by Simbulele Jezile | Feb 21, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Monique Hayes, a vibrant 31-year-old mother of three from Marina da Gama – Muizenberg, was thrown into a whirlwind when a check-up in June 2023, led by the discovery of a lump in her groin, delivered devastating news. Initially diagnosed with a hernia, Monique underwent surgery only to discover she had an aggressive form of cancer—stage 4 anaplastic large cell lymphoma, which had spread to her liver.
Before the diagnosis, Monique’s life revolved around her family, filled with beach outings, road trips, and a bustling, independent lifestyle.
Image Caption: Monique Hayes with her family enjoying a pool day
However, the day of diagnosis shattered her world. Shocked and struggling to process the news, she grappled with anger and the existential question of “why me?” Reflecting on her journey, Monique expressed both the struggles and moments of joy amidst adversity.
She shared, “The emotional side of this journey has been a very long one with lots of ups and downs. My relationship with my loved ones was what kept me going.” Monique’s husband, his unwavering support, has been her rock throughout this challenging ordeal.
The treatment regimen has taken its toll, subjecting Monique to physical, emotional, and mental anguish.
She confessed, “The treatment has been torture.” However, her positivity to overcome shines through as she continues to fight for her life, motivated by the hope of a cancer-free future.
While facing limited community support, Monique draws strength from the love of her family and close friends. Witnessing her children’s happiness amidst her illness serves as a powerful motivator, underscoring the importance of love and support during tough times.
Despite the daunting diagnosis, Monique’s spirit remains unbroken.
She launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy in January 2024 to cover the overwhelming medical expenses that accompany her treatment. With a fundraising target of R100,000, the campaign has already garnered momentum from generous donors.
Image caption: Monique Hayes at hospital receiving treatment.
“Your generous donations will not only aid in covering the overwhelming medical expenses but will also help alleviate the weight of the numerous other bills that have gone unpaid. Your support, no matter the amount, would be immensely appreciated. Thank you for considering contributing to my cause.” says Monique.
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by Zane Groenewald | Feb 16, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Bill Du Plessis, a 36-year-old data analyst from Boksburg, faced a devastating accident that changed the course of his life forever, leaving him with an amputated leg and the hope of acquiring a new prosthetic leg.
Pictured above: Bill Du Plessis
Six years ago in 2017, Bill faced a life-altering event – a motorbike accident which took place during a motorsport photography session that set in motion a series of challenges that would test the limits of his courage. The accident left Bill with the bones in his left ankle shattered and was told that he could not get an ankle replacement because he was under 50. This left him with only one option, to have his ankle fused back together. However, during the third operation which took place in a government hospital aspiring medical students who were operating on Bill, inadvertently damaged the main arteries in his left leg, casting an unforeseen shadow over Bill’s future.
“My life has changed a lot. Before the accident I was a very active person, running with my dog and playing indoor soccer. But, since the operation to fuse my ankle, I have not been able to run or play soccer at all anymore.” says Bill.
Pictured above: Bill with his dog Blaze at the beach
Fast forward to December 2022, a month that marked the onset of a new and agonizing chapter. The blood supply to Bill’s foot, the same leg that bore the scars of those earlier operations, ceased. February 2023, however, brought a glimmer of hope with a bypass attempt on one of the three arteries from below Bill’s knee to his foot. However, after wasting time and putting Bill on a waiting list for the bypass, it was too late when they operated as two of the arteries totally collapsed and were not functioning at all and the third one was so brittle that they could not attempt the bypass on it. A subsequent operation, just three days later, was necessitated by the formation of a hematoma under one of the incisions. The pain that followed over the next month was unbearable, leading to the inevitable – the urgent amputation of Bill’s leg in March 2023.
“We often take things for granted in life until they are taken away from us. Even the simplest things, like holding my girlfriend’s hand while walking, seems like a luxury now. My life has completely changed after the accident, and thereafter the amputation. I am no longer the same person. Everything is much harder for me now, and even the people in my life have changed. Some I thought would support me are nowhere to be seen. I have been on crutches for so long that I do not even remember what it feels like to walk. Although I consider myself a strong person, there are days when it all gets too much for me.” explains Bill.
The past 10 months have been a relentless battle, with wound care and physiotherapy becoming the norm, a painful routine that Bill endures three times a week. Amidst this struggle, tragedy struck again as Bill’s father, Marius Du Plessis, a pillar of support, passed away at 59-years-old in April 2023 due to heart failure, just 15 days after Bill’s amputation.
Pictured above: Bill with his dad Marius and his dog Blaze
Through the harrowing journey of physical and emotional pain, Bill remains strong. He faces each day with a determination that leaves everyone in awe. The gym has become his sanctuary, a place where he channels his resilience into daily training, embracing a healthy lifestyle that speaks volumes about his character.
“I wake up every morning at 4am to go to the gym. It gives me a sense of normality and allows me to push myself as much as my body allows. The gym is the only place where I have control over my body and can see changes and growth, both physically and mentally. I have always lived a fit and healthy lifestyle, and losing my leg was not going to stop me from continuing on that path. My goal is to inspire and motivate others in my position, to show them that they too can make a difference and continue getting stronger one day at a time.” Bill says.
Pictured above: Bill at his sanctuary, the gym
Yet, as Bill dreams of a future where he can run, hike, and simply hold hands while walking, the financial burden of medical bills looms large. The hope for a new prosthetic leg seems distant, with a quote of R126,500 standing between him and the freedom to move as he once did.
“I have been dealing with numerous medical bills for years and as a result, I can’t afford to buy a prosthetic leg. The prosthetic leg that I was quoted for will not only make me more active but also give me a sense of normalcy again. If I can raise enough money through BackaBuddy, it will give me hope and make my dream of walking again a reality.” explains Bill.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Bill has launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where he has already raised over R40 000 towards his R126 500 goal with the help of 12 wonderful donors.
Pictured above: Bill with his girlfriend Kathrine Robinson
“I would like to express my heartfelt appreciation to those who have contributed to my campaign. It’s the kind and empathetic people who are willing to put themselves in someone else’s “shoes” that truly leave a lasting impression on my heart. Donating towards my prosthetics will give me a new lease on life and greatly aid in my journey towards recovery and increased mobility.” concludes Bill.
His pride and bravery radiate in the face of adversity, and his unwavering commitment to healing and recovery is nothing short of remarkable.
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by Zane Groenewald | Feb 13, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Greg Dennis (35), a group account director, and his wife Bianca (33), an interior designer from Johannesburg have embarked on a unique journey to welcome baby Dennis into their lives, through IVF.
Greg and Bianca’s love story began when they met in a nightclub in 2009 and after realizing that Bianca hadn’t really taken to him at first, Greg played the long game and crept into her DM’s to see how he could get to spend more time with her, and well, we can say that it all worked out in his favor.
Pictured above: Young Greg and Bianca Dennis during their early dating days
“We dated for about 4 years before I proposed to her on a beach in Cape Town. We were engaged for about 2 years and then we had the most beautiful wedding in 2016. It was only then did we move in with each other, bought our first house together, had fur-babies, and the rest is history.” says Greg.
Their story is woven with moments of joy, laughter, and companionship, but the missing piece of their puzzle is the sound of a child’s laughter. After getting married, Greg and Bianca decided to spend the first 2-3 years of their marriage enjoying each other’s company, and going on adventures with the plan to try to have a family a bit later on in their lives. But, the couple reached a pivotal point in their quest for parenthood as they faced a tumultuous emotional rollercoaster when they were faced with the harsh reality of infertility, and doctors recommended IVF as the next step.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca at their engagement photoshoot
“We can’t help but think that if we only knew that we would struggle to have a baby after waiting we probably would have started sooner. Becoming parents has always been a part of our planned life and not knowing the amount of hurdles we would encounter along the way is heartbreaking. But, if there’s one thing I know is that Bianca would be the most amazing mom. Caring, nurturing, a little crazy, but the best mom ever.” says Greg.
However, the financial burden associated with IVF presented an unforeseen challenge. So they tried other routes, along the more natural path as well as medicated. When this did not work out, Greg and Bianca spoke to friends and family and that’s where they were given the suggestion of crowdfunding for IVF.
“We were hesitant to ask people for money. But, others assured us that it’s a brave thing to do, it’s got a good cause and everyone would be open to donating. So we did it” explains Greg.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca at their wedding in 2016
Motivated and with encouragement from their loved ones, Greg and Bianca decided to share their story and raise funds for their IVF journey, along with a heartwarming and creative idea. They introduced a 1000-piece puzzle, where supporters could contribute financially and have their names written on the back of the puzzle pieces. This beautiful mosaic of love and support will find its place in Baby Dennis’s nursery, symbolizing the unity of a community that came together to make a dream come true.
“We came across the idea of the puzzle a while back and always thought it would be a great way to always think of the journey we went through, the people who supported us, and something for baby Dennis to remember how loved they are. We’re also a family and friend group that loves games and board games so it was quite fitting. We felt that with so many people wanting to help make our dream a reality, every contribution was like adding a puzzle piece to our dream, that when complete it would be a reminder of the support and love we have from everyone. Especially because we’ll be adding their names to each piece of the puzzle.” explains the couple.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
With the financial aspect of IVF being a daunting challenge for them, Greg and Bianca decided to start a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, where they have raised over R100 000 of their R200 000 target with the help of over 100 donors.
The funds raised will cover not only the IVF procedure itself but also the essential medications, ultrasounds, and embryo testing.
Pictured above: Greg and Bianca enjoying a day at the beach
“We know that IVF is not always guaranteed and we know that everyone contributing to our dream knows this too. We’re really grateful for the love and support we’ve received. Everyone is so generous and we could never have done this without all of you. Baby Dennis will have a lot of thank you cards to write on their birthday every year.” says the couple.
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Some heartfelt donor comments on Greg and Bianca’s campaign:
- “God bless you. This baby is going to be a real blessing.” – Nicki Gough
- “Wishing you all the best and sending lots of love and good vibes on this journey! You’re in my prayers xx” – Jena Shams
- “You will be incredible parents ♡ sending loads of love and support from The Gordon’s” – Kerri Gordon
by Zane Groenewald | Feb 12, 2024 | Campaign, Impact
Dalan Holton, a 49-year-old director at Debella Finance from Morningside, Sandton, embarked on an extraordinary journey as he approached his 50th birthday on March 1, 2024.
Pictured above: Dalan Holton from Morningside, Sandton, took on a chilly Robben Island Swim for a good cause
Unlike the typical ‘midlife crisis,’ Dalan joked, which might have led one to indulge in luxury or travel, he had set his sights on a challenge that was as symbolic as it was daunting—the swim through the shark-infested waters from Robben Island to the mainland at Bloubergstrand. This endeavor was not for personal glory but for a cause close to his heart.
“Before you questioned my sanity, let me assure you there was a method to my madness. This aquatic adventure wasn’t just about proving that I’ve still got it at 50. It was about something much bigger. I was raising funds on BackaBuddy for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship,” said Dalan.
Pictured above: Dalan training for his swim
The Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship
During his formative years at King Edward VII School (KES), one of Johannesburg’s finest academic institutions, Dalan forged a lasting friendship with Antonio Lopes. They were in the same graduating class, swam on the same team, and remained good friends for years. Years later, when Antonio’s son, Daniel, tragically passed away at the age of 12 in a freak accident on December 15th, 2018, it left a void in the hearts of those who knew him.
In his honor, the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship was founded. Known for his “grit,” hard work, and determination, Daniel excelled in academics and sports, embodying the spirit of perseverance. The Scholarship was established to support students facing financial hardships, ensuring that they could benefit from the rich educational and extracurricular offerings at KES.
To raise funds for the DLMS, Dalan launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, aiming to hit a target of R50,000. The campaign already made a splash, raising R36,000 with the support of 27 donors.
The funds assisted two deserving students by covering 50% of their tuition fees at KES, payable for their entire high school career, offering them the opportunity to thrive in an environment that nurtures academic and personal growth.
The scholarship not only offered financial support but also encompassed emotional, social, and academic guidance through the TAG Foundation.
“I felt that attending a school like KES offered an unparalleled opportunity, and it would have been tragic for anyone to miss out due to financial constraints. The value lay not just in the education but in the whole experience that KES provided. I would have loved to be able to provide this launchpad and experience to others,” said Dalan.
The Robben Island swim
The Robben Island swim, scheduled for February 15th, weather permitting, was more than a physical challenge for Dalan. It was a symbolic passage, representing endurance, hope, and remembrance with every stroke. The swim started at Robben Island, covering a distance of approximately 7.5 kilometers to Bloubergstrand, though currents might have extended this to 8 to 8.5 kilometers.
Despite the unpredictability and daunting aspects of the swim, including cold waters and the potential presence of sharks, Dalan’s preparation and passion fueled his determination. His training, under the guidance of coach Cyndi Starr from Wahoo Aquatics and alongside training partners Andy Johnson and Suzette Prinsloo, had prepared him for that moment.
Pictured above: Dalan with Andy and Suzette
A Lesson in Laps
Beyond his professional achievements at Debella Finance, Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who worked in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee, he viewed this challenge as an opportunity to teach her about finding passion and helping others.
“Dalan shared, “Be active and push yourself. Find something you love and then excel at it, stretching yourself but finding joy in the process every step of the way. If you can find a way for the thing you love and are good at to add value to other people’s lives—do that!”
His active lifestyle, which included competitive swimming, racing cars, and practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, for which he had a black belt, reflected his dedication to personal excellence and commitment to contributing to the community.
Pictured above: Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who works in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee.
Dalan wants to thank the donors who, through their generous contributions on BackaBuddy, had wished him “Good tides” and “smooth currents” on his chilly swim. As his challenge approached, Dalan was empowered by Daniel Lopes’ legacy and the scholarship in his name, which would have had a profound and lasting impact on the future of two deserving students who got to experience the education and camaraderie KES provides.
All donations made to this cause qualify for a Section 18A tax deduction.
Update
I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to every donor. Your generosity has not only honored Daniel’s memory but has also opened doors for deserving students at King Edward VII School facing financial hardships. This achievement reaffirms a powerful message: with commitment and a clear goal, anything is achievable.
As I reflect on the exhilarating and 7.5km swim from Robben Island to Bloubergstrand, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude and pride. Not just for completing this personal milestone just before I turn 50, but for the incredible support and generosity that has poured in. Together, we’ve surpassed our initial goal of R50,000, raising an astonishing R65,000 for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship.
Special thanks must be given to Daniel’s father, Antonio Lopes, whose presence at both the start and finish of the swim added a profoundly personal touch to the event. This swim was more than just a physical challenge; it was a testament to what we can accomplish when we band together for a noble cause. Let’s continue to support and inspire one another, proving that the spirit of community and determination can make waves of change.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being part of this memorable journey.
by Zane Groenewald | Feb 9, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Nhlakanipho Mkhize, a distinguished 33-year-old academic originally from Imbali Township, Pietermaritzburg, and now residing in Springs, east of Johannesburg, embodies the belief that education is the key to unlocking boundless opportunities.
Now, he’s embarked on a mission close to his heart: to pay forward the transformative power of education to his cousin, Busiswa Kuzwayo, aged 14. His goal is to provide her with a chance to broaden her horizons through an educational tour of the United States in September 2024.
Pictured above: Busiswa Kuzwayo
At just 14 years old, Busiswa is described as focused, ambitious, self-disciplined, hardworking, and an ambivert. She has already shown remarkable academic prowess and versatility. Excelling in her studies at Pietermaritzburg Girls High and actively participating in sports such as soccer, netball, and hockey, along with cultural activities like poetry, she has consistently performed at the top of her class.
Her achievements have earned her a coveted spot among the 50 top achievers invited to the U.S. tour, highlighting her as a multifaceted individual with a deep-seated desire to make her mark on the world.
The heart of this story lies in the crowdfunding campaign initiated by Nhlakanipho on BackaBuddy, aiming to cover the significant costs associated with the trip, such as flights, accommodation, and other travel expenses.
With a target of R78,000, the campaign has already raised over R36,000, a testament to the community’s belief in Busiswa’s potential and the collective effort to invest in her future. The funds will ensure that Busiswa, raised by a single mother alongside her grandmother, can embark on this life-changing journey without financial burden.
Pictured above: Busiswa Kuzwayo
Nhlakanipho’s journey from his hometown to the world’s leading academic institutions provided him with a deep understanding of the transformative impact of international exposure on young minds. He excelled early on, ranking first in matric in 2008 and serving as the deputy head boy at Carter High School.
His significant period as a Rhodes Scholar at the University of Oxford, where he pursued a DPhil in Material Science focusing on electrohydrodynamic jet printing, exemplifies his commitment to academic excellence. Having traveled the globe for his education, Nhlakanipho has gained firsthand insight into the breadth of perspective and depth of knowledge that such experiences afford.
Pictured above: Nhlakanipho at Wadham College, Oxford in May 2022
“I believe that this opportunity will allow Busiswa to dream bigger and more boldly! She will see that the world is truly her oyster, she only needs to work diligently towards her goals to attain them,” Nhlakanipho articulates, emphasising the profound effect this tour will have on Busiswa’s aspirations and worldview. His conviction that education and exposure are key to unlocking one’s potential resonates throughout the campaign, inspiring others to contribute to Busiswa’s journey.
Busiswa’s aspirations to study Dermatology, Real Estate, Town Planning, or Geoscience at prestigious universities like UCT, Stellenbosch, Wits, or even internationally at Yale, Harvard, or Stanford, are ambitious. Yet, these dreams are firmly within reach with her track record of academic excellence and the unwavering support of her cousin and the community. The U.S. tour is poised to be a cornerstone experience, offering her insights into global academic communities, diverse cultures, and the kind of independent thinking and confidence that will serve her well in her future academic and professional endeavors.
Pictured above: Busiswa with her gran, Eunice Kuzwayo, at her mom Busisiwe Kuzwayo’s graduation, where she received Masters in Adult Education from UKZN.
“This tour will lead to character-building, confidence, independence, self-discovery, and creating lasting friendships. It will also broaden Busiswa’s horizon academically thus building academic capacity,” Nhlakanipho remarks, highlighting the multifaceted benefits of the tour.
This story transcends the narrative of individual success; it’s a vivid illustration of paying it forward, of using one’s achievements as a platform to uplift others.
As the campaign continues to gain momentum, it stands as a call to action for those who believe in nurturing the next generation of leaders, thinkers, and innovators. It’s a story of family, ambition, and the collective effort to turn dreams into reality, proving that together, we can overcome barriers and pave the way for a brighter future.
“I am certain that this trip will open her eyes to a world beyond her wildest imagination!” Nhlakanipho concludes
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by Simbulele Jezile | Feb 9, 2024 | Campaign, Featured
Education is often viewed as the key to endless opportunities and the realization of dreams. However, financial obstacles often make this path seem impossible for many students.
As a crowdfunding platform, we at BackaBuddy connect individuals with causes they care about, and have enabled countless people worldwide to make a tangible difference in the lives of others. Last year, many inspiring students turned to our platform to raise funds for their education, highlighting that with community support and that dreams can indeed come true.
Here are some amazing campaigns that raised funds for education in 2023:
Lucky’s journey is one of unwavering determination and parental love. Seeking to secure a future for his son Immanuel, who dreams of attending fashion-design school, Lucky faced homelessness and financial hardship. Despite these challenges, he showcased Immanuel’s designs at a traffic light, hoping to raise funds. Through the kindness of strangers, R68,000 was donated towards Immanuel’s schooling and accommodation, highlighting the transformative power of collective support.
Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/immanuel-moyo-5601202135225970847
Marielle Hobson, a dedicated 3rd-year industrial engineering student, faced various challenges, including financial burdens due to family circumstances. Despite these obstacles, Marielle remained committed to her studies, working part-time to support herself. She successfully raised over R61,000 from 17 generous donors to cover her tuition fees, helping her continue her studies.
Read her campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/marielle-hobson-5716341702123105846
Hanri Steyl’s family experienced financial setbacks, making it challenging to cover her son Christopher’s tuition fees. Despite their hardships, Christopher’s determination to pursue his IT studies remained steadfast. With R37,000 raised, the Steyl family’s story emphasizes the importance of coming together to ensure deserving students have access to educational opportunities.
Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/christopher-du-toit-5704026135017869270
Alwyn passionately spreads the gospel in South Africa and beyond, traveling extensively to churches and schools. Seeking support for a trip to the United States for a conference and ministry training, Alwyn raised an incredible R58,000 through BackaBuddy.
Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/alwyn-uys-5578977146153820800
Ongeziwe, a Director in Assurance at SNG Grant Thornton, took on the ultimate challenge of the Comrades Marathon to raise funds for disadvantaged students aspiring to become CAs(SA). With over R50,000 raised, Ongeziwe’s commitment to breaking barriers in higher education underscores the transformative potential of education in uplifting communities.
Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/thuthuka-education-upliftment-fund-thuthuka-education-upliftment-fund-5598659460414508261
These stories are a testimony to the true impact of community support and its vital role in dismantling barriers to education.
If you face similar challenges or wish to support students on their educational journeys, join our community on BackaBuddy.
Sign up, raise funds on BackaBuddy here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/individual/register
