Cape Town – In October 2021, Niki Gardner a 36-year-old mother’s world took an unexpected turn when she discovered a lump in her breast while breastfeeding her son. It was then that her once beautiful life was turned on its axis as doctors diagnosed her with stage 3c Her2-positive breast cancer. This daunting revelation marked the beginning of a relentless battle against an adversary she never anticipated.
Pictured above: Niki Gardner
Soon after discovering the lump in her breast, Niki underwent a needle biopsy at Tygerberg Hospital, revealing lactation in the report. Subsequently, a sore manifested on her breast, progressively increasing in size and causing severe pain. Seeking a second opinion, Niki consulted another doctor who recommended a core needle biopsy, the results confirmed a positive diagnosis for cancer. Through various scans and tests, medical professionals eventually identified cancer present in both of Niki’s breasts and in her lymph nodes.
‘This news was a devastating blow to my family and I, especially to my daughter who took the news the hardest.’ Niki shared. reflecting on the emotional turmoil that accompanied her diagnosis. It was a moment that shattered her world and profoundly affected her family, especially her 11-year-old daughter who refused to believe that this is happening to her mother.
The journey that ensued was nothing short of a grueling uphill climb. Niki underwent numerous medical tests, needle biopsies, and treatments, including the notorious “red devil” chemotherapy – Adriamycin and Cyclophosphamide. Despite enduring its harsh side effects, none of these treatments initially proved effective. The toll was evident: hair loss, chronic fatigue, joint pain, nerve pain, and neuropathy became constant companions.
Pictured above: Niki’s smile shines through even during her hair loss journey
‘It took a while for me to process my diagnosis, but I quickly got my mind set right and knew I could beat this even though it was going to be hard. I knew I had to fight with all I have so I can be there for my children and see them grow up. I still have the fear of not being there no matter how positive I feel,’ Niki recalled, emphasizing her determination to overcome the obstacles.
Hope emerged for Niki when her oncologists recommended Herceptin, a targeted treatment showing promise for her condition. But, financial constraints proved to pose a significant obstacle especially without any medical aid.
However, Niki managed to undergo eight sessions of Herceptin, marking a significant step forward in her battle against cancer with the help of family and friends, who decided to support her financially.
‘The treatment is going well. The oncologists are happy with the results so far but I still have a long way to go and it is far from over,’ Niki expressed, acknowledging the uphill road ahead.
On 25 July 2023, Niki underwent a modified radical bilateral mastectomy with flap closure, a step necessitated by the aggressive nature of her cancer. This surgical intervention was followed by the removal of 21 lymph nodes, signifying a critical phase in her journey.
But, the road to recovery continues with more rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, highlighting the ongoing challenges she faces.
Pictured above: Niki during her treatment
Crowdfunding on BackaBuddy
Acknowledging the financial strain that accompanies such a journey, Niki has taken the step to launch a crowdfunding campaign on BackaBuddy where she managed to raise over R4000 of her R250 000 target with the help of 10 wonderful donors. ‘Your donation is not just a financial contribution; but a lifeline for a family facing a formidable adversary.’ Niki appealed, expressing her gratitude for the support received.
Despite the challenges that have physically, emotionally, and financially impacted her family, Niki remains resolute. ‘I have a lot more bad days than good days but I make it a habit to, on those good days, make the best of it by spending as much time as possible playing and making memories with my children. I’ve come a long way, fighting and staying strong. Giving up is just not an option for me,’ she affirmed, underlining her unwavering determination.
As she continues her journey, Niki remains an inspiration to all those around her..
‘You never realize how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have,’ Niki concluded, urging others to stand together in the fight against cancer and offering hope to those facing similar challenges.
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