Zora Wegerif, a 22-year-old talented swimmer and part-time intern from Pretoria has qualified to represent South Africa in the Trisome Games 2024 – an international sporting event specifically for athletes with Down Syndrome. This prestigious competition is set to take place in Turkey from 19 – 26 March 2024, offering a platform for these exceptional athletes to showcase their talents on a global stage.
From early childhood, Zora’s affinity for water prompted her family to prioritize her safety through water safety classes. Independently swimming by the age of eight, Zora’s aquatic journey continued in South Africa with coach Tadhg Slattery and the Mandeville Dolphins Swim Club. Post-Covid lockdowns, she found a new home in the Swim4Life club, training rigorously four days a week.
Pictured above: Talented swimmer, Zora Wegerif
“Swimming has always been so important to Zora’s development. Because she has always competed and done well against swimmers with and without disabilities, swimming has been a space where she enters with confidence and determination to succeed.” says Marc, Zora’s dad.
Zora began competitively swimming in Tanzania, where her love for competitive swimming took root. Joining the Dar Swim Club, she became the only child with Down Syndrome in a group of diverse swimmers from different schools in Dar. Undeterred, Zora not only participated but excelled in swimming galas, fostering a love for the sport within an inclusive environment that pushed her to be the best version of herself.
Zora’s swimming prowess shone in national events, earning her two gold medals in the 2018 South Africa National Special Olympics qualifying gala and four bronze medals in the 2023 National Gala organized by the South African Sports Association for the Intellectually Impaired in Rustenburg. However, the path to the Trisome Games is marred by challenges stemming from the financial and administrative struggles of the official national association in South Africa.
Pictured above: Zora at her part-time internship at Kgololo Academy in Alexandra Township
“I am so excited to go to Turkey and I am working so hard to get strong for the games. I want to wear the South African colours proudly and wave our flag high.” says Zora excitedly.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Despite facing these hurdles, Zora’s commitment to her sport remains unyielding. To bridge the financial gap, Zora’s family launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, with a target of R35,925. The response from the community has been nothing short of heartwarming, with 32 donors contributing over R37,000, surpassing the initial goal.
Zora’s family extends heartfelt gratitude to all the donors who have played a crucial role in turning her dreams into reality. Their generosity not only covers the logistical and financial aspects of Zora’s journey to the Trisome Games but also advocates for inclusivity and equal opportunities in sports.
Pictured above: Zora and a teammate from her swim team
“To our friends, family, and strangers who have donated we are beyond grateful. So many who have donated have known Zora for all or most of her life and have witnessed her overcome challenges and rise above sometimes low expectations that are often based on prejudice and ignorance. We are so grateful for their friendship, support and love they have shown Zora”, the family concludes.
As Zora prepares to represent South Africa on the global stage, her story becomes a beacon of inspiration. It reminds us that, with unwavering support and determination, athletes like Zora can overcome challenges and compete on a level playing field. Your support has not only empowered Zora but also contributed to a narrative of triumph and inclusivity that resonates far beyond the pool.
Dalan Holton, a 49-year-old director at Debella Finance from Morningside, Sandton, embarked on an extraordinary journey as he approached his 50th birthday on March 1, 2024.
Pictured above: Dalan Holton from Morningside, Sandton, took on a chilly Robben Island Swim for a good cause
Unlike the typical ‘midlife crisis,’ Dalan joked, which might have led one to indulge in luxury or travel, he had set his sights on a challenge that was as symbolic as it was daunting—the swim through the shark-infested waters from Robben Island to the mainland at Bloubergstrand. This endeavor was not for personal glory but for a cause close to his heart.
“Before you questioned my sanity, let me assure you there was a method to my madness. This aquatic adventure wasn’t just about proving that I’ve still got it at 50. It was about something much bigger. I was raising funds on BackaBuddy for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship,” said Dalan.
Pictured above: Dalan training for his swim
The Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship
During his formative years at King Edward VII School (KES), one of Johannesburg’s finest academic institutions, Dalan forged a lasting friendship with Antonio Lopes. They were in the same graduating class, swam on the same team, and remained good friends for years. Years later, when Antonio’s son, Daniel, tragically passed away at the age of 12 in a freak accident on December 15th, 2018, it left a void in the hearts of those who knew him.
In his honor, the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship was founded. Known for his “grit,” hard work, and determination, Daniel excelled in academics and sports, embodying the spirit of perseverance. The Scholarship was established to support students facing financial hardships, ensuring that they could benefit from the rich educational and extracurricular offerings at KES.
To raise funds for the DLMS, Dalan launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy, aiming to hit a target of R50,000. The campaign already made a splash, raising R36,000 with the support of 27 donors.
The funds assisted two deserving students by covering 50% of their tuition fees at KES, payable for their entire high school career, offering them the opportunity to thrive in an environment that nurtures academic and personal growth.
The scholarship not only offered financial support but also encompassed emotional, social, and academic guidance through the TAG Foundation.
“I felt that attending a school like KES offered an unparalleled opportunity, and it would have been tragic for anyone to miss out due to financial constraints. The value lay not just in the education but in the whole experience that KES provided. I would have loved to be able to provide this launchpad and experience to others,” said Dalan.
The Robben Island swim
The Robben Island swim, scheduled for February 15th, weather permitting, was more than a physical challenge for Dalan. It was a symbolic passage, representing endurance, hope, and remembrance with every stroke. The swim started at Robben Island, covering a distance of approximately 7.5 kilometers to Bloubergstrand, though currents might have extended this to 8 to 8.5 kilometers.
Despite the unpredictability and daunting aspects of the swim, including cold waters and the potential presence of sharks, Dalan’s preparation and passion fueled his determination. His training, under the guidance of coach Cyndi Starr from Wahoo Aquatics and alongside training partners Andy Johnson and Suzette Prinsloo, had prepared him for that moment.
Pictured above: Dalan with Andy and Suzette
A Lesson in Laps
Beyond his professional achievements at Debella Finance, Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who worked in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee, he viewed this challenge as an opportunity to teach her about finding passion and helping others.
“Dalan shared, “Be active and push yourself. Find something you love and then excel at it, stretching yourself but finding joy in the process every step of the way. If you can find a way for the thing you love and are good at to add value to other people’s lives—do that!”
His active lifestyle, which included competitive swimming, racing cars, and practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, for which he had a black belt, reflected his dedication to personal excellence and commitment to contributing to the community.
Pictured above: Dalan is a devoted family man. Married to Alison, who works in higher education, and father to a 5-year-old daughter named Evalee.
Dalan wants to thank the donors who, through their generous contributions on BackaBuddy, had wished him “Good tides” and “smooth currents” on his chilly swim. As his challenge approached, Dalan was empowered by Daniel Lopes’ legacy and the scholarship in his name, which would have had a profound and lasting impact on the future of two deserving students who got to experience the education and camaraderie KES provides.
All donations made to this cause qualify for a Section 18A tax deduction.
Update
I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to every donor. Your generosity has not only honored Daniel’s memory but has also opened doors for deserving students at King Edward VII School facing financial hardships. This achievement reaffirms a powerful message: with commitment and a clear goal, anything is achievable.
As I reflect on the exhilarating and 7.5km swim from Robben Island to Bloubergstrand, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude and pride. Not just for completing this personal milestone just before I turn 50, but for the incredible support and generosity that has poured in. Together, we’ve surpassed our initial goal of R50,000, raising an astonishing R65,000 for the Daniel Lopes Memorial Scholarship.
Special thanks must be given to Daniel’s father, Antonio Lopes, whose presence at both the start and finish of the swim added a profoundly personal touch to the event. This swim was more than just a physical challenge; it was a testament to what we can accomplish when we band together for a noble cause. Let’s continue to support and inspire one another, proving that the spirit of community and determination can make waves of change.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being part of this memorable journey.
Newlyweds Amber Jempson, a 24-year-old Administrative Clerk, and her partner Calvin, a 25-year-old skipper from Sunningdale, Cape Town, are devoted fur-parents to Micheal, a rescue cat, and Bailey, their rescue dachshund. The remarkable and unlikely bond between Micheal and Bailey, celebrated on their Instagram page, has captured the hearts of their humble following.
Furry Instagram celebrities and best friends, Micheal and Bailey
However, tragedy struck on January 2nd when Micheal, just one-year-old, accidentally fell from the fourth floor of their apartment building. This unfortunate incident left Micheal with fractures in both of his legs, necessitating urgent medical attention.
Amber recounted the heartbreaking details of the accident, saying, “We were on the balcony for our morning sun and coffee, we had mesh up, but the estate we live in made everyone remove it due to aesthetic reasons. I looked away for a split second, and something caught Micheal’s attention on the little ledge. I did not want to scare him, so I called him back inside because I thought if he got safely out there, he would be able to bring himself safely in. He was doing great until he got his hips stuck and panicked, and in a normal cat reaction, he tried to reverse. He pushed too quickly, and I started running towards him, but I wasn’t able to grab him in time.”
Micheal and Bailey with their fur-parent, Amber
While insurance did provide some coverage, the damage caused by the fall was extensive. Amber recalled, “Micheal was awake and crying. Thankfully, there was no blood, but that cry will stay with me forever! I could see his front paw was broken, but had no idea the back had snapped too.”
The estimated expenses included R2,500 for an emergency vet visit, over R40,000 for surgical procedures, and more than R8,000 for post-operative care.
Amber, feeling helpless but resolute in her determination to save Micheal, launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy. The campaign aimed to raise R65,000 to cover the hefty medical bills. So far, it has garnered tremendous support, with 10 generous donors contributing over R17 400 to help Michael on his road to recovery.
Micheal underwent a successful seven-hour surgery at Sunset Veterinary Clinic, where screws and wires were expertly placed to mend his broken bones. The joy of his family, and especially Bailey (exuberantly wagging her tail), was immeasurable when Micheal finally returned home.
Micheal laying in his crate after his fall from the balcony
The pair, accustomed to doing everything together, is now temporarily separated by a crate as Micheal undergoes a six-week recovery process.
Amber shared the heartwarming details of their friendship, saying, “They love to play fight on the couch and go on beautiful walks together!”
The response from the Cape Town community has been nothing short of heartwarming. Friends and complete strangers, moved by the unlikely friendship between Micheal and Bailey, have stepped up to donate and send their good wishes. Amber and Calvin have been overwhelmed by the outpouring of support.
Amber shared her gratitude, saying, “We thought we were going to lose our beautiful boy. We were so overcome with emotions, but to see strangers who have never even met Micheal donating and sending good wishes, it was just so heartwarming.”
Micheal and Bailey enjoying a day at the beach
Micheal‘s journey began when Amber and Calvin were on a trip to KZN (South Coast) for their wedding. Amber shared the heartwarming story, saying, “My husband and myself had made the journey back to KZN for our wedding, and on the way down, my mother sent us a few photos of kittens. The mother had been rescued, and she had given birth to six beautiful kittens who were looking for homes. We saw the photo of Micheal, and it was instant love at first sight! He had the most beautiful blue eyes and white whiskers. We bought all the supplies needed and drove back to Cape Town as a family of 3.”
Currently, Micheal is on the mend, having completed two of his eight weeks in the crate. His bandages and stitches have been removed, and he’s yearning for cuddles and attention. While he can walk, his recovery is ongoing as his legs are still a bit stiff.
In about 7 months, Micheal will have to have another operation to remove the screws and plates, as he is still growing, and if he doesn’t have the operation, it will affect his ability to walk.
Looking ahead, Amber and Calvin are determined to move to a safer home for Micheal and Bailey, away from the dangers of a high-rise apartment. They are actively searching for a new home where Micheal and Bailey can enjoy a secure and happy life together.
In the vibrant suburb of Rosebank, Cape Town, Lauren and Luke Kincaid, both 38, are on an incredible journey marked by unexpected challenges and the unwavering support of their community as they navigate the tough road of infertility.
Their journey together began on a dating site, Tinder, seven years ago, swiftly blossoming into a deep connection that seemed destined. Though their anticipated wedding in May 2020 was delayed due to the pandemic, they eventually tied the knot in February 2021, eagerly anticipating the start of their family.
Pictured above: Luke and Lauren Kincaid
Their path to parenthood, however, was met with unforeseen obstacles. Lauren’s fervent dream of motherhood faced challenges when difficulties conceiving arose after months of trying. Medical intervention became necessary, yet navigating the realm of fertility treatments revealed a series of setbacks and unexpected diagnoses.
Despite several unsuccessful rounds of IVF in April and July 2023 stemming from Lauren’s low ovarian reserve, a glimmer of hope emerged with a different diagnosis—Hypopituitarism. This discovery opened doors to a specialized treatment using injectable medication available in the private sector, potentially enabling Lauren to conceive using her own eggs.
“After the first IVF failed my heart was crushed with disappointment and sadness but there was still hope that it could happen for us on a second round of IVF. However, when our second round failed due to no eggs and we were told that our only option now would probably be using a donor egg my world felt like it was coming crashing down around me. I had always imagined being a mother but never like this. I assumed that my child would look like me so that information was shocking and heartbreaking to take in. I just cried when the doctor relayed the news, but, after processing it that evening, both Luke and I realized that it was still a blessing that there was still a way for us to become parents even if it is a bit unconventional.” says Lauren.
However, financial constraints became a significant barrier. The overwhelming costs of fertility treatments, scans, and medications stretched their resources thin, hindering access to the required treatment.
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
In light of these challenges, Lauren and Luke turned to crowdfunding on BackaBuddy, where their story resonated deeply with friends, family, and compassionate strangers.
Over R50,000 was raised with the support of over 40 donors, helping them realize their dream of parenthood.
Pictured above: Luke and Lauren at an event
“We are immensely grateful for the overwhelming support and contributions received thus far. We acknowledge the pivotal role that every donation plays in bringing us closer to our dream of becoming parents. We wholeheartedly believe that with the support of our community, we can overcome this seemingly insurmountable challenge.” Lauren expresses.
Their journey embodies the resilience of the human spirit, underscored by the enduring power of hope and love. Your continued contributions and support are pivotal in making their dream a reality.
South Africa’s leading crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has supported more than 10 000+ individuals and charities in setting up fundraising campaigns for medical fees, tuition and various causes in South Africa. The platform has thus far risen over R490 Million.
Cape Town – In October 2021, Niki Gardner a 36-year-old mother’sworld took an unexpected turn when she discovered a lump in her breast while breastfeeding her son. It was then that her once beautiful life was turned on its axis as doctors diagnosed her with stage 3c Her2-positive breast cancer. This daunting revelation marked the beginning of a relentless battle against an adversary she never anticipated.
Pictured above: Niki Gardner
Soon after discovering the lump in her breast, Niki underwent a needle biopsy at Tygerberg Hospital, revealing lactation in the report. Subsequently, a sore manifested on her breast, progressively increasing in size and causing severe pain. Seeking a second opinion, Niki consulted another doctor who recommended a core needle biopsy, the results confirmed a positive diagnosis for cancer. Through various scans and tests, medical professionals eventually identified cancer present in both of Niki’s breasts and in her lymph nodes.
‘This news was a devastating blow to my family and I, especially to my daughter who took the news the hardest.’ Niki shared. reflecting on the emotional turmoil that accompanied her diagnosis. It was a moment that shattered her world and profoundly affected her family, especially her 11-year-old daughter who refused to believe that this is happening to her mother.
The journey that ensued was nothing short of a grueling uphill climb. Niki underwent numerous medical tests, needle biopsies, and treatments, including the notorious “red devil” chemotherapy – Adriamycin and Cyclophosphamide. Despite enduring its harsh side effects, none of these treatments initially proved effective. The toll was evident: hair loss, chronic fatigue, joint pain, nerve pain, and neuropathy became constant companions.
Pictured above: Niki’s smile shines through even during her hair loss journey
‘It took a while for me to process my diagnosis, but I quickly got my mind set right and knew I could beat this even though it was going to be hard. I knew I had to fight with all I have so I can be there for my children and see them grow up. I still have the fear of not being there no matter how positive I feel,’ Niki recalled, emphasizing her determination to overcome the obstacles.
Hope emerged for Niki when her oncologists recommended Herceptin, a targeted treatment showing promise for her condition. But, financial constraints proved to pose a significant obstacle especially without any medical aid.
However, Niki managed to undergo eight sessions of Herceptin, marking a significant step forward in her battle against cancer with the help of family and friends, who decided to support her financially.
‘The treatment is going well. The oncologists are happy with the results so far but I still have a long way to go and it is far from over,’Niki expressed, acknowledging the uphill road ahead.
On 25 July 2023, Niki underwent a modified radical bilateral mastectomy with flap closure, a step necessitated by the aggressive nature of her cancer. This surgical intervention was followed by the removal of 21 lymph nodes, signifying a critical phase in her journey.
But, the road to recovery continues with more rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, highlighting the ongoing challenges she faces.
Pictured above: Niki during her treatment
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Acknowledging the financial strain that accompanies such a journey, Niki has taken the step to launch a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where she managed to raise over R4000 of her R250 000 target with the help of 10 wonderful donors. ‘Your donation is not just a financial contribution; but a lifeline for a family facing a formidable adversary.’ Niki appealed, expressing her gratitude for the support received.
Despite the challenges that have physically, emotionally, and financially impacted her family, Niki remains resolute. ‘I have a lot more bad days than good days but I make it a habit to, on those good days, make the best of it by spending as much time as possible playing and making memories with my children.I’ve come a long way, fighting and staying strong. Giving up is just not an option for me,’she affirmed, underlining her unwavering determination.
As she continues her journey, Niki remains an inspiration to all those around her..
‘You never realize how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have,’Niki concluded, urging others to stand together in the fight against cancer and offering hope to those facing similar challenges.
South Africa’s leading crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has supported more than 10 000+ individuals and charities in setting up fundraising campaigns for medical fees, tuition and various causes in South Africa. The platform has thus far risen over R420 Million.
On September 4th, 2023, Anita Els, a resilient 57-year-old resident of Port Edward, KwaZulu-Natal, endured a distressing attack by a pack of five border collie dogs.
Recognizing the life-altering trauma Anita has experienced, the community has come together to launch a vital fundraising campaign, aiming to provide essential support for Anita’s lengthy recovery.
Pictured above: Anita with Angie, who started her BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign.
Anita, known for her warm smile from her time working at The Old Pont reception and actively involved in the local church, now faces a challenging journey of healing, both physically and emotionally.
Merely two days after settling into her new residence, within walking distance of a promising job opportunity, Anita’s life took a tragic turn. On that ill-fated day, she fell victim to a vicious dog attack, sustaining severe injuries on multiple body parts, including arms, legs, breast, shoulder, back, and lower areas. The left leg, torn down to the bone, hovered on the brink of amputation.
“After a routine walk to fetch my medication, I faced a horrifying ordeal at my gate. Initially greeted by Diesel, one of the dogs, the situation escalated when the others joined in, attacking me mercilessly. They tore my clothes, removed my shoes, and left me traumatized. One particularly terrifying dog made eye contact, viciously biting my breast and shoulder. In a desperate attempt to fend him off, I struck his snout, resulting in scars on my arm.”
“Despite the shocking nature of the attack, my landlord discouraged reporting to the authorities. I was overwhelmed, shaking tremendously, and slipping into shock. Thankfully, a member of the public called a private ambulance due to the severity of the damage and helped me escape the brutal scene,” recounts Anita, reflecting on the terrifying sequence of events.
The ambulance swiftly intervened, rushing Anita to Port Shepstone Hospital.
Over a challenging six-week period, Anita underwent two surgeries that successfully averted the looming threat of amputation, saving her left leg. Throughout this time, she demonstrated remarkable courage in facing painful wound scrubbing procedures, numerous theater visits, and considerable discomfort. The dedicated doctors and professors at Albert Luthuli Hospital played a pivotal role in the miraculous preservation of her leg. Despite enduring extreme pain and scarring following the successful integration of donor skin, Anita was given minimal pain medication during her stay.
Pictured above: Anita after surgery
Anita’s path to recovery remains extensive, and she is also grappling with the psychological aftermath of her ordeal, prompting the community to actively seek specialized consultations and treatments to support her ongoing healing journey.
After being discharged on Monday, November 3rd, she sought solace in a holiday home in Port Edward, generously provided by Vispen and Jan from Norway. The supportive community of Port Edward has thus far played a vital role in Anita’s recovery, offering assistance in various forms, from medical care to daily living essentials.
Pictured above: Anita was discharged from Hospital on Nov 3
Anita faces an extended recovery journey, requiring extensive trauma counseling. The community expresses gratitude to global friends and family, forming what Anita calls her “angel army,” for their continuous support in helping her rebuild her life.
To aid Anita, a crowdfunding initiative, led by Angie Hodgson—a trustee of the Help Foundation and a close friend—has been initiated on BackaBuddy. The campaign has already amassed nearly R23,000, contributing to the overall funding goal of R300,000. The Help Foundation, in collaboration with Pastor John Pretorius and Hazel Oosthuis, is diligently managing the funds allocated for Anita’s recovery, ensuring they cater to her essential medical and personal needs.
Angie, reflecting on Anita’s journey, said, “It’s hard to find words that truly describe what Anita is going through. She’s showing immense courage and strength as she tries to rebuild her life after facing unimaginably tough times. We’re incredibly thankful for the angels who have come together to support Anita, and her appreciation for this help runs deep.”
Currently, Anita requires extensive physiotherapy due to a shortened Achilles tendon, compelling her to walk on her toes. This demands frequent travel to the nearest occupational therapist. Despite a successful skin grafting procedure, the donor side of her leg is still healing.
Contributions to Anita’s recovery on BackaBuddy, the sharing of her story, or offering assistance, are greatly appreciated.
Pictured above: (Left to right) Christna van Rensburg (old family friend), Vicky Lund (her parents gave the use of their holiday home in Port Edward, Anita and Angie)
“If it were not for the BackaBuddy campaign, I don’t know what I would have done. How do you say thank you for such incredible kindness. The campaign has helped me get to where I am today: finally out of hospital and on the long road to recovery, as my wounds heal and I learn to walk again. The saddest part is that I am very distrusting of any dogs at this stage of my journey” – says Anita
In pursuit of justice following her ordeal, Anita did file a case against her landlord, but regrettably, it was dismissed by the public prosecutor, leaving her with limited legal recourse.
South Africa’s leading crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has supported more than 10 000+ individuals and charities in setting up fundraising campaigns for medical fees, tuition and various causes in South Africa. The platform has thus far risen over R420 Million.
Pictured above: Talented swimmer, Zora Wegerif
Pictured above: Zora at her part-time internship at Kgololo Academy in Alexandra Township
Pictured above: Zora and a teammate from her swim team
