Brandon’s Birthday Wish: Help a Cape Town Dad Finish the Home He’s Been Building with His Own Hands

Brandon’s Birthday Wish: Help a Cape Town Dad Finish the Home He’s Been Building with His Own Hands

Brandon Amronski, 62, is many things: a talented artist and photographer, a self-taught chef, a skilled potter, a gentle musician, a creative spirit, and above all — a loving dad. For the last few years, he’s poured everything he has into one dream: building a home of his own in Kommetjie, Cape Town.

With no contractor and no big budget, Brandon has been building his house — quite literally — with his own two hands. Brick by brick, alongside two faithful workers, he’s created a structure filled with hope, resilience, and heart. The project has taken over five years to materialise, as he first had to battle years of red tape just to gain approval to start construction. One year ago, he finally laid the first brick.

Brandon’s daughter, Luna, now 16, is the heart behind the BackaBuddy campaign trying to help him finish it. “I’m reaching out with a full heart and a shared dream — to help my beloved dad, Brandon, to finally finish the home he’s been building with his own two hands,” she says.

Brandon’s journey hasn’t been easy. At just 19, he fought in the war in Angola — an experience that left deep emotional scars compounded by his work as a press photographer from 1989-1998/9. More recently, he’s battled depression and PTSD while trying to recover from the devastating financial impact of COVID-19, which cost him much of his work and stability. Since then, he hasn’t been able to regain stable employment. The house became his anchor — a personal mission to create something lasting.

“This house means everything to him,” Luna shares. “It represents a place of safety, dignity, and a space where I can visit and sleep over — something we haven’t been able to do in years.”

Brandon currently lives in a small, one-bedroom cottage with no space for guests or family. His older daughter, who now lives in the Netherlands, has helped support him financially, but the budget has run out — and the house remains just shy of completion.

As Brandon’s 62nd birthday approaches on 25 July 2025, Luna hopes to give him the one thing he’s longed for: a finished home.

Instead of traditional birthday presents, Luna has set up a BackaBuddy campaign, inviting friends, family, and strangers alike to contribute toward specific costs still needed to complete the home:

  • R2,200 – Garage Door
  • R2,000 – Bathroom Tiling
  • R2,500 – One Week of Labour Support
  • R18,000 – Electrical Finishing
  • R20,000 – Geyser Installation

“Every bit helps,” Luna says. “This is more than a house — it’s a chance for him to feel proud again, to have his space, and maybe even find the motivation to re-enter the world.”

With R10,478 already raised toward their R59,000 goal, the dream is within reach.

To support Brandon’s dream and help him move into his home at last, visit the campaign here:

👉 Help Brandon Finish Building His Dream Home: https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/help-brandon-finish-building-his-dream-home

 

Timeline:

Matriculated 1981

1982-1983 SA military service

1984-1987 Ruth Prowse Fine Art

1987-1988 Winchester School of Art

1989-1998/9 Press photographer

Covid/lockdown resulted in commercial photography and magazine work drying up.

Your First 14 Days on BackaBuddy: How to Give Your Campaign the Best Start

Your First 14 Days on BackaBuddy: How to Give Your Campaign the Best Start

Launching a crowdfunding campaign can feel overwhelming — but you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

This 14-day guideline is not a checklist or a rulebook. It’s a practical, compassionate roadmap built from what we’ve seen work best across thousands of successful BackaBuddy campaigns.

Each day offers one simple, doable action to help you build momentum, grow your reach, and deepen connection with your supporters — all in a way that feels authentic to you. Whether your cause is personal, joyful, or rooted in something more difficult, we’re here to help you share your story with confidence.

Use what feels right, skip what doesn’t, and come back to it anytime you need support.

Day 0: Let’s Get Your Campaign Ready to Succeed

Before sharing your campaign, here’s how to set yourself up for success:

  • Write a clear, heartfelt story (200–500 words):
      • Who you’re fundraising for
      • What the funds are for
      • Where this is happening
      • Why now
      • What donations will cover
  • End with a thank you and a call to action
    Add 3–5 high-quality, friendly images
  • Optional: Film a short 30–60 second video introducing yourself and your cause
  • Set a realistic, specific goal (e.g. R2,000 for school fees or R5,000 for medical transport)
  • Enable thank-you messages
  • Wait to verify — we’ll do that after a few donations

Read our guide: ’10 Elements for Writing a Great Backabuddy Crowdfunding Story’

Campaigns with strong stories, clear visuals, and a video raise up to 4x more.


Day 1: Start With Seed Support

Before going public, message 5–10 close friends or family privately via WhatsApp, Messenger or Email.

Suggested message:
Hi [Name], I’ve just launched a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy to help with [brief description – e.g. my mom’s surgery or school fees.
Before I share it more widely, I wanted to ask if you’d consider being one of the first to support it — even a small donation or a quick share would mean a lot.
Here’s the link: [insert link]

Campaigns with early support raise up to 2x more.


Day 2: Share on WhatsApp Status and Small Groups

Once you’ve received 3–5 donations, it’s time to share a little wider.

  • Post to your WhatsApp Status
  • Share in family, school, or neighbourhood groups

Suggested message for groups:
“We’ve just launched our BackaBuddy campaign to help with [brief cause].
Thank you to everyone who’s already helped. If you’d like to support or share, here’s the link: [insert link]”

Suggested WhatsApp Status:
“Raising funds for [short cause]. Please support or share [insert link]”

How to post a WhatsApp Status:

1.Open WhatsApp
2.Tap Status
3.Tap the Pencil icon to write your message
4.Paste your link
5.Tap the spacebar after your link (this shows the preview)
6.Tap Send

Read our guide: “Promoting your crowdfunding campaign on WhatsApp”

Tip: Refresh your status every few days with thank-you updates or new progress.


Day 3: Reach Out to Your Wider Network

Think of people outside your close circle who would still care:

      • Extended family
      • Old classmates or teachers
      • Former or current colleagues
      • Church or community groups

Send a brief, warm message with your campaign link. A personal approach goes a long way.

Day 4: Post Publicly on Social Media

You’re ready to post more broadly.

 Tips:

  • Write a friendly caption (2–3 lines)
  • Add a photo or video
  • Include the donation link or say “link in bio”

Example Facebook post (150–200 words):

“We’ve launched a BackaBuddy campaign to support [Name], our [relationship if applicable – e.g. daughter or friend].
So far, we’ve raised R[amount] of our R[goal] — and we are so grateful.
Donations will help cover [short impact – e.g. physio or school fees].
Please support or share if you can.
[Insert link]

Instagram post example:

“We’ve launched a campaign to help [Name] with [brief cause].
R[amount] raised so far of our R[goal].
Every bit helps.
Link in bio.”

Tip: Pin your post to your profile and tag people who’ve supported you.

Read our guide: 7 Effective Ways to Promote Your Crowdfunding Campaign and Get Donations”


Day 5: Ask for Social Media Champions

Ask 2–3 friends or early donors to reshare your post with a personal note.

Suggested message:

“Hi [Name], thanks again for your support.
Would you mind resharing the post I shared about the campaign, and maybe adding a few words about how you know me or why you chose to support?
Here’s the link to the post: [post link]
Campaign link: [BackaBuddy link]”

Example caption they can use:

“I’m resharing this post from [Your Name].
They’re raising funds for [cause] and I’ve already donated.
If their story moves you, please donate or share: [insert link]”

Also do this:

    • Go to your campaign page > Manage Campaign > Edit
    • Add the link to your original social media post so others can find and reshare it
    • Tag and thank supporters when they reshare


Day 6: Film a Quick Campaign Video (If You Haven’t Yet)

A 30–60 second video filmed on your phone can boost donations up to 4x.

What to say:

    • Introduce yourself
    • Share what’s happening
    • Say why help is needed now
    • End with: “If you can support or share, we’d be grateful”

Use the video on:

    • Your campaign page
    • WhatsApp Status
    • Social media
    • Email to [email protected] (for help sharing with donors)


Day 7: Start Verification

Once you have a few donations:

    • Log into your dashboard
    • Upload your ID and banking details (secure and confidential)
    • Verification builds trust and allows payout

If anything is unclear, your campaign manager is here to help.


Day 8: Share in Groups or Forums

Expand your reach by sharing in:

    • Local Facebook or community groups
    • WhatsApp chats with neighbours or teams
    • Forums or cause-based spaces

Include a short, genuine message — don’t just post a link.


Day 9: Share a Story or Video Update

Post a quick thank-you or progress update to keep your story visible.

Suggested caption:

“We’ve raised R[amount] so far — thank you.
This campaign is for [Name], who is [short story].
We’re close to our goal of R[target].
If you’d like to support or share: [link]”

How to post a link in Instagram Stories:

1.Tap Stories
2.Select a photo/video
3.Tap the Sticker icon
4.Choose the Link sticker
5.Paste the link and customise text
6.Post


Day 10: Celebrate a Milestone

Whether you’ve raised R1,000 or more, thank your supporters.

Suggested caption:


“Thanks to over [donor count] people, we’ve raised R[amount] of R[goal].
This has already helped us [impact so far].
[Name] is [brief description].
This support has [e.g. lifted a huge weight].
Thank you.
If you’d like to support or share, here’s the link: [BackaBuddy link]”


Day 11: Share Again (With a New Angle)

Most people need reminders. Share again with a fresh approach:

    • Use a different photo
    • Add a short update
    • Include a quote or story
    • Mention how support is helping


Day 12: Follow Up Personally

Message people who:

    • Said they’d donate
    • Reacted but didn’t click
    • Helped in past campaigns

Use a gentle reminder:
“Hi [Name], just checking in — no pressure, but if you’d still like to support or share, here’s the link.”


Day 13: Share Your Story with the Media (Optional)

If your campaign has 20+ donations and a strong story, you can explore media coverage.

    • Write a short press release
    • Include 1–2 photos and a quote
    • Submit to platforms like MyPR or Pressportal
    • You can also contact local journalists

Read our guide: “How to Share Your Crowdfunding Campaign in the Media


Day 14: Donor Update (Sent by BackaBuddy)

Let your donors know how it’s going.

Email [email protected] with:

    • 2–3 short sentences about progress
    • What the support has meant
    • A photo (optional)

We’ll send the update on your behalf. Donor updates keep supporters engaged and help build long-term trust.

There’s no perfect way to run a campaign. What matters is showing up, sharing honestly, and staying connected. The BackaBuddy team is here to help you every step of the way — from setting up your campaign to reaching new audiences.

If you ever feel stuck or unsure, reach out. You’re not alone — and you’ve got this. Get your questions answered by our friendly support team, Contact Us.

Finding a Bank Confirmation Letter for Your Campaign on BackaBuddy

Finding a Bank Confirmation Letter for Your Campaign on BackaBuddy

To get your campaign fully verified and ready to receive donations, you’ll need to upload a bank account confirmation letter. This letter helps us ensure the account details on your campaign are valid and linked to you (or your organisation).

We know admin isn’t the most exciting part of crowdfunding — but we’ve made it as easy as possible. Below are step-by-step instructions to help you download the letter from your bank.

If you run into any trouble, don’t worry — we’re here to help.

Absa

Using the Absa App

    1. Log in to the Absa Banking App
    2. Select your account
    3. Tap Details, then Download Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Head to absa.co.za and log in
    2. Click Accounts, then choose your account
    3. Select Account Confirmation Letter to download or email it to yourself

Capitec Bank

Using the Capitec App

    1. Open the app and log in
    2. Tap Save, then select your account
    3. Tap Send Account Details — this will email the confirmation letter to you

Online Banking

    1. Log in at capitecbank.co.za
    2. Go to Account Info, then download the letter

Prefer to go in person?
Visit any Capitec branch with your ID and they’ll print it out for you.

Discovery Bank

Using the Discovery App

    1. Log in
    2. Tap Transact, then choose your account
    3. Tap Account Details > Download Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Go to online.discovery.bank
    2. Click Accounts, choose your account
    3. Then select Download Confirmation Letter

FNB

Using the FNB App

    1. Open the app
    2. Tap your account > More
    3. Select Account Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Go to fnb.co.za and log in
    2. Click My Bank Accounts > Account Options > View Details
    3. You’ll see the option to Download or Email your letter

Nedbank

Using the Nedbank Money App

    1. Log in
    2. Tap your account, then go to Documents
    3. Select Account Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Visit nedbank.co.za and log in
    2. Click Accounts, select your account
    3. Choose Download Account Confirmation Letter

Standard Bank

Using the Standard Bank App

    1. Log in to the app
    2. Tap your account > Details
    3. Tap Send/Download Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Go to onlinebanking.standardbank.co.za
    2. Select Accounts, then your account
    3. Click Download Confirmation Letter

TymeBank

Using the TymeBank App

    1. Log in
    2. Tap your EveryDay Account
    3. Tap More Options > Download Account Confirmation Letter

Online Banking

    1. Go to tymebank.co.za and log in
    2. Click on Accounts, choose your account
    3. Select Download or Email Confirmation Letter

 

Uploading Your Letter to BackaBuddy

Once you’ve got your confirmation letter, head to your campaign dashboard, go to the Verification section, and upload your document.

Double check the following before uploading:
✔ Your full name is clearly visible
✔ Banking details match what’s listed on your campaign
✔ The letter is dated within the last 3 months
✔ The file is a PDF or clear image (JPG/PNG)

We recommend doing this as soon as you can — this is the final step before your funds can be paid out.

Need a Hand?

We’ve put together a helpful step-by-step video to walk you through the verification process:
Watch here: How to Verify Your Campaign & Get Funds

Still unsure or stuck? You’re not alone — just drop us an email on our contact page or reach out to your campaign support manager.

We’re here to help you every step of the way. You’ve got this!

Barefoot and Brave: Graham Wells Runs Comrades 2025 to Feed the Homeless in Pietermaritzburg

Barefoot and Brave: Graham Wells Runs Comrades 2025 to Feed the Homeless in Pietermaritzburg

Pietermaritzburg, South Africa – On Sunday, 8 June 2025, Graham Wells will run his 8th Comrades Marathon — barefoot — to raise vital funds for the PMB Homeless Network (PMBHN). His mission? To raise R60,000 to provide 2,000 warm meals for those without food or shelter this winter in Pietermaritzburg.

The 2025 Comrades Marathon, covering 89.98 kilometres (55.95 miles) from Pietermaritzburg City Hall to Durban’s People’s Park, is a test of endurance — but for Graham, it’s also a powerful act of empathy.

“Running barefoot puts me, even briefly, in the shoes of those who don’t have any,” says Graham. “It’s uncomfortable, painful even, but it’s a reminder — every single step — of why I’m doing this. For those who walk the streets every day, cold and unseen.”

As of 28 May, Graham has raised R6,288 from 13 donors through his BackaBuddy campaign, Run for a Roof 2025. Each meal costs just R30, and the team’s aim is to serve 2,000 meals as a first step toward long-term support.

“We all understand the comfort of a warm meal,” says Graham. “This isn’t just about feeding hunger — it’s about restoring hope and dignity.”

Graham, who is 48 years old and currently based in the UK, began his charity running journey in 2009 at the New York Marathon. Since 2016, he has completed multiple Comrades Marathons for charity, running barefoot each year — except in 2019, when he ran in shoes to raise funds for Niqi During, a young woman living with cystic fibrosis, and in 2020, when he did not run due to injury, despite the race going virtual that year. In 2021, fully recovered, he completed a solo barefoot virtual Comrades from Mooi River to Pietermaritzburg, continuing his commitment to making a difference for others.

This year’s campaign builds on Graham’s long-running support of the PMB Homeless Network, the first initiative of its kind in the region. After years of fundraising to restore the city’s first permanent homeless shelter, he is now focused on the next critical step: making sure no one inside goes to bed hungry.

The PMB Homeless Network doesn’t just offer shelter — it provides a pathway out of homelessness. Through structured rehabilitation, reintegration, and community building, the network aims to rebuild lives from the ground up.

“We strive to build more than a shelter,” says the PMBHN team. “We aim to reconstruct lives, empower individuals, and shape a community where everyone has a place to call home.”

With the shelter now near completion and a vegetable garden already established, Graham’s 2025 goal is to help launch a feeding scheme that will supply 2,000 nourishing meals — meals that mean survival, but also dignity and care.

One moment that continues to inspire Graham came during a World Homeless Day outreach in 2022:

“A man — weak from low blood sugar — clung to a sealed ice cream like it was all he had,” he recalls. “I was simply trying to help him sit up more comfortably, but even then, he instinctively pulled it back. It showed me just how much trust is lost when someone’s lived on the edge for too long. That moment has stayed with me.”

Despite the physical toll, Graham returns to the road — barefoot — year after year.

“I’ve told myself many times I wouldn’t run barefoot again. But then I see the impact — the awareness, the donations, the people it touches. That’s why I keep going — until we’re no longer needed.”

Donations of any amount are welcome. Supporters wishing to make a tax-deductible contribution can request a Section 18A certificate by emailing [email protected]. For those who cannot donate, Graham asks only that they help by sharing the campaign.

“You don’t need money to make a difference. Even the smallest act of kindness can go a long way in someone’s life.”

How to Support Graham’s Journey

Campaign Link:

www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/run-for-a-roof-2025~2