Local Mom’s Courageous Struggle: Niki Gardner’s Fight Against 3c Her2-Positive Breast Cancer

Local Mom’s Courageous Struggle: Niki Gardner’s Fight Against 3c Her2-Positive Breast Cancer

Cape Town – In October 2021, Niki Gardner a 36-year-old mother’s world took an unexpected turn when she discovered a lump in her breast while breastfeeding her son. It was then that her once beautiful life was turned on its axis as doctors diagnosed her with stage 3c Her2-positive breast cancer. This daunting revelation marked the beginning of a relentless battle against an adversary she never anticipated.

Pictured above: Niki Gardner

Soon after discovering the lump in her breast, Niki underwent a needle biopsy at Tygerberg Hospital, revealing lactation in the report. Subsequently, a sore manifested on her breast, progressively increasing in size and causing severe pain. Seeking a second opinion, Niki consulted another doctor who recommended a core needle biopsy, the results confirmed a positive diagnosis for cancer. Through various scans and tests, medical professionals eventually identified cancer present in both of Niki’s breasts and in her lymph nodes. 

‘This news was a devastating blow to my family and I, especially to my daughter who took the news the hardest.’ Niki shared. reflecting on the emotional turmoil that accompanied her diagnosis. It was a moment that shattered her world and profoundly affected her family, especially her 11-year-old daughter who refused to believe that this is happening to her mother.

The journey that ensued was nothing short of a grueling uphill climb. Niki underwent numerous medical tests, needle biopsies, and treatments, including the notorious “red devil” chemotherapy – Adriamycin and Cyclophosphamide. Despite enduring its harsh side effects, none of these treatments initially proved effective. The toll was evident: hair loss, chronic fatigue, joint pain, nerve pain, and neuropathy became constant companions.

Pictured above: Niki’s smile shines through even during her hair loss journey

‘It took a while for me to process my diagnosis, but I quickly got my mind set right and knew I could beat this even though it was going to be hard. I knew I had to fight with all I have so I can be there for my children and see them grow up. I still have the fear of not being there no matter how positive I feel,’ Niki recalled, emphasizing her determination to overcome the obstacles.

Hope emerged for Niki when her oncologists recommended Herceptin, a targeted treatment showing promise for her condition. But, financial constraints proved to pose a significant obstacle especially without any medical aid.

However, Niki managed to undergo eight sessions of Herceptin, marking a significant step forward in her battle against cancer with the help of family and friends, who decided to support her financially.

‘The treatment is going well. The oncologists are happy with the results so far but I still have a long way to go and it is far from over,’ Niki expressed, acknowledging the uphill road ahead.

On 25 July 2023, Niki underwent a modified radical bilateral mastectomy with flap closure, a step necessitated by the aggressive nature of her cancer. This surgical intervention was followed by the removal of 21 lymph nodes, signifying a critical phase in her journey. 

But, the road to recovery continues with more rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, highlighting the ongoing challenges she faces.

Pictured above: Niki during her treatment

Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy

Acknowledging the financial strain that accompanies such a journey, Niki has taken the step to launch a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where she managed to raise over R4000 of her R250 000 target with the help of 10 wonderful donors. ‘Your donation is not just a financial contribution; but a lifeline for a family facing a formidable adversary.’ Niki appealed, expressing her gratitude for the support received.

Despite the challenges that have physically, emotionally, and financially impacted her family, Niki remains resolute. ‘I have a lot more bad days than good days but I make it a habit to, on those good days, make the best of it by spending as much time as possible playing and making memories with my children. I’ve come a long way, fighting and staying strong. Giving up is just not an option for me,’ she affirmed, underlining her unwavering determination.

As she continues her journey, Niki remains an inspiration to all those around her..

‘You never realize how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have,’ Niki concluded, urging others to stand together in the fight against cancer and offering hope to those facing similar challenges.

 

Support Niki’s campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/niki-gardner

 

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Port Edward Resident (57) Grapples with Lengthy Recovery After Harrowing Dog Attack

Port Edward Resident (57) Grapples with Lengthy Recovery After Harrowing Dog Attack

On September 4th, 2023, Anita Els, a resilient 57-year-old resident of Port Edward, KwaZulu-Natal, endured a distressing attack by a pack of five border collie dogs.

Recognizing the life-altering trauma Anita has experienced, the community has come together to launch a vital fundraising campaign, aiming to provide essential support for Anita’s lengthy recovery. 

 

Pictured above: Anita with Angie, who started her BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign.

 

Anita, known for her warm smile from her time working at The Old Pont reception and actively involved in the local church, now faces a challenging journey of healing, both physically and emotionally.

Merely two days after settling into her new residence, within walking distance of a promising job opportunity, Anita’s life took a tragic turn. On that ill-fated day, she fell victim to a vicious dog attack, sustaining severe injuries on multiple body parts, including arms, legs, breast, shoulder, back, and lower areas. The left leg, torn down to the bone, hovered on the brink of amputation.

“After a routine walk to fetch my medication, I faced a horrifying ordeal at my gate. Initially greeted by Diesel, one of the dogs, the situation escalated when the others joined in, attacking me mercilessly. They tore my clothes, removed my shoes, and left me traumatized. One particularly terrifying dog made eye contact, viciously biting my breast and shoulder. In a desperate attempt to fend him off, I struck his snout, resulting in scars on my arm.”

“Despite the shocking nature of the attack, my landlord discouraged reporting to the authorities. I was overwhelmed, shaking tremendously, and slipping into shock. Thankfully, a member of the public called a private ambulance due to the severity of the damage and helped me escape the brutal scene,” recounts Anita, reflecting on the terrifying sequence of events.

The ambulance swiftly intervened, rushing Anita to Port Shepstone Hospital.

Over a challenging six-week period, Anita underwent two surgeries that successfully averted the looming threat of amputation, saving her left leg. Throughout this time, she demonstrated remarkable courage in facing painful wound scrubbing procedures, numerous theater visits, and considerable discomfort. The dedicated doctors and professors at Albert Luthuli Hospital played a pivotal role in the miraculous preservation of her leg. Despite enduring extreme pain and scarring following the successful integration of donor skin, Anita was given minimal pain medication during her stay.

 

Pictured above: Anita after surgery

 

Anita’s path to recovery remains extensive, and she is also grappling with the psychological aftermath of her ordeal, prompting the community to actively seek specialized consultations and treatments to support her ongoing healing journey.

After being discharged on Monday, November 3rd, she sought solace in a holiday home in Port Edward, generously provided by Vispen and Jan from Norway. The supportive community of Port Edward has thus far played a vital role in Anita’s recovery, offering assistance in various forms, from medical care to daily living essentials.

 

Pictured above: Anita was discharged from Hospital on Nov 3

 

Anita faces an extended recovery journey, requiring extensive trauma counseling. The community expresses gratitude to global friends and family, forming what Anita calls her “angel army,” for their continuous support in helping her rebuild her life.

To aid Anita, a crowdfunding initiative, led by Angie Hodgson—a trustee of the Help Foundation and a close friend—has been initiated on BackaBuddy. The campaign has already amassed nearly R23,000, contributing to the overall funding goal of R300,000. The Help Foundation, in collaboration with Pastor John Pretorius and Hazel Oosthuis, is diligently managing the funds allocated for Anita’s recovery, ensuring they cater to her essential medical and personal needs.

Angie, reflecting on Anita’s journey, said, “It’s hard to find words that truly describe what Anita is going through. She’s showing immense courage and strength as she tries to rebuild her life after facing unimaginably tough times. We’re incredibly thankful for the angels who have come together to support Anita, and her appreciation for this help runs deep.”

Currently, Anita requires extensive physiotherapy due to a shortened Achilles tendon, compelling her to walk on her toes. This demands frequent travel to the nearest occupational therapist. Despite a successful skin grafting procedure, the donor side of her leg is still healing. 

Contributions to Anita’s recovery on BackaBuddy, the sharing of her story, or offering assistance, are greatly appreciated.

 

Pictured above: (Left to right) Christna van Rensburg (old family friend), Vicky Lund (her parents gave the use of their holiday home in Port Edward, Anita and Angie)

 

“If it were not for the BackaBuddy campaign, I don’t know what I would have done. How do you say thank you for such incredible kindness. The campaign has helped me get to where I am today: finally out of hospital and on the long road to recovery, as my wounds heal and I learn to walk again. The saddest part is that I am very distrusting of any dogs at this stage of my journey” – says Anita

In pursuit of justice following her ordeal, Anita did file a case against her landlord, but regrettably, it was dismissed by the public prosecutor, leaving her with limited legal recourse.

 

Support Anita’s recovery on BackaBuddy: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/Anita-Els

 

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12-year-old Eco-Champion Romario Launches Festive Fundraiser to Save Marion Island’s Precious Seabirds

12-year-old Eco-Champion Romario Launches Festive Fundraiser to Save Marion Island’s Precious Seabirds

Romario Valentine, a 12-year-old environmental enthusiast and 2022 BirdLife SA Owlet laureate from Umhlanga, Durban, is making waves with his extraordinary dedication to protecting the planet.

The young ornithophile has not only secured the title of the youngest Ambassador for Ocean Sole but has also represented South Africa at a United Nations Convention to Combat Desertification.

 

Pictured above: Romario holding his Saving Marion Island’s Seabirds Certificate of Appreciation

 

Romario’s environmental journey began at the age of 6, and since then, he has actively participated in numerous conservation projects, beach clean-ups, and tree-planting initiatives. Renowned globally for his efforts, Romario’s passion led him to become an ambassador for Ocean Sole, a Kenyan company specializing in recycling flip-flops that wash ashore.

Having appeared on prestigious platforms such as 50/50, National Geographic Kids, and Global Citizen, Romario has raised over R76,000 for environmental causes on the crowdfunding platform BackaBuddy since the age of 8. 

His diverse initiatives include over 250 beach cleans and the planting or sponsorship of over 455 trees in 31 countries worldwide.

“At BackaBuddy, over the last four years, we’ve been inspired by Romario Valentine’s unwavering commitment to environmental conservation. His passion, coupled with the unwavering support from his generous donors, has created a powerful force for positive change. Together, they’ve not only raised funds but have become integral contributors to the broader preservation of our planet.  Romario proves that you are never too young to make a difference” – says Monique Weich, Donor coordinator at BackaBuddy

In September 2022, Romario released his book, ‘Protect our Planet – Take Action with Romario’, aimed at inspiring the next generation of nature lovers. The book covers essential environmental topics, including recycling, reforestation, pollution solutions, and climate change.

 

Pictured above: Romario smiling proudly with his self published book, Protect Our Planet

Christmas for the Birds

 

As the festive season draws near, Romario has relaunched his campaign in aid of BirdLife South Africa’s Mouse-free Marion Project, dedicated to safeguarding the vital seabirds, including albatrosses and petrels, on Marion Island, a sub-Antarctic location southeast of Cape Town in the Southern Indian Ocean. 

BirdLife South Africa is currently on a mission to eliminate rodents that pose a significant threat to bird species on Marion Island—an essential part of the marine ecosystem.

The albatross, wandering, sooty, grey-headed, and petrel populations are rapidly declining due to the invasive mice introduced by 19th-century sealers and whalers. These rodents are now preying on seabird chicks, hindering their journey to adulthood. The adult birds face additional challenges from the mice, coupled with the impacts of climate change and human activities. The severity of the infestation has left the adult birds defenceless against these predators.

 

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Last year, Romario’s Christmas campaign successfully sponsored 20 hectares on Marion Island. This year, he is determined to persist in his conservation efforts by raising R20 000 to sponsor an additional 20 hectares. Each R1,000 raised through his BackaBuddy campaign will contribute to sponsoring a hectare, ultimately contributing to the preservation of the 30,000-hectare Marion Island.

Romario encourages everyone to be part of this environmental legacy, stating, “When we take care of Nature, we take care of ourselves.” The campaign page will remain open until the end of January 2024.

 

To support Romario’s Seabirds Christmas Gift campaign, visit BackaBuddy: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/romarios-seabirds-christmas-gift

 

Follow Romario on Twitter for updates: ArtistRomario

 

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Stellenbosch’s Little Givers Launches Urgent Appeal to Bridge Funding Gap for Underprivileged Children

Stellenbosch’s Little Givers Launches Urgent Appeal to Bridge Funding Gap for Underprivileged Children

In the heart of Devon Valley, Stellenbosch, The Little Givers Creche and Kindergarten is making an indelible impact on the lives of 21 underprivileged children, providing hope in the face of poverty and overcrowded living conditions.

Image above: Captivated young minds at Little Givers immersed in an engaging and enriching lesson

Dedicated to offering essential education and socialization opportunities, the Little Givers Creche serves as a safe haven for these children, countering the challenges of poverty and cramped living conditions. Through a nurturing environment, Little Givers is committed to empowering these young minds and contributing to their holistic development.

Many parents in this community grapple with unemployment or seasonal employment, resulting in meager financial resources. The children endure cramped living conditions in small wooden wendy houses, with an average of 15 people per unit. This impedes their ability to study and thrive due to a lack of privacy and dedicated time for homework.

Recognizing these challenges, The Little Givers creche and kindergarten strive to provide a nurturing environment with stimulating learning opportunities and essential socialization experiences for the children.

However, sustaining the facility’s operation requires funding for salaries, maintenance, utilities, rent, food, and cleaning, totaling a monthly fee of R550 per child. Regrettably, this fee exceeds what the parents can afford, despite their commendable contribution of 32 percent of the costs in 2021.

Over the past three years, The Little Givers project has been fortunate to receive generous support from both corporate entities and individuals through donations and in-kind contributions. However, the current financial year presents a pressing shortfall of R70,000.

To bridge this gap, The Little Givers has launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. Currently, over R17,000 has been raised towards their R70,000 target. 

Image above: Dedicated efforts by the Little Givers creche to establish a secure and hygienic haven for the children

Although this is a commendable achievement, additional funding is urgently needed to sustain operations and cover ongoing expenses.

“Your consideration and support are instrumental in enabling us to make a tangible difference in the lives of these deserving children. Together, we can empower them with the education and opportunities they deserve,” says Little Givers.

Support this campaign on BackaBuddy: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/little-givers-caring-and-learning-developm

 

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Miracle in Motion: Kempton Park Teen Learned to Walk Again After Life-Threatening Brain Condition

Miracle in Motion: Kempton Park Teen Learned to Walk Again After Life-Threatening Brain Condition

At just 17 years old, Kylie Rossouw from Kempton Park, Johannesburg, faced a formidable challenge that tested her strength and determination. Diagnosed with arteriovenous malformation (AVM) at the age of 15, a complex and life-threatening condition affecting the blood vessels in her brain, Kylie embarked on a courageous journey to reclaim her life.

 

Pictured: The first weekend Kylie spent at home from the rehab with her three legged rescue dog Lola

 

Given the gravity of her situation, Kylie had to make a life-altering decision at a tender age – undergo a risky operation with a 4% chance of complications or live a life marked by constraints and uncertainties. Opting for the former, Kylie’s resolve was put to the ultimate test during the surgery on March 7, 2022, when unforeseen complications led to an intraoperative hemorrhage, putting her in a two-day medically induced coma.

 

Pictured above: Kylie before her operation

 

The harrowing experience left Kylie’s parents, Angelique and Tertius, grappling with a torrent of emotions. Angelique shares, “How do you stay positive when your heart is broken into a million pieces? These and a million other questions were racing through our minds.”

Upon awakening, Kylie confronted the stark reality of losing feeling and mobility on her left side, challenging not only her physical well-being but also the realization that her dream of becoming a neurosurgeon might be in jeopardy. 

Her mother reflects on the scariest moment, “It was the scariest moment of our lives, watching her get taken into theatre. When the doctors decided to wake Kylie and within an instant, our lives changed forever.”

Undeterred, Kylie’s resilience shone through as she embarked on an arduous road to recovery. Nearly three weeks in the hospital were followed by five weeks of intense therapy in a rehabilitation facility in Pretoria. Despite the setback, Kylie achieved a significant milestone, walking unassisted upon her discharge on April 29, 2022.

 

Pictured above: Kylie discharged from the rehab, showing her progress from being in a wheelchair to using a walking stick and walking on her own

 

Choosing to take a hiatus from school in 2022 to focus entirely on rehabilitation was a difficult decision for Kylie. However, her unwavering determination to excel academically persists. Despite challenges such as difficulty focusing and limited hand mobility, Kylie aims to pursue Neuropsychology after high school, adapting her aspirations to the new circumstances.

Kylie’s father expresses unwavering faith in her recovery, stating, “Nothing is impossible when she puts her mind to it. She will get better; she is my daughter. I will keep on pushing her to get better.”

 

Pictured: Kylie, her mom Angelique, father Tertius and brother Ryan

 

Yet, the journey is not without financial hurdles. Kylie’s family faces mounting medical expenses due to her medical aid provider’s reluctance to cover essential costs. To bridge this gap, the Rossouw family initiated a BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign on April 19, 2022.

The campaign has thus far been instrumental in securing vital therapies, including physiotherapy, occupational therapy, botox treatments, and essential medical expenses. Over R96,000 has been raised towards the R150,000 target, a testament to the generosity of family, friends, and a growing community of supporters.

Expressing gratitude, Kylie acknowledges, “Thank you to all the donors who donated to my BackaBuddy campaign. Your belief in me has given me renewed hope and motivation to keep pushing forward.”

Her parents emphasize that Kylie has always been exceptional, a few steps ahead of the average teen, taking responsibility seriously. They reflect, “Being a parent to Kylie is the greatest gift.”

 

To contribute to Kylie’s journey to recovery, visit: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/kylie-rossouw 

 

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14-year-old Ben Fights an Unrelenting Adversary: Cystic Fibrosis

14-year-old Ben Fights an Unrelenting Adversary: Cystic Fibrosis

In the serene town of Ranzadale, Wellington, resides the Klopper family – a trio comprising 48-year-old dad, Bennie, 44-year-old mum, Nicolene, and their remarkable 14-year-old son, Ben. Life in the Klopper household may seem ordinary from the outside, but for this family, each day is a battle against an unrelenting adversary: cystic fibrosis.

 

Image above: 14-year-old brave soul Ben Klopper

 

Ben’s journey began with a diagnosis of Meconium ileus, a rare bowel obstruction that demanded immediate surgery following his birth, but the challenges didn’t stop there. Soon after, the family received another grim diagnosis – cystic fibrosis. This incurable genetic disorder relentlessly affects multiple organs, primarily the lungs. Thick mucus clogs Ben’s airways, turning each breath into a Herculean task, akin to inhaling through a straw. Their daily life revolves around nebulizing treatments, digesting hundreds of enzyme pills, and managing a multitude of medications. Hospitalizations, recurring infections, and missed school days have become part and parcel of Ben’s reality. 

“Ben has a lot of ups and downs currently with his health. As parents, it’s not easy for us to go public with Ben’s health condition, but we also can not sit back and do nothing.” says Bennie.

 

Image above: Ben and his parents Bennie and Nicolene Klopper

 

This hurdle however, hasn’t stopped Ben from dreaming and believing. Currently enrolled at Huguenot High School, Ben possesses an entrepreneurial spirit that he is certain will pave the way for his future accomplishments. Driven by an unwavering determination, he is adamant about never working for a boss and firmly believes in his potential to achieve success. In addition to his pursuits, Ben has a passion for playing the guitar and enjoys hitting the gym when his schedule allows.

“This year was the year Ben was out of school the most and his health became a challenge but Ben has never let that deter him and get in the way of his vibrant mind which is constantly teeming with new ideas. He holds a strong belief in himself, and openly acknowledges the Lord Jesus as his Saviour. Animals hold a special place in his heart, and his two dogs are his greatest companions.” Bennie states.

 

Image above: Ben, Nicolene and Bennie with their dog Fritz

 

For Ben and his family cystic fibrosis is an ongoing battle, but now a ray of optimism has emerged in the form of Trikafta, a revolutionary drug developed by Vertex. Trikafta has the potential to enhance lung function, facilitate weight gain, and boost energy levels for those grappling with cystic fibrosis. Unfortunately, the exorbitant cost of this medication places it far beyond the Klopper family’s reach. Neither medical aid nor Vertex’s efforts to make the drug accessible in South Africa seem promising.

Thankfully, an alternative solution exists – Trixicar, a more affordable version of the drug manufactured by Gador in Argentina. Yet, there is a hurdle. Trixicar remains inaccessible within the borders of South Africa, leaving the Klopper family at a crossroads, helplessly witnessing Ben’s condition deteriorate with each passing day.

 

Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy

To halt this heart-wrenching decline, the Klopper family urgently needs Trixicar. The price for this lifeline drug can range between R400,000 and R800,000, depending on dosage and exchange rates. It is at this critical juncture that the Kloppers are reaching out to their extended community, with a humble request for compassion.

The Klopper family has launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy with a target of R400 000.00 of which they have managed to raise just over R100 000 with the help of 122 donors. This campaign, launched by the Klopper family, shines as a guiding light of optimism for Ben, offering a channel for their extended network to rally behind this brave young youth.

 

Image above: Ben at the hospital getting treated

 

We had to approach the world and ask for help funding Ben’s very expensive medication. I know there are very good people in this world who understand what we as parents go through, especially with Ben being our only child. I therefore from the bottom of my heart want to thank every good-hearted person who has helped us this far. Every anonymous person, who has donated, you know who you are, thank you so much. We are really grateful for every cent donated this far.Bennie expresses.

Your contribution has the power to transform Ben’s life, offering him the possibility of a brighter, healthier future. The Klopper family is profoundly grateful for any support you can offer, as they stand together, fighting for Ben’s chance to beat cystic fibrosis and live a life full of promise and hope. Your kind heartedness serves as a source of hope and resilience for the Klopper family and, above all, for Ben. United, we have the power to create a profound, life-altering difference in their lives.

 

Support Ben’s BackaBuddy Campaign: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/ben-klopper-56838016811161

 

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South Africa’s leading crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has supported more than 10 000+ individuals and charities in setting up fundraising campaigns for medical fees, tuition and various causes in South Africa. The platform has thus far risen over R420 Million.