One-year-old Aria Payton Botha, a little warrior from the South Coast of Durban, KwaZulu Natal, is battling severe hearing loss in both ears and could potentially receive the gift of sound for the first time through a cochlear implant in the next three months. With the unwavering support of her family and community, her parents aim to raise funds for this life-changing operation through a BackaBuddy campaign.
Aria’s mother, Meghan (35), describes her as a fiery, independent, and lively little girl, whose spirit shines brightly even in the face of challenges. “Nothing stops this little girl,” Meghan beams with pride, “she is the epitome of an absolute warrior princess.”
Despite her hearing impairment, Aria finds joy in simple pleasures like car rides and playing outdoors. Her infectious spirit inspires hope and strength in those around her.
Caption Image: Baby Aria at 12 Months Old
Aria’s arrival was not without its trials. After experiencing the heartbreak of two back-to-back miscarriages, Meghan and her husband Nick (39) found renewed hope when they learned of Aria’s impending arrival. Aria, as Meghan fondly recalls, brought a sense of joy and anticipation that filled their hearts with newfound hope.
But joy turned to concern when, shortly after her birth, it became evident that Aria was facing hearing impairment. Despite the initial setbacks and inconclusive test results, Meghan’s maternal instinct urged her to seek answers and solutions for her daughter’s well-being.
After consulting with an ENT specialist, it was confirmed that Aria had severe hearing loss in both ears, a diagnosis that shattered Meghan’s heart. However, her resolve remained unbroken as she vowed to do whatever it takes to ensure Aria’s quality of life.
Caption Image: Baby Aria at 11-months-old
The journey to explore treatment options led Meghan and her family down a path filled with uncertainty but also with unwavering determination.
“I feel our family has become closed and we have seen sides to our boys that we didn’t even know existed. My eldest (17) came home the other day and told me that he had spoken to his principal to see if their school could do a fundraiser because we absolutely have to get Aria her implants … I teared up right there!” says Meghan.
In response to the urgent need for medical assistance, Meghan initiated a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. With a fundraising target of R200,000 to cover surgery, implants, and therapy appointments, the community rallies behind Aria’s by raising over R20 000 thus far from 24 donors.
Meghan reflects on the overwhelming response from their community, saying, “To say that we have been overwhelmed by the love and support is an understatement.”
The campaign, fueled by compassion and generosity, has garnered support from far and wide, bringing them closer to their fundraising target with each passing day. As the campaign continues to gain momentum, Meghan remains grateful for every donation, every share, and every word of encouragement.
“I could absolutely never express in words the amount of gratitude that I have for everyone who has helped in some way,” she says tearfully, “if I ever had the money available to pay it forward, I could assure you that another child would receive their cochlear implants just like Aria is going to.”
Caption Image: Baby Aria at 13 months old
Update on her progress:
On the 11th of March 2024, Aria underwent a significant milestone in her journey toward hearing restoration. Accompanied by her family, she visited
the audiologist to have her hearing aids fitted. As the devices were turned on, Aria’s reaction was immediate and emotional, shedding tears in response to the unfamiliar sensation. The audiologist noted that while this reaction does not conclusively indicate Aria’s ability to hear, it suggests sensitivity to vibrations in her ears.
However, this reaction also provides encouraging insights into Aria’s condition. The audiologist remarked that her response indicates the absence of damage to her cochlea or nerves, a crucial factor for potential candidacy for Cochlear implants. This news brings relief to Aria’s family, as it opens up possibilities for her future treatment.
Our little Aria was fitted with hearing aids today. Not all reactions are smiles and joy sometimes the feeling is overwhelmed and scared 💔 What we know from this visit is that her nerves are in tact and her cochlear is functions. We dont know what sound she is hearing and the depth of the sound, it may even just be vibrations. Check in with the audiologist in 2 weeks ❤️❤️
Sam Stewart, a 48-year-old International External Affairs Manager from Plumstead, has been on a roller coaster journey of challenges, victories, and an unwavering spirit that refuses to surrender.
Nineteen years ago in 2005, Sam received a devastating diagnosis—breast cancer with a mere 7% chance of survival and only six months to live. Against all odds, she triumphed over cancer, not just for herself but for countless others facing the same battle.
Pictured above: Sam Stewart
“Sam was in a complete state of shock and disbelief when she found out that she had cancer. She was coerced into having surgery by the surgeon without any second opinion. A decision she regrets as she knows now that the surgeon only gets paid for surgery. Not for making the patient think of options. She knows that cancer is now behind her but this is after having been 152 times to the chemo room over 10 years. Sam is now on only natural health remedies.” says Natalie Dreisenstock, a long time friend of Sam who took the incredible initiative to share Sam’s story with everyone who would listen.
Sam’s tenacity extended beyond her personal triumph as she fought for the right treatment, forming an NGO that aids patients in navigating the complexities of medical aid treatments. This organisation, born from her own struggle, continues to be a spark of hope for those in need.
In the midst of this noble endeavour, Sam and her husband Allan (59), faced a different kind of adversity during the 2019 COVID-19 pandemic—financial ruin. The couple were in a very stable financial position and Sam left her corporate job with Hewlett Packard (HP) to focus on her true passion of motivational speaking and her NGO SoulSync assisting cancer patients to access treatment. Allan had been employed for over 7 years with a large South African IT company, as the Regional Executive for the Cape Region.
Pictured above: Sam and her husband, Allan enjoying a night out
“The hardest part about losing everything is your pride, the best part of it is how liberating it is to be free of all the consumer driven expenses that mean absolutely nothing really. We were forced to look at what really matters in life, we learnt to live on next to nothing and our relationship just got stronger and stronger as the only thing we really had was one another.” says Allan.
At the end of 2019, Allan received an excellent offer to join a global IT Organisation. By March 2020 Covid and the associated national and international lockdowns took the world by storm, and Allan found himself a casualty of the global cutbacks, so many of us experienced. He left the company in October 2020 and since then has applied for countless positions and attempted to start his own business. For some time they survived on savings, but ultimately ended up living with friends or house-sitting to keep a roof over their heads.
In August 2023 Sam found a permanent position with World Animal Protection and they were finally able to rent a home, having moved an astounding 19 times in just two and a half years, and get on to medical aid again. Allan has been putting all his energy into getting his 2 businesses, Flowte Franchise and SalesSync, a coachingbusiness, off the ground.
Pictured above: Sam and Allan Stewart
“I was ecstatic when I got the job. It was such a wonderful time, I was finally going to do something for animals which is my biggest passion and joy. Getting this job also meant having medical aid and a place to stay and start over again.” says Sam
However, just as they glimpsed a positive turn, fate dealt a cruel blow—Sam suffered a hemorrhagic stroke on February 4th 2024.
The stroke, a severe deep brain bleed in the basal ganglia, left Sam paralyzed on her right side and robbed her of speech. Allan, who is an ex-medic, acted swiftly, and managed to get Sam to emergency care within 15 minutes. Though Sam has made some progress in her recovery, her ability to conduct business conversations, read, spell, or grasp complex concepts remains impaired.
The problem they face now is Sam will unlikely be able to work for the next 8 months to a year, and it is critical that during her recovery they have sufficient income to pay for medical aid and rent. Allan will have to act as Sam’s primary care-giver as they cannot afford full time care, and that will impact his ability to work.
Pictured above: Sam in hospital after her stroke
Navigating the complexities of the medical system has become yet another battle for the couple. The medical aid, despite being legally obligated to cover Sam’s condition as a prescribed minimum benefit, has proven challenging as they tried in every possible way to delay the authorisation for the emergency. Their fight for authorization, therapies, and proper care is ongoing, adding to the mounting pressure on both Sam and Allan.
Amidst this struggle, Allan has put his businesses on hold to focus on Sam’s recovery. Sam’s own employment is at risk due to the obvious challenges she faces. The couple, demonstrating resilience and commitment, face each day with determination, love, and strength, even as time works against them.
Now, a call for support echoes through their story. Friends, family, and well-wishers are rallying to raise R300 000 through a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where they have already managed to raise over R80 000 with the help of 27 incredible donors.
Pictured above: Sam enjoying being surrounded by nature and sunshine
The money raised will alleviate financial burdens, cover medical expenses beyond the aid rates, provide necessary care, and supplement lost revenue from work. The hope is to ease the financial strain, granting Sam the time and resources needed for a thorough recovery—estimated to be no less than eight months and potentially exceeding a year.
“The generosity and kindness that has been shown to us is overwhelming. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. We’ve been through tough and defining times before and we are determined to get through this challenge with flying colours. Watch out for Sam 2.0, the upgrade who will emerge. Without your help this would be near to impossible.” concludes Allan.
5-month-old Leah Strydom from Westonaria in Johannesburg, is a tiny warrior who has been diagnosed with congenital hearing loss due to the uncommon occurrence of having different hearing loss levels in each ear.
‘Leahis such a delight at five months old! Every time she wakes up, her face lights up with the biggest smile, radiating joy and contentment. She’s always chattering away, and her happiness is infectious – being around her just fills you with warmth and happiness. She hardly ever cries, taking everything in her stride, which makes parenting feel effortless. Mornings with her are absolutely heartwarming; her smile sets a positive tone for the whole day. Leah is already so social and playful, curious about everything around her. Her calm and peaceful presence makes spending time with her the highlight of the day. She’s not just a joy to be around; she’s like your little partner in all the daily adventures!’ explains Leah’s mum Mandy.
Pictured above: Baby Leah Strydom
Leah’s story begins during her time in the womb, where unforeseen circumstances added a layer of complexity to her health. At 19 weeks pregnant, Leah’s mother Mandy was hospitalised with Influenza A. Concerns arose when, during the 24-week scan, Leah’s head growth lagged by two weeks, prompting a referral to a sonographer and then a fetal specialist. The possibility of Microcephaly, a neurological condition characterised by an abnormally small head size in infants, was discussed, but negative blood tests ruled out infections. Despite recommendations for DNA testing and an MRI, Leah’s parents chose to embrace her as she was, trusting in what they believed to be God’s plan.
‘As Leah’s parents, we were deeply saddened when we learned about her hearing loss. Despite facing difficulties during pregnancy, we were committed to caring for our beloved daughter no matter what challenges came our way. At first, we didn’t fully understand the extent of her hearing impairment, so we prepared ourselves for potential struggles. Fortunately, her hearing loss turned out to be less severe than we initially feared, especially compared to the concurrent concern of microcephaly. Without delay, we began learning about hearing technology, hoping for a positive outcome that would help Leah experience the world of sound. ‘ says Mandy
Pictured above: Baby Leah with her mum Mandy, dad Peet, and sister Mialeigh
Leah’s hearing loss became apparent when she failed her newborn hearing test. A series of OAE (Otoacoustic Emissions), sounds that the ear produces in response to external stimuli, tests and an AABR (Automated Auditory Brainstem Response), type of hearing screening or diagnostic test that measures the electrical activity of the auditory nerve and brain stem in response to sound stimuli, followed, all indicating that she could hear, albeit not perfectly. The conclusive diagnostic ABR (Auditory Brainstem Response) and SSR (Steady-State Response) confirmed the hearing impairment, marking the beginning of Leah’s unique exploration into the world of sound.
‘As parents, we went through a roller coaster of emotions when we found out that our 4-month-old baby has damaged hair cells and severe hearing loss. It was tough news to digest, but we took comfort in knowing that there are options for hearing solutions. With the help of hearing devices, we believe she can achieve the best possible hearing.’ – says Peet, Leah’s dad.
Leah’s parents then embarked on a journey of extensive testing and medical examinations. MRI results came back normal, ruling out any brain-related issues. However, Leah’s right ear presented mild to severe sloping hearing loss, while her left ear exhibited moderate to severe flat hearing loss, resulting in an average of 39% hearing loss.
Pictured above: A happy, baby Leah
Crucial for Leah’s speech and language development in these early stages, bilateral hearing aids have been prescribed. The Audiologist recommends fitting them by the time she turns six months old. However, the financial burden of the hearing aids and the costs associated with the numerous tests conducted pose a significant challenge.
‘Leah has been wearing demo hearing aids for about two weeks now, and we’ve seen incredible progress. Once we have the funds, she’ll get her permanent set programmed. In the beginning, she struggled a bit with adjusting to them, sometimes feeling overwhelmed and overstimulated. But lately, we’ve noticed a positive change. She’s gone from being quiet and cautious to laughing and chatting more when she’s wearing hearing aids.’ – explains Leah’s parents.’ explains Leah’s parents
Quotes ranging from R35 190 to R53 705 for the hearing aids have added financial strain, leaving Leah’s family uncertain about covering the testing fees. This has led the family to set up a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy with a target of R372 462 of which they have already raised over R2 500 with the help of 6 amazing donors.
Pictured above: Baby Leah at her first Christmas photo shoot with mum Mandy, dad Peet, and sister Mialeigh
Their aim of this campaign is to raise the necessary funds to provide Leah with the hearing aids and cover the costs of the tests.
‘Thank you for taking the time to read Leah’s story. We’re grateful for any support you can provide. Together, we can make a real difference in Leah’s journey to better hearing. Whether you’re able to contribute financially or not, every bit of support means a lot to Leah and our family. With the demo hearing aids, Leah has already made great progress, and your generosity can help her continue to thrive. Your support will not only contribute to Leah’s hearing journey but also serve as a testament to the kindness that binds us as a community.’ they conclude.
UPDATE:
As Leah’s first birthday approaches, her family is filled with both hope and urgency. Recently, they discovered that Leah’s hearing on her left side is much worse than initially thought, making a cochlear implant an essential step for her development. The procedure, however, comes with a significant cost of R373,000, and the family is determined to raise the necessary funds in time for this life-changing implant.
Next month also marks Deaf Awareness Month, a time that holds special significance for Leah and her loved ones. They dream of celebrating her first birthday by giving her the precious gift of hearing, allowing her to experience the world in a way she has never known. The journey has been challenging, but with the support of the community, Leah’s family remains hopeful that they can reach this goal and provide her with the chance to hear the laughter, music, and love that surrounds her every day.
Lize Marais, from the Helderberg region of the Western Cape, embodies determination and compassion as she strives to keep the doors of Milkwood Learning Academy and their beloved Toy Library open. This academy is a haven for children with special needs, including those with learning disabilities, autism, and Down syndrome.
With a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, Marais is rallying the community to secure the future of 18 students by the end of March 2024, facing an urgent financial crisis that threatens the academy’s existence.
A Sanctuary for Learning and Growth
Milkwood Learning Academy, nestled in the heart of the Helderberg region, is more than an educational institution; it’s a place where vulnerable children discover their potential in a nurturing and accepting environment. Founded by Marais seven years ago, the academy has become a critical resource for affordable, quality education tailored to children with intellectual disabilities. “It’s a place where they don’t feel rejected, they feel safe and loved,”Marais explains. Her commitment to these children is unwavering, driven by a vision of inclusivity and empowerment.
Marais shares poignant insights into the impact of Milkwood on its students: “Over the years I have seen so many success stories. Children come to us with very high anxiety levels. Some were rejected by society, others were enrolled in mainstream schools, and were subject to bullying from other children. Many of my children can’t speak a word or read a word when they join Milkwood. Later they learn to talk, play with others, and even read books.”
Pictured above: Lize Marais with Milkwood Learning Academy students
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Despite the positive impact on its students, Milkwood’s financial sustainability is at risk. The school’s inclusive fee structure, designed to accommodate families of all economic backgrounds, has led to financial shortfalls. “Our goal is to enable children with special needs to live meaningful lives within their communities,” Marais says, emphasizing the need for support to keep this haven for learning alive.
Pictured above: Lize Marais with Milkwood Learning Academy students
Since the launch of the BackaBuddy campaign, 13 donors have come together to raise R15,581 towards Milkwood’s fundraising target of R60 000 to address their immediate financial needs, including rent and daily operational costs
“As the deadline approaches, the story of Milkwood Learning Academy and its fight for survival serves as a testament to the impact of community support and the difference it can make in the lives of children with special needs, who are the most vulnerable among us.” – says Bernelie Barwise ( Social Media Manager at BackaBuddy.)
To support Lize Marais and the Milkwood Learning Academy, visit their BackaBuddy campaign link:
Sané Wilken (18), a passionate cattle farm worker from Boshoff, Free State, experienced a traumatic event on January 25, 2024, which profoundly altered her life’s trajectory. While engaged in a routine task, pouring fertiliser into a motorised water tank, Sané’s thumb unexpectedly got caught and twisted in the bag she was using, leading to a catastrophic sequence of events.
Pictured above: Sané Wilken
Despite the immediate danger and her attempts to free herself, the machinery relentlessly twisted the bag around her thumb, eventually breaking her wrist, and ultimately resulting in the complete severance of her forearm.
While Sané says her life has been forever changed due to the traumatic incident, she is determined not to let her define her future. Showing remarkable strength of character, Sané told her mother, Corila, in the emergency room, “It’s only an arm. I’m still alive to speak to you, and this will not get me down.”
Pictured above: Sané with her mother, Corila
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Since losing her arm, Sané is diligently working to adapt to her new circumstances. Her greatest challenges now stem from everyday tasks that she once performed effortlessly. Simple activities such as tying her hair in the morning, getting dressed, eating, and playing with her cherished dogs have become notably more difficult.
While doctors estimate that it could take 6 to 12 months for Sané’s arm to heal, her mother has initiated a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy to purchase a state-of-the-art bionic arm for her. This advanced prosthetic, equipped with sensors that interpret muscle and brain signals, is intended to help Sané regain the confidence and independence she has lost.
Pictured above: Sané Wilken
Since the campaign’s launch, more than R80,000 has been donated towards her fundraising goal of R400,000, with contributions from 50 donors.
Having recently completed her agricultural education, Sané, who has dreamed of becoming the best farmer she could be since she was a little girl, is counting the days until she can return to the work that feeds her spirit, lovingly tending to the crops and cattle.
Reflecting on the accident, Sané says, “It was a freak accident. There was nothing anyone could’ve done differently. It’s no one’s fault. I’m not ashamed of my ‘stompie’ and will show anyone who wants to see my arm and tell my story.”
Thanking her donors, Sané says, “They have given me a second chance. I can’t say thank you enough for the kindness I have received. I’m taking life day by day now, but I know that one day soon, I will be able to live as I did before the accident.”
Monique Hayes, a vibrant 31-year-old mother of three from Marina da Gama – Muizenberg, was thrown into a whirlwind when a check-up in June 2023, led by the discovery of a lump in her groin, delivered devastating news. Initially diagnosed with a hernia, Monique underwent surgery only to discover she had an aggressive form of cancer—stage 4 anaplastic large cell lymphoma, which had spread to her liver.
Before the diagnosis, Monique’s life revolved around her family, filled with beach outings, road trips, and a bustling, independent lifestyle.
Image Caption: Monique Hayes with her family enjoying a pool day
However, the day of diagnosis shattered her world. Shocked and struggling to process the news, she grappled with anger and the existential question of “why me?” Reflecting on her journey, Monique expressed both the struggles and moments of joy amidst adversity.
She shared, “The emotional side of this journey has been a very long one with lots of ups and downs. My relationship with my loved ones was what kept me going.” Monique’s husband, his unwavering support, has been her rock throughout this challenging ordeal.
The treatment regimen has taken its toll, subjecting Monique to physical, emotional, and mental anguish.
She confessed, “The treatment has been torture.” However, her positivity to overcome shines through as she continues to fight for her life, motivated by the hope of a cancer-free future.
While facing limited community support, Monique draws strength from the love of her family and close friends. Witnessing her children’s happiness amidst her illness serves as a powerful motivator, underscoring the importance of love and support during tough times.
Despite the daunting diagnosis, Monique’s spirit remains unbroken.
She launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy in January 2024 to cover the overwhelming medical expenses that accompany her treatment. With a fundraising target of R100,000, the campaign has already garnered momentum from generous donors.
Image caption: Monique Hayes at hospital receiving treatment.
“Your generous donations will not only aid in covering the overwhelming medical expenses but will also help alleviate the weight of the numerous other bills that have gone unpaid. Your support, no matter the amount, would be immensely appreciated. Thank you for considering contributing to my cause.” says Monique.
To support Monique, visit her BackaBuddy campaign link here:
