16 Days of Activism: Your Guide to Support, Hotlines, and Actions to End GBV

16 Days of Activism: Your Guide to Support, Hotlines, and Actions to End GBV

In South Africa, gender-based violence (GBV) remains a devastating reality, with one in three women experiencing physical or sexual violence in their lifetime and over 40% of children enduring abuse before they reach adulthood. Despite its prevalence, many cases remain unreported, leaving survivors without justice or support.


The 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, observed globally from 25 November to 10 December, is a crucial time to raise awareness, provide support, and foster meaningful change.


Here’s how you can better understand, engage, and take actionable steps to address violence against women and children.

Understanding Gender-Based Violence

Gender-Based Violence (GBV) refers to harm directed at individuals based on their gender. This includes physical, emotional, sexual, and economic abuse, often rooted in power imbalances and cultural norms that perpetuate inequality.


This year’s theme, UNITE! Activism to End Violence Against Women and Girls, highlights the collective responsibility to create safer and more equitable communities.

Understanding Myths About Abuse: Why We Must Avoid Victim-Blaming

Victim-blaming silences survivors and perpetuates harmful stereotypes. Common myths to challenge include:

  • “Why didn’t they leave?” Leaving is often dangerous and complicated by fear, finances, or children.
  • “They provoked it.” Abuse is the abuser’s choice—no one deserves violence.
  • “It only happens in certain communities.” GBV transcends class, race, and geography.

Learn more about dismantling these myths at SaferSpaces.

 

How to Get Help

Hotlines for Support

If you or someone you know needs immediate assistance, these hotlines offer confidential, 24/7 support:

  • Lifeline South Africa: 0861 322 322
  • GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428 or dial 120 7867# from a cellphone.
  • Childline South Africa: 0800 055 555
  • Tears Foundation: SMS “HELP” to 1347355 for nearby support services.
  • South African Police Service (SAPS): 10111 for emergencies.

For additional resources, visit Tears Foundation.

Safe Shelters for Those in Need

If someone is in immediate danger, reaching out to a local shelter can be life-saving. Here are trusted organizations offering support:

Practical Tips for Community Action

Recognizing Signs of Abuse

Look out for these signs among friends or neighbours:

  • Unexplained injuries: Bruises, burns, or fractures with unclear explanations.
  • Behavioural changes: Withdrawal from activities or excessive fear.
  • Isolation: Being prevented from seeing loved ones.

If you notice these signs:

  • Start a conversation: Ask gently if they need help.
  • Offer resources: Share hotline numbers or connect them to local organizations.

Setting Up Community Support Networks

Follow these steps to create a supportive neighbourhood network:

  • Gather neighbours: Organize a meeting to discuss GBV.
  • Partner with experts: Collaborate with NGOs for training.
  • Establish safe zones: Create designated homes or spaces for survivors.
  • Spread awareness: Host events, distribute flyers, and share resources.

For guidance, visit SaferSpaces Community Toolkit.

Start a Campaign

Crowdfunding can provide financial relief to survivors of abuse. If you want to make a difference, consider starting a campaign on BackaBuddy. Funds raised can support survivors with legal fees, housing, counselling, and more.
Visit BackaBuddy to start your campaign today.

Digital Advocacy Tools

The digital age provides powerful tools to support survivors and amplify advocacy efforts.

Apps to Support Survivors

  • Safe Place: Crisis response and shelter information.
  • bSafe: Personal safety app with an SOS button and location sharing.
  • Bright Sky SA: Offers GBV resources and a risk assessment tool.

Templates for Social Media Advocacy

Amplify the message by using these templates:

Template 1:
🚨 It’s time to take a stand!
This #16DaysOfActivism, let’s UNITE to end violence against women and children.
💜 Share resources, support survivors, and be part of the change!
16 Days of Activism: Your Guide to Support, Hotlines, and Actions to End GBV – BackaBuddy

Template 2:
💔 1 in 3 women face GBV in their lifetime. Let’s change this. Speak out, donate, or volunteer to support survivors.
16 Days of Activism: Your Guide to Support, Hotlines, and Actions to End GBV – BackaBuddy

For more digital tools, visit End GBV Digital Tools.

Start the Healing Journey

For survivors of abuse, healing is a personal journey that takes time and support. Here are some practical steps to begin:

  1. Seek Professional Help
    Therapists and counsellors trained in trauma can provide a safe space to process emotions and develop coping strategies.
    Free Services: Explore resources like LifeLine SA or Sadag.
  2. Build a Support System
    Surround yourself with trusted friends, family, or support groups who can provide encouragement and understanding.
    Support Groups: Organizations like POWA and TEARS Foundation run survivor support programs.
  3. Focus on Self-Care
  • Meditation and Mindfulness: Apps like Calm or Headspace offer guided exercises to manage anxiety.
  • Journaling: Writing about your experiences can help process emotions and track progress.
  1. Reconnect with Hobbies
    Rediscover activities that bring joy, whether it’s art, music, gardening, or sports.
  2. Set Boundaries
    Learn to prioritize your needs and create boundaries that protect your emotional and physical well-being.

For additional tools and inspiration, visit Healing Resources from End GBV.

How to Get Involved

During 16 Days of Activism, take steps to raise awareness and promote change:

  • Attend marches or events in your area.
  • Volunteer with GBV-focused organizations.
  • Share information on social media.
  • Donate to trusted charities supporting survivors.

Charities to Support

Consider donating to or volunteering for these organizations making a significant impact in the fight against GBV:

  • Women for Change: Empowering women and advocating for gender equality. Support their BackaBuddy Campaign. 
  • Tears Foundation: Providing support services to victims of abuse. Support their BackaBuddy campaigns.
  • POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse): A grassroots organization fighting for justice and safety for women. Support their BackaBuddy Campaign.

Together, we can challenge violence, support survivors, and build a safer world for women and children.

How to Access Medical Assistance in SA Without Medical Aid

How to Access Medical Assistance in SA Without Medical Aid

In South Africa, many people face significant challenges accessing healthcare due to the high costs of medical aid. Thankfully, there are several resources and support options available to help those in need. Below, we outline ways to receive medical assistance without medical aid, including crowdfunding, NGOs, apps, social media groups, and more.

Crowdfunding for Medical Expenses

Crowdfunding can be a lifeline when facing high medical costs. Through BackaBuddy, you can share your story and connect with a community that cares, enabling you to raise funds for crucial medical treatments, ongoing care, and emergency procedures. Whether you’re dealing with a long-term condition, sudden illness, or need help with post-operative expenses, crowdfunding can be a powerful way to seek financial support and reach those willing to help.

Start a crowdfunding campaign today!

Public Healthcare Facilities

Public healthcare facilities in South Africa offer essential medical services, from chronic medication and emergency care to maternity and preventative services.

Here’s a list of key public hospitals in each province to contact if you need affordable medical care:

  • Gauteng: Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital – Contact: (011) 933 8000
  • Western Cape: Groote Schuur Hospital – Contact: (021) 404 9111
  • KwaZulu-Natal: Inkosi Albert Luthuli Central Hospital – Contact: (031) 240 1000
  • Eastern Cape: Livingstone Hospital – Contact: (041) 405 9111
  • Free State: Pelonomi Tertiary Hospital – Contact: (051) 405 1911
  • Limpopo: Mankweng Hospital – Contact: (015) 286 1000
  • Mpumalanga: Rob Ferreira Hospital – Contact: (013) 741 6100
  • North West: Klerksdorp-Tshepong Hospital – Contact: (018) 406 4600
  • Northern Cape: Kimberley Hospital – Contact: (053) 802 9111

Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) and Charities

NGOs and charities can offer crucial support if you’re struggling to access healthcare services:

  • Doctors Without Borders (MSF): Provides medical care to communities in crisis, regardless of financial constraints. Visit Doctors Without Borders for more information.
  • Gift of the Givers: Known for stepping in where help is most needed, Gift of the Givers offers assistance with medical care and supplies. Learn more at Gift of the Givers.

Free and Low-Cost Medication

If you need chronic medication or support with regular health needs, there are pharmacies and organisations dedicated to helping:

  • Dis-Chem Clinic Services: Hosts free health screenings and immunisation drives at various times of the year. Learn more at Dis-Chem Clinic Services.
  • Public Clinics: Many government-run clinics offer chronic medication dispensing and health services at no cost to those who qualify.

Apps for Medical Assistance

Accessing affordable healthcare can be as simple as downloading the right app:

  • Hello Doctor: Provides low-cost, online consultations with qualified doctors. Visit Hello Doctor.
  • Alfajiri Health: Connects you to mental health professionals and wellness services. Visit Alfajiri Health.
  • Vula Mobile: Designed for healthcare workers to make referrals, especially useful for rural patients needing specialist care. Visit Vula Mobile.

Social Media Groups and Support Communities

Online communities can be a great source of practical advice, emotional support, and information on accessing affordable healthcare:

  • Medical Advice South Africa (Facebook Group): A community where members share experiences and advice about healthcare. Join the group on Facebook.
  • CANSA (Cancer Association of South Africa): Offers information and emotional support for those affected by cancer. Connect with them on Facebook or Instagram.
  • SADAG (South African Depression and Anxiety Group): A dedicated mental health support group with resources and guidance. Follow them on Facebook or visit SADAG.

Influencers Advocating for Healthcare Access

Some influencers actively share healthcare information and promote accessible care:

Media Outlets Highlighting Healthcare Access

A few media outlets are committed to covering healthcare issues and sharing resources:

  • Bhekisisa Centre for Health Journalism: Reports on public health challenges and solutions. Visit Bhekisisa.
  • Health-E News: Focuses on stories related to healthcare access and public health. Visit Health-E.

Telemedicine Services

Telemedicine is a growing way to consult with healthcare professionals at an affordable cost:

  • Kena Health: Provides low-cost virtual consultations. Your first consultation is free. Learn more at Kena Health.
  • MediClubSA: Offers consultations via WhatsApp or phone calls at an affordable price. Visit MediClubSA.

Mobile Health Clinics

Mobile health clinics serve communities with limited healthcare access, often free of charge:

  • Phelophepa Health Train: Known as the ‘train of hope,’ this service offers comprehensive healthcare to rural communities. Learn more at Phelophepa Health Train.
  • PinkDrive: A mobile unit providing free breast cancer screening services. Visit PinkDrive.

University Clinics and Teaching Hospitals

University clinics and teaching hospitals often offer affordable care under the supervision of professionals:

  • University of Pretoria Teaching Hospital: Provides medical, dental, and psychological services at reduced rates. Visit their website.
  • Wits Donald Gordon Medical Centre: Offers specialised services at accessible prices. Visit Wits Donald Gordon Medical Centre.

Legal and Financial Assistance for Medical Bills

Sometimes legal or financial support can ease the burden of medical bills:

  • Legal Aid South Africa: Offers free legal representation, including healthcare-related cases. Visit Legal Aid SA.

If you’re navigating health challenges, remember there’s help available. From raising funds with BackaBuddy to seeking care from public health facilities, there are many routes to receive the medical assistance you need. Let’s continue to support each other and spread the word about these valuable resources.

A Guide to Supporting Those Experiencing Homelessness in South Africa

A Guide to Supporting Those Experiencing Homelessness in South Africa

Homelessness in South Africa is a growing concern, impacting individuals and families across all provinces. At BackaBuddy, we understand the importance of providing resources and support to those in need. This guide offers insights on supporting loved ones who may be experiencing homelessness, how to communicate compassionately, and a comprehensive list of shelters across South Africa.

Understanding Stigmas and Causes of Homelessness

Addressing homelessness requires empathy and awareness of the many factors contributing to it. Unfortunately, some stigmas persist that can prevent effective support and understanding. Here’s what you need to know:

  • Common Causes
    • Economic Hardships: Job loss, low wages, or insufficient affordable housing are significant contributors.
    • Health Issues: Both physical and mental health challenges can affect a person’s ability to maintain employment or stable housing.
    • Family Disruption: Domestic violence, family conflict, or loss of a family member can lead individuals to homelessness.
    • Lack of Support Services: Without access to mental health care, job training, or rehabilitation services, many struggle to regain stability.
  • Common Stigmas
    • Laziness or Lack of Motivation: Many believe those experiencing homelessness are unwilling to work, overlooking systemic challenges they face.
    • Substance Abuse: Although addiction may contribute to homelessness for some, many affected individuals struggle with complex mental health and economic issues.
    • Criminal History: A past conviction can limit access to stable employment or housing, pushing some into homelessness.

 

How to Support a Loved One Experiencing Homelessness

Supporting someone facing homelessness can be challenging, but small, meaningful actions can make a big difference. What can you do?

  1. Listen with Empathy
    Approach conversations with openness and empathy. Just being present can help them feel valued and less isolated.
  2. Offer Practical Assistance
    • Provide essential items like a meal, warm clothing, hygiene products, or transport fare to meet immediate needs.
    • Support them through fundraising on platforms like BackaBuddy, where crowdfunding campaigns can help secure essentials, temporary housing, or job training resources.
  3. Encourage Steps Forward
    Offer hope by encouraging small, manageable steps toward stability, such as exploring job training or reaching out to shelters for transitional housing.

 

Communicating with Respect and Compassion

When speaking to someone who is experiencing homelessness, an empathetic, respectful approach can make all the difference. Here’s how:

  • Be Respectful: Address them as an equal, using their name if known.
  • Listen Actively: Let them share without interrupting or judging.
  • Ask Open-Ended Questions: Invite them to share what kind of support would be most helpful.
  • Offer Help, Not Solutions: Ask how you can assist instead of assuming what they need.
  • Respect Boundaries: Recognize their need for privacy and personal space.
  • Show Compassion: Sometimes just knowing someone cares can make a difference.

 

Legal Rights of Homeless Individuals

In South Africa, there are rights in place to protect and support those experiencing homelessness. Being aware of these can provide some relief:

  • Access to Shelter: Municipalities are encouraged to provide emergency shelter to those in need.
  • Right to Dignity and Privacy: The South African Constitution safeguards dignity and privacy for everyone, regardless of their living situation.
  • Access to Health and Social Services: Free healthcare and emergency housing assistance are available for those in crisis.

 

Immediate Resources for Those in Crisis

In times of crisis, knowing where to turn for help can be life-changing. If someone is experiencing homelessness or a crisis, here’s where they can get help: 

Emergency Contacts

  • Police / Ambulance: 10111
  • National Gender-Based Violence Hotline: 0800 428 428
  • Suicide Crisis Line: 0800 567 567
  • Lifeline South Africa: 0861 322 322 (counseling services)

Mental Health Support

Job Training and Skills Development

  • YES (Youth Employment Service): Employment experience for youth, enhancing employability.
  • SETA Programs: Free training programs in various industries. Visit the SAQA SETA Program Page for more information.

 

Shelters Across South Africa

Providing safe shelter is essential. Below is a list of shelters in South Africa that offer housing, food, counseling, and other supportive services.

  • Gauteng Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Alexandra Bombani Shelter [email protected] 011 027 1513 / 079 892 9579
2 Ekurhuleni Mercy Haven [email protected] 010 444 1090 / 074 141 7603
3 Ekurhuleni AMCARE Hannah House [email protected] 011 869 5856 / 065 811 7266
4 Ekurhuleni CTC Bethesda House [email protected] 011 845 2224 / 083 433 6505
5 Ekurhuleni POWA (East Rand) [email protected] 011 901 0292 / 083 280 2334
6 JHB Metro Ikhaya Lethemba [email protected] 011 240 3600 / 066 010 8739
7 Pretoria Beth Shan Shelter [email protected] 012 379 6671 / 083 290 1968
8 Pretoria Mercy House [email protected] 012 329 6682 / 076 522 0532
9 Pretoria Youth for Survival [email protected] 012 304 0001 / 072 796 7914
10 West Rand POWA (West Rand) [email protected] 011 472 6631 / 072 819 0150
11 Durban Denis Hurley Centre [email protected] 031 301 2240
12 Durban iCare Shelter [email protected] 031 572 6870

  • Eastern Cape Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Port Elizabeth Port Elizabeth Shelter [email protected] 041 484 0511
2 East London East London Shelter [email protected] 043 722 6166

  • Free State Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Bloemfontein Bloemfontein Night Shelter [email protected] 051 430 7601
2 Welkom Welkom Shelter [email protected] 057 352 0936

  • Limpopo Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Polokwane Polokwane Night Shelter [email protected] 015 292 4620
2 Thohoyandou Thohoyandou Shelter t[email protected] 015 962 5050
  • Mpumalanga Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Mbombela Mbombela Shelter [email protected] 013 755 1000
2 Nelspruit Nelspruit Night Shelter [email protected] 013 753 9000

  • Northern Cape Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Kimberley Kimberley Shelter [email protected] 053 831 0371

  • Western Cape Shelters
No. Area Name of Shelter Email Phone Number
1 Cape Town Cape Town Shelter [email protected] 021 462 2862
2 George George Shelter [email protected] 044 874 5285

Getting Involved Locally

Homelessness can feel overwhelming, but local efforts make a difference. Here’s how you can help:

  • Volunteer at Shelters: Offer time or skills to support local shelters.
  • Organize Donation Drives: Collect essentials like blankets, hygiene products, and clothing.
  • Advocate for Change: Engage with community leaders to promote affordable housing, healthcare, and job programs.

Be a Lifeline: Support, Donate, or Champion the Cause

  • SuperTroupers Campaign: Donate here to support vital resources for individuals and families in need.
  • PMB Homeless Network: Become a Champion and join a movement dedicated to transforming lives.

If you’re looking for more ways to get involved or want to learn about additional resources, visit BackaBuddy and become part of the change.

A Support Guide for Cancer Patients and Their Loved Ones

A Support Guide for Cancer Patients and Their Loved Ones

Navigating life after a cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone. Whether you’re seeking emotional support, medical funding, or guidance on nutrition and wellness, there are resources available to help you every step of the way. This guide brings together some of the most helpful tools for cancer patients, survivors, and their loved ones. From connecting with others who truly understand, to finding practical advice, these resources are here to remind you that hope and support are always within reach.

Crowdfunding for Medical Procedures: Accessing the Care You Need

The cost of cancer treatments can add stress to an already difficult situation. Crowdfunding provides a way to share your story and raise the funds needed for essential medical procedures. By reaching out to your community, you open the door for friends, family, and even strangers to contribute to your care. Each donation helps reduce the financial burden and brings you closer to getting the treatment you need.

At BackaBuddy, we offer a platform to share your story and raise funds for life-saving procedures. You’re not just raising funds—you’re building a network of people who care deeply about your health and well-being. Start your campaign on BackaBuddy.

Finding Your Cancer Buddy: Someone Who Gets It

Connecting with others who’ve faced similar challenges can make a world of difference. In South Africa, Cancer Buddies pairs you with someone who understands what you’re going through and offers emotional support. Sharing your journey with a cancer buddy can provide comfort, encouragement, and a sense of solidarity, reminding you that you are not alone in this fight.

Nutrition and Exercise: Strengthening Your Body Through Wellness

Focusing on nutrition and exercise is a positive way to take control of your health. South Africa’s CANSA offers nutritional guidance specifically for cancer patients, ensuring you’re nourishing your body in ways that support healing. Gentle exercise can also improve your strength and mood, giving you a sense of empowerment during your treatment.

Hospice Care: Comfort and Peace for You and Your Loved Ones

For those needing end-of-life care, hospice offers compassion and comfort. South Africa’s Hospice Palliative Care Association (HPCA) ensures that you and your family receive the care and support needed during this difficult time. Hospice services focus on providing dignity, peace, and relief from pain, helping families navigate these moments with care and respect.

Free Counseling and Emotional Support: A Space to Heal

The emotional toll of cancer can be just as significant as the physical one. In South Africa, CancerCare and PinkDrive provide free support services. PinkDrive focuses on early detection, education, and support for breast cancer patients, offering free mammograms and educational resources through their mobile clinics. Having someone to listen, provide guidance, or offer practical assistance can be a valuable source of strength during your cancer journey.

Clinical Trials: Exploring Advanced Treatment Options

Many cancer patients find hope in participating in clinical trials that test new treatments. The South African Clinical Trials Registry offers information about ongoing cancer trials. Globally, the National Cancer Institute (NCI) provides details about clinical trials for various types of cancer, offering opportunities for patients to access cutting-edge therapies.

Cancer Support Groups: Building a Community of Strength

In addition to one-on-one cancer buddies, local and online cancer support groups can offer community, comfort, and encouragement. Reach for Recovery is a South African-based volunteer organisation providing emotional and practical support to breast cancer patients. Globally, online platforms like Cancer Support Community allow patients and families to join virtual support groups, offering a safe space to share experiences and receive guidance.

Apps for Support and Organization

Technology can help make managing your care easier. The CANSA iSurvivor app, specifically designed for South African cancer patients, offers tailored information and support. Apps like CareZone can help organise medications, appointments, and important health details, allowing you to focus on your well-being without worrying about the logistics.

Books to Inspire and Guide You

Books can be a source of comfort and wisdom as you navigate the challenges of cancer. Here are a few that may resonate with you:

Social Media Support: Staying Connected

Social media platforms can provide real-time support and community engagement. Following organisations like CANSA on Facebook and Twitter keeps you informed about events, resources, and stories of hope. These networks remind you that, even online, you’re part of a larger community that’s rooting for your recovery.

You Are Never Alone

In this journey, remember that your diagnosis does not define you. You are part of a vast network of support, ready to stand by you through every challenge—be it financial, emotional, or practical. Your story is unique and powerful, and each step you take toward healing is a testament to your strength and resilience. 

If you know someone who might benefit from this support, please share this resource with them. Your willingness to connect can make a meaningful difference in their journey. 

 

BackaBuddy Celebrates International Day of Charity with 0% Platform Fee for Charities

BackaBuddy Celebrates International Day of Charity with 0% Platform Fee for Charities

This International Day of Charity, we at BackaBuddy are happy to announce a transformative opportunity that will significantly boost your fundraising efforts. Previously, charity crowdfunding campaigns on our platform incurred a 5.75% fee, but in our commitment to better supporting your charitable missions and maximising the impact of every donation, we’ve now implemented a 0% platform fee for all charities raising funds with us.

 

A New Era for Fundraising

With the elimination of our platform fee, more of each donation will go directly to the causes that matter most to you. The only fees that remain are those associated with payment gateways, such as PayPal, Instant EFT, and credit cards. This change is designed to help you increase your impact and reach even more supporters.

 

Transitioning to the New Platform

To make the most of this exciting new benefit, here’s what you need to do:

  1. Start a New Campaign: Launch your campaign on our platform.
  2. Share the New Campaign: Once live, spread the word by sharing your campaign link with supporters to start generating donations.

Our new platform offers an enhanced user experience, improved campaign management tools, and better support to assist you in your fundraising journey.

 

Partnerships for Change

We proudly partner with nearly 9,000 charities, including The Gift of the Givers, Kolisi Foundation, and Rainbows, all dedicated to making a difference in their communities. Whether you’re supporting individuals facing severe medical conditions or aiding those affected by gender-based violence, BackaBuddy is home to countless campaigns fueled by compassion and commitment.

 

Join BackaBuddy’s Fee-Free Fundraising

As we celebrate International Day of Charity, we encourage you to leverage this new opportunity to enhance your fundraising efforts. Our team is here to assist with any questions to help you start your crowdfunding journey.

Together, let’s use this new initiative to further our mission of creating a better world for those in need.

A Compassionate Guide to Understanding, Processing, Supporting, and Seeking Help for Grief

A Compassionate Guide to Understanding, Processing, Supporting, and Seeking Help for Grief

Grief is a complex emotional response to loss, often associated with the death of a loved one, but it can also arise from other significant life changes. The process of grieving is deeply personal, varying greatly from one person to another. Understanding grief, how to handle it, and how to support others through it can make a significant difference in navigating this challenging experience.

What is Grief?

Grief is an intense emotional experience that encompasses a range of feelings such as sadness, anger, guilt, and even relief. It’s not a single emotion but rather a process that unfolds over time, often in stages. These stages—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—aren’t linear, and not everyone experiences all of them.

How to Process Grief

Processing grief involves allowing yourself to feel the emotions without judgement. It’s important to find healthy outlets for your grief, whether through talking with trusted friends or family, engaging in creative expression, or seeking professional help. Here are some approaches that may help:

  • Talk About Your Feelings: Sharing your emotions with someone you trust can lighten the burden. It could be a friend, family member, or a professional counsellor.
  • Seek Professional Help: Grief counselling or therapy can provide you with tools to navigate your feelings and work through your grief in a healthy way. Organisations like South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) offer free counselling services that can be incredibly beneficial during this time.
  • Take Care of Yourself: Ensure you’re eating well, getting enough sleep, and engaging in gentle physical activity. Taking care of your physical health can also help you manage emotional stress.

How to Support Someone Through Grief

Supporting someone in grief involves offering a listening ear and being present without trying to “fix” their pain. It’s about acknowledging their loss and offering comfort in ways that respect their grieving process. 

  • Listen and Be Present: Sometimes, just being there and listening is the most supportive thing you can do. Avoid giving advice unless asked; instead, offer a listening ear.
  • Offer Practical Help: Grief can make even simple tasks feel overwhelming. Offering to help with everyday tasks, such as cooking or errands, can be a significant relief.
  • Suggest Resources: Encourage them to seek support from professional organisations, such as LifeLine South Africa or Hospice South Africa, which provide counselling and support services for those dealing with loss.

 

Running a “In Loving Memory” Campaign on BackaBuddy

Honouring a loved one’s memory through a crowdfunding campaign can be a meaningful way to channel grief into action. BackaBuddy allows you to create a campaign in memory of someone, raising funds for causes they cared about or that reflect their passions and values. This not only preserves their legacy but also brings together a community of supporters who share in your loss and want to contribute positively.

How to Create a Campaign:

  1. Sign Up: Visit BackaBuddy and create an account.
  2. Choose a Cause: Decide on a cause that reflects your loved one’s passions or values.
  3. Tell Their Story: Share what made your loved one special and why this cause is meaningful. Include photos, videos, and updates to keep supporters engaged.
  4. Share Widely: Use social media, email, and word of mouth to spread the word about your campaign.

 

 

Additional Resources for Grief Support

Link to Articles About Grief

For those looking to delve deeper into understanding and processing grief, here are some insightful articles:

  • Coping with Loss: Navigating the Journey Through Grief

This article offers practical strategies and compassionate guidance for navigating the journey of grief and finding healing. Read More

  • How to Be There for Someone Who’s Grieving

This article provides practical tips and guidance on how to support a grieving friend or family member with compassion and understanding. Read More

  • The Five Stages of Grief Explained

This article offers a clear explanation of the five stages of grief and how they might manifest differently for each individual. Read More

Apps for Grief Support

In today’s digital age, several apps can offer comfort, resources, and community support for those grieving:

  • GriefWorks – An app that offers daily tips, journaling prompts, and guided meditations designed to help you process grief at your own pace.
  • My Grief Angels – This app connects you with others going through similar experiences, offering peer support and resources.

Mindfulness for Grief – Focuses on mindfulness practices specifically tailored for those grieving, helping you find peace in difficult times.

 

 

Free Resources for Grief Support in South Africa

Accessing support during grief is crucial, and there are several resources in South Africa that can provide help at no cost:

  • SADAG: Offers free counselling services and support groups for those dealing with grief and other mental health challenges.
  • LifeLine South Africa: Provides a 24-hour crisis helpline and counselling services for individuals dealing with grief and other crises.
  • Hospice South Africa: Offers palliative care and bereavement support services across the country, helping families navigate the complexities of loss.

These organisations can provide valuable support, whether you’re seeking help for yourself or looking to support someone else through their grief.

For more information on creating a memorial campaign, visit BackaBuddy.