Muizenberg’s Mother of 3, Monique Hayes’ Battle Against Aggressive Cancer

Muizenberg’s Mother of 3, Monique Hayes’ Battle Against Aggressive Cancer

Monique Hayes, a vibrant 31-year-old mother of three from Marina da Gama – Muizenberg, was thrown into a whirlwind when a check-up in June 2023, led by the discovery of a lump in her groin, delivered devastating news. Initially diagnosed with a hernia, Monique underwent surgery only to discover she had an aggressive form of cancer—stage 4 anaplastic large cell lymphoma, which had spread to her liver.

Before the diagnosis, Monique’s life revolved around her family, filled with beach outings, road trips, and a bustling, independent lifestyle.

Image Caption: Monique Hayes with her family enjoying a pool day

However, the day of diagnosis shattered her world. Shocked and struggling to process the news, she grappled with anger and the existential question of “why me?” Reflecting on her journey, Monique expressed both the struggles and moments of joy amidst adversity. 

She shared, “The emotional side of this journey has been a very long one with lots of ups and downs. My relationship with my loved ones was what kept me going.” Monique’s husband, his unwavering support, has been her rock throughout this challenging ordeal.

The treatment regimen has taken its toll, subjecting Monique to physical, emotional, and mental anguish. 

She confessed, “The treatment has been torture.” However, her positivity to overcome shines through as she continues to fight for her life, motivated by the hope of a cancer-free future.

While facing limited community support, Monique draws strength from the love of her family and close friends. Witnessing her children’s happiness amidst her illness serves as a powerful motivator, underscoring the importance of love and support during tough times.

Despite the daunting diagnosis, Monique’s spirit remains unbroken. 

She launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy in January 2024 to cover the overwhelming medical expenses that accompany her treatment. With a fundraising target of R100,000, the campaign has already garnered momentum from generous donors.

Image caption: Monique Hayes at hospital receiving treatment.

“Your generous donations will not only aid in covering the overwhelming medical expenses but will also help alleviate the weight of the numerous other bills that have gone unpaid. Your support, no matter the amount, would be immensely appreciated. Thank you for considering contributing to my cause.” says Monique.

To support Monique, visit her BackaBuddy campaign link here: 

https://www.backabuddy.co.za/monique-hayes-5818215938617821639

Alternatively, donate via Snapscan here:

https://pos.snapscan.io/qr/Monique_Hayes

Spread the word and join us in making a difference in Monique’s journey towards healing and hope.

Inspiring Education Causes on BackaBuddy

Inspiring Education Causes on BackaBuddy

Education is often viewed as the key to endless opportunities and the realization of dreams. However, financial obstacles often make this path seem impossible for many students.

As a crowdfunding platform, we at BackaBuddy connect individuals with causes they care about, and have enabled countless people worldwide to make a tangible difference in the lives of others. Last year, many inspiring students turned to our platform to raise funds for their education, highlighting that with community support and that dreams can indeed come true.

 

Here are some amazing campaigns that raised funds for education in 2023:

 

Lucky’s journey is one of unwavering determination and parental love. Seeking to secure a future for his son Immanuel, who dreams of attending fashion-design school, Lucky faced homelessness and financial hardship. Despite these challenges, he showcased Immanuel’s designs at a traffic light, hoping to raise funds. Through the kindness of strangers, R68,000 was donated towards Immanuel’s schooling and accommodation, highlighting the transformative power of collective support.

Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/immanuel-moyo-5601202135225970847

 

Marielle Hobson, a dedicated 3rd-year industrial engineering student, faced various challenges, including financial burdens due to family circumstances. Despite these obstacles, Marielle remained committed to her studies, working part-time to support herself. She successfully raised over R61,000 from 17 generous donors to cover her tuition fees, helping her continue her studies.

Read her campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/marielle-hobson-5716341702123105846

 

Hanri Steyl’s family experienced financial setbacks, making it challenging to cover her son Christopher’s tuition fees. Despite their hardships, Christopher’s determination to pursue his IT studies remained steadfast. With R37,000 raised, the Steyl family’s story emphasizes the importance of coming together to ensure deserving students have access to educational opportunities.

Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/christopher-du-toit-5704026135017869270

 

Alwyn passionately spreads the gospel in South Africa and beyond, traveling extensively to churches and schools. Seeking support for a trip to the United States for a conference and ministry training, Alwyn raised an incredible R58,000 through BackaBuddy. 

Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/alwyn-uys-5578977146153820800

 

Ongeziwe, a Director in Assurance at SNG Grant Thornton, took on the ultimate challenge of the Comrades Marathon to raise funds for disadvantaged students aspiring to become CAs(SA). With over R50,000 raised, Ongeziwe’s commitment to breaking barriers in higher education underscores the transformative potential of education in uplifting communities.

Read his campaign here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/thuthuka-education-upliftment-fund-thuthuka-education-upliftment-fund-5598659460414508261

 

These stories are a testimony to the true impact of community support and its vital role in dismantling barriers to education. 

If you face similar challenges or wish to support students on their educational journeys, join our community on BackaBuddy. 

Sign up, raise funds on BackaBuddy here: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/individual/register

 

Unlocking Opportunities: A Guide to Financial Aid for Students

Unlocking Opportunities: A Guide to Financial Aid for Students

As the academic year kicks off, many individuals are eagerly seeking opportunities to further their education and invest in their future. 

However, the financial strain on education remains a formidable obstacle for many students. In South Africa, numerous avenues for financial aid and scholarships are opening doors for eager learners, turning obstacles into steppingstones.

  • BackaBuddy: Raising Funds for Education

Link to BackaBuddy

BackaBuddy is a game-changing crowdfunding platform for individuals both nationally and abroad seeking to finance their education. Be it a degree, certification, or any educational endeavour, this platform facilitates fundraising campaigns, connecting students with potential donors. Countless campaign creators worldwide have accessed education through BackaBuddy, breaking down financial barriers. 

Sign up to register for your studies, here

Here are some additional resources to finance your education:

 

  • National Student Financial Aid Scheme 

Link to NSFAS

NSFAS, a government initiative, commits to providing financial aid to eligible South African students. The comprehensive program offers loans and bursaries covering tuition fees, accommodation, and study materials. Eligibility, based on financial need and academic performance, makes NSFAS an accessible option for students nationwide.

  • Ikusasa Student Financial Aid Program (ISFAP)

Link to ISFAP

ISFAP, a private sector-funded initiative, focuses on supporting specific fields of study crucial for South Africa’s skills development. By providing targeted financial aid, ISFAP empowers students to pursue educational goals and contribute meaningfully to the country’s growth.

 

  • Thuthuka Bursary Fund

Link to Thuthuka Bursary Fund

Managed by SAICA, the Thuthuka Bursary Fund supports students of colour pursuing chartered accountancy. Covering tuition, accommodation, and a living allowance, it ensures aspiring accountants can focus on studies without financial constraints.

 

  • Allan Gray Orbis Foundation

Link to Allan Gray Orbis Foundation

Championing entrepreneurial leadership, the foundation offers scholarships and fellowships to individuals with high potential. Covering tuition, accommodation, and providing a stipend, it nurtures the next generation of leaders.

 

  • Fundi

Link to Fundi

Fundi, another valuable resource, provides financial solutions for students in South Africa. Explore their offerings to discover tailored options that can support your educational aspirations.

 

  • Funza Lushaka Bursary Program

Link to Funza Lushaka Bursary

For aspiring educators, the Funza Lushaka Bursary Program, sponsored by the Department of Basic Education, covers tuition, accommodation, and provides a small allowance. In return, graduates commit to teaching in public schools – a win-win for education and the future.

 

  • Private Scholarships and Foundations

Don’t forget to explore private scholarships and foundations. Many organisations and companies offer financial help based on academic merit, financial need, or specific criteria. 

As the academic year unfolds, these avenues for financial aid, scholarships, and crowdfunding, along with educational loans and specialised bursary programs, stand as beacons of hope. Share this guide with those who seek knowledge, and together, let’s contribute to a brighter and more promising future for education in South Africa.

Staff Spotlight: Our Qokolweni ‘Mlungu’ returns from her vibrant village trip in the Eastern Cape.

Staff Spotlight: Our Qokolweni ‘Mlungu’ returns from her vibrant village trip in the Eastern Cape.

This December, the BackaBuddy team celebrated an extraordinary cultural exchange that captivated many on TikTok. Central to this enchanting story were two of our valued team members: Monique Weich, the enthusiastic Donor Retention Coordinator, and Lakiwe Blekiwe, the spirited Head of Charities.

Lakiwe, originating from the picturesque village of Qokolweni in the Eastern Cape, extended a warm invitation to Monique to participate in a significant local tradition: her nephews’ Mgidi celebration.

This dynamic event, deeply ingrained in Xhosa culture, signifies a young man’s transition into adulthood.

Image: Monique and Lakiwe in their traditional attire

Monique and Lakiwe, friends and colleagues at BackaBuddy, have nurtured a remarkable bond over the past five years. Their friendship, enriched by mutual respect and appreciation for each other’s cultures, has transcended the confines of the workplace, evolving into a deep, personal connection.

Together, they documented and shared their unique cultural experiences on TikTok, using the handle @qokolweni_mlungu. Lakiwe humorously mentioned having “an Mlungu on my stoep” during the holidays, reflecting the warmth and closeness of their relationship. Their posts did more than just showcase their personal journey; they provided insights into South Africa’s rich cultural heritage, highlighting the power of friendship and collaboration in bridging cultural divides.

Monique’s adventure began with a 23-hour bus journey to Mthatha, which she found surprisingly pleasant despite some delays and the sweltering heat. She experienced a bit of culture shock upon realizing she was the only Mlungu in the area, drawing curious stares and occasional photo requests, which she graciously accepted.

@qokolweni_mlungu

@Lakiwe Blekiwe showing me her home and her roots ♥️ #easterncape #village #southafrica #Qokolweni #mlungu #heritage #culture #fyp #country #southafricatiktok

♬ original sound – Qokolweni_Mlungu

“The little ones at Laki’s home were very surprised to see me. They sometimes stroked my skin and played with my hair, which was really cute,” Monique fondly recalled, emphasizing the children’s innocence and curiosity.

Their TikTok series quickly became a sensation, blending humour with heartfelt moments. It featured everything from the serene landscapes of the Eastern Cape to the lively preparations for the Mgidi celebration, capturing the essence of their journey and the vibrant local culture.

@qokolweni_mlungu

It’s Mgidi Day!! Making new friends and life long memories #easterncape #Qokolweni #village #culture #heritage #khosa #friendship #Love #tradition #fyp #afrikaans #southafrican #rural #ruralgirl #tiktoksouthafrica #sama28 #mgidi #traditionaldress #fashion

♬ Sondela – Mr Vee Sholo

The series was a hit, amassing over 637,000 views, 337 comments, and more than 12,000 likes. The comment section blossomed into a haven of positivity, brimming with messages celebrating love, respect, and positive energy.

Monique’s departure on January 3rd was bittersweet. “Leaving was hard. The time went by so fast, and before I knew it, the adventure was over,” she reflected, emphasizing the profound impact of her experience.

@qokolweni_mlungu

It’s my last day in Qokolweni. I’m leaving with priceless memories #Qokolweni_Mlungu #EasternCape #forevermemories

♬ original sound – Qokolweni_Mlungu

A particularly touching moment in their cultural journey occurred when Lakiwe gave Monique a traditional Xhosa name, ‘Nomathamsanqa’, signifying luck or blessings. This gesture was more than symbolic; it showcased the depth and respect within their friendship.

Image: Monique with Lakiwe’s mom and aunt.

Lakiwe appreciated Monique’s wholehearted embrace of her culture, noting her adaptation to new and sometimes challenging experiences.

“From pit toilets to ‘Vaskom’ baths, fermented porridge mornings, and even accepting unreliable transport as normal. What bonded us even more was her love for Mama’s steamed bread and soup – that, she truly cherished,” Lakiwe commented.

Image: Umgidi Preparations

Their TikTok posts did more than share cultural moments; they portrayed an unbreakable bond that resonated with audiences worldwide, celebrating their authenticity and joy in friendship. This story is a testament to the transformative power of genuine friendship and cultural bridging.

BackaBuddy embraces their journey as a symbol of unity and solidarity. Their path, from colleagues to confidants, reflects our platform’s ethos of fostering meaningful connections.

Follow their inspiring journey on TikTok @qokolweni_mlungu and witness the beauty of genuine friendship crossing cultural boundaries, enriched by mutual love and respect for each other’s heritage.

Monique also highlighted what she will miss the most: [Monique’s Fond Memories].

@qokolweni_mlungu

We shall see each other again ❤️ #easterncape #southafrica #Qokolweni #village #ruralvillage #culture #heritage #Xhosa #friendship #Love #tradition #fyp #rural #ruralgirl #emgidini #tiktoksouthafrica #sama28

♬ Sobonana – Q Twins

Create a crowdfunding campaign

South Africa’s leading crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has supported more than 10 000+ individuals and charities in setting up fundraising campaigns for medical fees, tuition and various causes in South Africa. The platform has thus far risen over R490 Million.

BackaBuddy, SA’s number #1 trusted, supportive crowdfunding platform

BackaBuddy, SA’s number #1 trusted, supportive crowdfunding platform

As a crowdfunding platform, BackaBuddy has gained trust and recognition for its ability to raise substantial funds, commitment to vetting campaigns, and unwavering support for individuals and charitable causes. 

 

With over R427 million raised for 54,023 causes and support from over 300,000 donors, we have established ourselves as a reliable platform for crowdfunding in South Africa and worldwide.

 

By igniting the power of collective giving, we have helped campaign creators and charities raise funds for medical emergencies, educational initiatives, community development projects, and more.

 

Our organisation places great importance on maintaining the integrity of its campaigns through a rigorous vetting process. Before activating charity profiles, our dedicated team carefully evaluates individual crowdfunding initiatives. 

 

This thorough review process ensures transparency, accountability, and safeguards against fraudulent activities. 

 

Donors can trust that their contributions will be used for their intended purpose, providing them with peace of mind and confidence in the platform.

 

We have offered support to both individuals and charities, making our platform versatile for various causes. 

 

Over 30,000 causes have been supported, and our platform’s compassionate and knowledgeable team is dedicated to helping campaigners throughout their fundraising journey. 

 

We recognize the personal stories behind the causes and strive to create a sense of community among campaigners, donors, and the causes they support. 

 

By infusing compassion and empathy into the crowdfunding experience, we hope to foster meaningful connections and a shared commitment to making a positive impact.

 

Do you have any questions?

The BackaBuddy team is here to help guide you throughout your crowdfunding journey.

Need help setting up an individual campaign?

Email: [email protected] or WhatsApp +27 60 741 0255

Need help setting up a charity campaign?

Email: [email protected] or WhatsApp +27 60 741 0255

 

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