joy,” she says, and with a deep desire to share that joy, she and Chanel founded The Music Sprouts Access Program in January 2024. The program began with the simple goal of making music education accessible to children in the village. Lessons take place at the church hall, providing a space for kids to learn and grow through the power of music.

“We started in January 2024, and we already have over 60 children attending our main community class on Wednesday afternoons. Through commitment, dedication and passion, children can work their way up through the program,” Michaela shares with pride. The program is designed to nurture young talent, with children progressing through various levels based on their dedication and attitude.

The first step, Level 1, is the Community Class, where children are encouraged to show up consistently and display respect and good behavior. Those who meet these criteria are invited to join Level 2. instrument group classes, which are currently focused on the violin. Eventually, students who show exceptional commitment can qualify for Level 3, where they are given their own instrument and weekly private lessons.

 

Pictured above: Lesson in session with teacher Michaela Gardner

 

“We had 12 candidates who qualified for sponsorship and managed to find sponsors for all of them, which has been incredible,” Michaela explains. With 11 violins and several percussion instruments, Michaela and Chanel bring the necessary tools to class each week, despite some challenges. After their bicycles were stolen in 2024, they now transport the instruments on foot to the church hall.

To further support The Music Sprouts initiative, Michaela and Chanel have set up a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where they have raised over R6000 of their R400 000 goal with the help of 4 generous donors. This fundraiser is aimed at creating a dedicated space for the program, which they plan to call The Access Cube

Michaela explains, “We really are in need of a dedicated space for the Music Sprouts. So we have begun a fundraiser for ‘The Access Cube’, which will be a small off-grid building on our property to hold all our music classes, for any of the children to come and practice their instruments, as well as just have a safe space to even do their homework in the afternoons.”

 

Pictured above: The Music Sprouts students honing their talents

 

Beyond music, The Access Cube will serve as a community hub, where children can also learn about growing food, attend skill-building workshops, and participate in concerts. Michaela envisions it as a space where the youth of the village can connect and thrive in various aspects of life. “Down the road, The Access Cube will include a lot more than just music. We will teach the children about growing food, host skill building workshops and organize concerts. The idea is that it becomes a hub of activity for all the youth in the village.”

To support the creation of The Access Cube, Michaela and Chanel have launched The Square by Square initiative. Michaela invites anyone interested to contribute, explaining that, “For R500, anyone can sponsor a square to help build the Access Cube. People can, of course, sponsor as many squares as they like. In doing so, they will receive a certificate of sponsorship, regular updates on the program and invitations to any events or concerts we host.”

While financial contributions are essential to the success of The Music Sprouts, Michaela and Chanel also welcome donations of instruments, especially violins, which are most needed for their classes. If you’re interested in helping, donations can be made via their BackaBuddy page, or you can reach out on Facebook for more details.

 

Support their campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/music-sprouts-5774225103367599580

 

Follow their story here: https://www.facebook.com/musicsproutssa

 

Source: Good Things Guy