In the heart of Franschhoek, surrounded by vineyards and dreams, a wedding and events coordinator, Eldorét Visser (38), was living what seemed to be a fairy-tale life. Newly married and mother to a beautiful baby girl named Olivia (19 months), she was juggling the demands of motherhood and a thriving career at Rickety Bridge Wine Estate, until life took an unimaginable turn.
In August 2024, just weeks before Olivia’s first birthday, Eldorét discovered a lump in her left breast. “I thought it was a clogged milk duct from breastfeeding,” she shared. But her father, Joe Breytenbach (79), an orthopaedic surgeon, urged her to get it checked. What followed was a whirlwind of tests, biopsies, and devastating news.
Pictured above:Eldorét Visser with her husband, Jaandri, and their beautiful baby girl, Olivia
“On 16 September 2024, I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. I remember sitting in the doctor’s chair, clutching my husband Jaandri’s (30) hand, unable to stop the tears. It felt so unfair.”
While raising a toddler and planning weddings for other families, Eldorét quietly endured months of aggressive chemotherapy, first one session every three weeks for four months, followed by weekly sessions for 12 weeks. “Each session came with nausea, exhaustion, mouth sores, and an immune system that couldn’t keep up. But there’s no chance to rest with an 18-month-old at your feet.”
As if fate hadn’t dealt a heavy enough blow, her father was diagnosed with colon cancer midway through her treatment. Genetic testing, an R8,000 cost not covered by medical aid, confirmed a high likelihood of recurrence. The news prompted Eldorét to make a gut-wrenching but lifesaving decision: a double mastectomy with advanced reconstructive surgery.
The surgery, a 9 to 12-hour oncoplastic procedure, was performed on 5 May 2025. “I was incredibly anxious leading up to it. They removed the tumour, drained lymph nodes, harvested fat cells from my abdomen, and reconstructed my breasts. I spent three days in ICU battling nausea, low blood pressure, and fainting spells. But I pulled through.”
Pictured above:Eldorét with her mum, Madi Breytenbach
She was discharged on day six. Movement remained restricted, and she could no longer lift Olivia or drive. Her parents stayed to help with school runs and house chores. On 21 May, doctors confirmed: “All the wounds are healing. There’s no evidence of cancer. I’m well on the road to recovery.”
Eldorét’s physical transformation was only part of the battle. “Cancer is as much in your head as it is in your body. I started antidepressants and leaned on loved ones. Losing my hair was one of the hardest parts, it felt like losing part of my identity. I wore a wig to work because no bride wants to see a sick wedding coordinator.”
Through it all, she remained anchored by her faith, her husband, and her daughter. “I waited 38 years for a baby, and Olivia is our greatest joy. Spending time with her kept me focused.”
Still, the cost of survival was staggering, over R500,000. Her upgraded medical aid covered just 15%. In desperation, a friend named Chantelle White (40) encouraged her to launch a campaign on BackaBuddy. “I was too proud to ask for help. But Chantelle said, ‘You’ll be supported.’ And she was right. I wept with every notification. The funds enabled me to pay my surgeon and go for surgery. I was blown away.”
Pictured above:Eldorét holding baby Olivia wears her wig with quiet strength after bravely losing her hair.
With the help of 86 incredible donors, Eldorét’s campaign raised over R79,000, exceeding her R70,000 goal.
To those who contributed, Eldorét says:
“Thank you seems like such an insignificant word to express my gratitude, you have changed my life and given me more time with my daughter. For that, I cannot thank you enough.”
Looking ahead, Eldorét hopes to use her experience to raise awareness around breast health. “God carried me through this. I can’t wait to see what the future holds. I want my story to bring hope to others who are still fighting.”
Thanks to the generosity of strangers, the support of her family, and her own unyielding courage, Eldorét has defied the odds, and is now cancer-free, embracing a future she once feared she wouldn’t see.
“I believe I’m destined to be the best Mom, wife, and woman I can be, and now, I finally have the chance to be her.”
In 2018, South Africans—and supporters from around the globe—rallied behind the Trevor Noah Foundation’s very first major crowdfunding campaign for #GivingTuesdaySA. This wasn’t just a fundraiser; it was a movement, igniting hope and affirming the belief that education is the most powerful tool we have to break the cycle of poverty and build a brighter, more inclusive South Africa.
That same year, comedian Trevor Noah launched the Trevor Noah Foundation (TNF) with a bold vision: to see every generation of South Africans empowered through quality education to rise above their circumstances and build on the progress of those before them. At the heart of this vision was a deep commitment to the youth—especially those facing some of life’s toughest challenges.
TNF’s pilot programme began at New Nation School in Vrededorp, a spirited and resilient government school that continues to thrive against the odds. Many of its learners come from vulnerable backgrounds, including poverty, abandonment, and even statelessness. Yet, they show up, work hard, and dream big.
Thanks to generous donor support, the Foundation was able to invest in vital areas like digital literacy, infrastructure upgrades, and teacher development. These contributions gave learners access to the tools and training they need to thrive in a fast-changing world. By creating a nurturing learning environment with skilled, compassionate educators, TNF laid the foundation for lasting change.
To amplify the campaign’s success, Trevor Noah personally pledged to match every donation—rand for rand—up to R2 million. This heartfelt gesture didn’t just double the impact; it inspired thousands to step up and be part of something meaningful. While special incentives like signed books and VIP experiences added to the excitement, it was the shared belief in the life-changing power of education that truly united supporters.
Together, donors raised R153 000 during the 2018 #GivingTuesdaySA campaign—a significant and meaningful contribution that set the stage for years of impact. More than just a number, it represented thousands of acts of kindness, moments of generosity, and a shared commitment to a better tomorrow.
The success of this campaign marked the beginning of a powerful journey. Donors became co-creators of a legacy that continues to grow—supporting TNF’s mission to achieve a 100% transition rate for matric students into further education. Because of that first spark, countless learners now walk a path paved with possibility.
Years later, the ripples of that first campaign are still being felt. It proved that when we come together and invest in education, we plant seeds of opportunity, resilience, and hope—for today, and for generations to come.
Donate to a campaign that inspires you and join a community of donors make a difference
In 2020, cricketer JP Duminy launched the Be Someone’s Tomorrow campaign in support of the South African Bone Marrow Registry (SABMR), calling on the public to help patients fighting life-threatening blood disorders access the stem cell transplants they urgently needed. What followed was an extraordinary outpouring of compassion. Through the BackaBuddy platform, generous donors came together to raise R2 800 towards the R300 000 goal — a heartfelt reminder that even the smallest contributions can spark immense hope and change lives.
For donors, this campaign went beyond a festive season appeal — it became a personal mission to offer second chances to those who had run out of options. Every contribution, whether large or small, helped ease the burden on patients and their families. Many South Africans, especially those without medical aid, simply cannot afford the high costs associated with finding a matching donor. Thanks to the generosity of donors, the SABMR’s Patient Assistance Programme was able to cover expenses such as donor recruitment, tissue typing, and transplant-related medical bills.
What moved so many to support the campaign was its deeply human focus. Donors weren’t just giving to a cause — they were giving to real people: an 11-year-old girl, a mother, a grandfather. Behind every rand donated was a heartfelt belief that no one should be denied the chance to live because of financial barriers. The idea of families spending Christmas in hospital instead of around a table with loved ones resonated deeply with many supporters, particularly during the emotional highs and lows of the holiday season.
The campaign also sparked much-needed awareness around the lack of ethnic representation on the bone marrow registry. Many donors were alarmed to learn how poorly represented people of colour are on the SABMR database — with coloured, black, and Indian donors collectively making up less than 30% of the registry. This imbalance means that patients of colour face much slimmer odds of finding a match. For many supporters, this knowledge became a turning point, prompting them to not only donate but also sign up as potential donors themselves.
Donors were instrumental in shifting this reality. Their support didn’t just help individuals in crisis — it sent a wider message about equity, representation, and the power of community. By funding critical searches and treatments, they helped ensure that patients from all walks of life were given a fighting chance, regardless of their financial means or background.
The Be Someone’s Tomorrow campaign was a reminder of what’s possible when compassion leads the way. It proved that when donors rally together with purpose, lives are saved, hope is restored, and families are reunited. Today, the impact of their kindness continues to echo through every successful transplant and every patient who got to go home — because someone, somewhere, chose to care.
For those who were part of the journey in 2020, the results speak for themselves: your generosity changed lives.
In the quiet corridors of generosity, some stories shine not only because of their emotional weight, but because of the extraordinary people who choose to act with compassion. One such person is Catherine du Plooy, Chief Growth Officer at BackaBuddy, and one of our generous staff donors.
Catherine recently chose to support the Stand by Theo & Geraldine campaign, a heartfelt initiative launched to support a beloved couple in her community after Theo’s sudden cancer diagnosis. But for Catherine, this wasn’t just another campaign, it was deeply personal.
“They’re dear friends of our family and have been for many years,” she shares. “Theo has always had such a generous heart, always looking to help others. His dad was friends with my grandfather, and their farm is right next to ours. They’re just genuinely kind, salt-of-the-earth people.”
Theo’s diagnosis came as a shock, a reminder of how life can change in an instant. “It hit close to home,” Catherine says. “My brother is also living with cancer, so I deeply understand the shock and the weight that a diagnosis like this brings. One day Theo was healthy, and the next, everything changed. It really reminds you how fragile and precious life is.”
As BackaBuddy’s CGO, Catherine spends her days empowering others to fundraise and find hope through the power of community. But this time, it was her own community that needed support, and she didn’t hesitate to lead by example.
“It feels good to be able to support them, but I also wish we could all do more,” she says. “People like Theo and Geraldine have poured so much into their community, it’s only right that we rally around them now.”
Catherine’s act of giving is more than a donation, it’s a reflection of her values, both as a leader and as a friend. “There’s something incredibly powerful about people coming together,” she reflects. “Especially when it’s for someone who has been a blessing to others, it’s like the kindness gets multiplied.”
At BackaBuddy, we are proud to have leaders who lead with heart. Catherine, thank you for showing us what it means to live out the mission, not only in the work you do but in the way you give.
Buhle Dlamini (38) from Pinetown, KwaZulu-Natal, is a devoted mother of four-year-old twins and a hardworking domestic worker who has spent years caring for others. But after being diagnosed with aggressive cervical cancer in February, she now faces her own fight—for her life and her children’s future.
A Mother’s Love, a Daily Fight
For Buhle, the struggle is not just physical—it’s deeply emotional. She now lives with constant discomfort, abnormal bleeding, and pain that sometimes makes it hard to walk. But she continues to work and care for her children, keeping much of her suffering to herself.
“I cry at night when no one can hear me,” she says softly. “I can handle the pain, but I can’t bear the thought of not seeing my children grow up. What will happen to them if I’m not here?”
Her twins, Ayabonga and Asbongi, are her whole world. Their laughter, their school songs, and even their sibling squabbles bring her pride.
“When they tell me about their friends or sing songs from school, I feel so proud,” she says. “Even when they’re naughty, I smile—it means they’re strong and happy.”
Despite her diagnosis, Buhle still gets up every morning to work. “I don’t have a choice,” she explains. “We’re a poor family. I need to keep going—for them.”
The Friend Who Stepped In
For the past five years, Buhle has worked for Trek Scale and in the home of Sherees Dalton, who has come to know Buhle not just as an employee, but as family.
“She’s become a sister—the sister I never had,” says Sherees. “We share our lives. We trust each other. When she told me what she was going through, I knew I couldn’t just stand by.”
With Buhle’s father also battling blood cancer, and little family support around her, the emotional and financial weight has been immense. “She carries so much on her own,” says Sherees. “And if Buhle isn’t here, her twins will be orphaned. That’s the reality.”
Wanting to do more than offer words, Sherees turned to action. She launched a BackaBuddy campaign—Miracles for Buhle—to raise R60,000 for the urgent medical treatment, surgery, and transport costs Buhle needs to start her recovery.
“She’s one of the most hardworking, honest people I’ve ever met,” Sherees says. “She works multiple jobs without complaint. But this isn’t something she can do alone—she needs a community to carry her now.”
A Life-Saving Campaign
Before any treatment can begin, Buhle needs a cone biopsy to determine how far the cancer has spread. From there, she may need a hysterectomy and further specialized care. But until the funds are raised, her journey is on hold.
So far, just over R3,000 has been raised from 16 generous donors. And while in need of further support, the messages and small acts of kindness are already making a difference.
“To the people who have donated—even R20—you’ve made me feel like I’m not alone,” says Buhle. “I can’t find the words to thank you.”
Her wish is simple: “I just want to live long enough to raise my children. That’s all I want. That’s what I’m fighting for.”
To support Buhle, visit her BackaBuddy campaign link here:
In 2021, JJ Ritter’s life changed forever when he was diagnosed with Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS), a rare and debilitating neurological condition often referred to as the “Suicide Disease” due to the unrelenting, excruciating pain it causes. According to the McGill Pain Index, CRPS ranks among the highest recorded pain levels—more intense than amputation or natural childbirth—with no known cure and limited treatment options. And yet, despite its severity, the condition is still often overlooked or dismissed, even within medical circles.
This lack of recognition adds a heavy emotional toll to an already devastating diagnosis. Many CRPS warriors, like JJ, find themselves isolated and misunderstood, navigating not only constant physical agony but also the emotional grief of losing the life they once knew. But in the midst of the pain and uncertainty, JJ chose to fight back—not just for himself, but for others.
At the six-month mark after his diagnosis, JJ’s spine specialist told him something that stuck with him: “The greatest defence or treatment against CRPS is knowledge.” That truth became JJ’s guiding light. As he learned more about his condition, its triggers, and how to live with it, he began to write. Not to escape the pain, but to give it a voice.
That voice became a book: Hope Undivided – Memoirs of an Ordinary Man Living with a Not So Ordinary Disease. It’s a raw, heartfelt account of JJ’s journey through suffering, resilience, and healing. It’s also a powerful tool for raising awareness about CRPS and invisible illnesses—particularly among those who feel unseen and unheard.
To bring this book to life, JJ has created a campaign on BackaBuddy with the goal of raising R50,000. The funds will support:
Publishing and printing costs: including professional editing, cover design, layout, ISBN registration, and the initial print run
CRPS awareness initiatives: tied to the book’s launch, including educational talks and outreach
Translation and accessibility efforts: including audio versions for people living with disabilities
Book distribution: to hospitals, doctors, and individuals who need it most
Supporting his family: allowing JJ to remain present and mobile for his wife and two sons—his greatest reason to keep going
With the help of 6 generous donors, JJ has already raised over R5,000 toward his goal.
JJ’s dream is simple: to reach those who feel invisible. To let fellow warriors and their loved ones know they’re not alone. And to challenge the way society views chronic illness, masculinity, and pain. Through Hope Undivided, JJ wants to shift the narrative—from silence and stigma to truth, resilience, and hope.
“Having gone through what I have so far on this journey has taught me a lot—about what to expect, what to try, what to avoid, what to do, and what not to do. This is the kind of knowledge that saved me, and it’s the kind of knowledge I want to share.”– JJ Ritter
JJ plans to launch Hope Undivided this November in honour of CRPS Awareness Month.
If his story resonates with you—whether you’ve battled chronic pain, supported someone who has, or simply believe in the power of storytelling—you’re invited to be part of this journey.
Pictured above: Eldorét Visser with her husband, Jaandri, and their beautiful baby girl, Olivia
Pictured above: Eldorét with her mum, Madi Breytenbach
Pictured above: Eldorét holding baby Olivia wears her wig with quiet strength after bravely losing her hair.
